1、真爱，不会因为伤害而有怨言；不会因为艰难而放手；也不会因为放手而去憎恨。
1. True love does not hold grudges due to hurt; it does not let go because of difficulties; nor does it harbor hatred after letting go.
2、真爱的感觉，最开始应该是害怕：害怕他不喜欢，害怕他不接受，害怕他托词，害怕尴尬，害怕没话题说，害怕拥有因为害怕失去，一切小心翼翼……所有这些都是因为太爱，又不知如何去爱。
2. The feeling of true love should start with fear: fear of them not liking you, fear of rejection, fear of excuses, fear of awkwardness, fear of running out of topics, fear of having because of fear of losing, all with great caution… All these are because of loving too much and not knowing how to love.
3、相爱时，请一定要珍惜；转身时，请一定要优雅；挥别时，一定要微笑。
3. When in love, please cherish it; when turning away, please do it gracefully; when saying goodbye, please smile.
4、喜欢，那是想到一个人浮出的微笑。爱，是想念一个人涌出的泪水。相比于喜欢，爱带有更深刻的苦痛。
4. Liking is the smile that emerges when thinking of someone. Love is the tears that surge when missing someone. Compared to liking, love carries deeper pain.
5、恋人之间，最怕的不是情绪化，而是彻底回归平静。一旦万籁俱寂，也就是情之尽头了。越厮缠，才越厮爱。那些正在折腾着的男男女女们，别嫌烦：生命在于运动，爱情注定是折腾。
5. The most fearful thing in a relationship is not emotional fluctuations, but a complete return to calm. Once everything becomes silent, it marks the end of love. The more entangled, the more in love. To those men and women who are struggling, don’t find it annoying: life lies in motion, and love is destined to be a hassle.
6、没有誓言的爱情才是最可靠的爱情。爱情是与誓言无关的。但有趣的是，大多女人都喜欢听男人的誓言，即便是在心里并不把男人的誓言当真，也是听着幸福无比。
6. A love without vows is the most reliable. Love has nothing to do with vows. However, it’s interesting that most women like to hear men’s vows, even if they don’t take them seriously in their hearts, they still feel incredibly happy listening to them.
7、每段爱情都带点毒性：那个让你大病痊愈的，轻易就被抛到脑后。那个让你病入膏肓的，始终念念不忘。我们都渴望爱情中满是阳光的正能量。却不得不说：当某个人，只会令你开心、不再令你伤心，也就离你的心越来越远了。
7. Every love has some toxicity: those who help you recover from a severe illness are easily forgotten, while those who make you critically ill are always remembered. We all long for positive energy in love, but we have to admit: when someone only makes you happy and no longer makes you sad, they are drifting further away from your heart.
8、那一瞬间，你终于发现，那曾深爱过的人，早在告别的那天，已消失在这个世界。心中的爱和思念，都只是属于自己曾经拥有过的记念。我想，有些事情是可以遗忘的，有些事情是可以记念的，有些事情能够心甘情愿，有些事情一直无能为力。
8. In that moment, you finally realize that the person you once deeply loved had disappeared from this world on the day of farewell. The love and longing in your heart are just memories of what you once had. I think some things can be forgotten, some can be remembered, some can be accepted willingly, and some remain helpless.
9、让我选，我宁愿忘记一个我曾经爱过的人，也不愿记得一个我不可以爱的人。
9. If given a choice, I would rather forget someone I once loved than remember someone I cannot love.
10、我以为爱情可以克服一切，谁知道她有时毫无力量。我以为爱情可以填满人生的遗憾，然而，制造更多遗憾的，却偏偏是爱情。阴晴圆缺，在一段爱情中不断重演。换一个人，都不会天色常蓝。
10. I thought love could overcome everything, but sometimes it has no power at all. I thought love could fill the regrets in life, yet it is love that creates more regrets. The ups and downs keep repeating in a relationship. Changing partners won’t keep the sky blue all the time.
11、世界上有许多出色的男人和美丽的女人，然而属于你的感情只有一个，千万不要因为别人的眼光而改变自己的挚爱，千万别活在别人的眼里而失去自己，也永远不要太贪心，否则你失去的是你一辈子后悔的。
11. There are many outstanding men and beautiful women in the world, but there is only one relationship that belongs to you. Never change your true love because of others’ opinions, don’t live in others’ eyes and lose yourself, and never be too greedy, or you will regret it for a lifetime.
12、生命无法用来证明爱情，就像我们无法证明自己可以不再相信爱情。在这个城市里，诚如劳力士是物质的奢侈品，爱情则是精神上的奢侈品。可是生命脆弱无比，根本没办法承受那么多的奢侈。 ?
12. Life cannot be used to prove love, just as we cannot prove that we can no longer believe in love. In this city, just as Rolex is a material luxury, love is a spiritual luxury. But life is fragile and cannot bear so much luxury.
13、如果有人伤害了你，请一如既往的善良美好，好好享受生活享受爱情，就像没受过伤一样。终有一天，那个人会后悔错过你。
13. If someone hurts you, please continue to be kind and beautiful, enjoy life and love as if you have never been hurt. One day, that person will regret missing you.
14、如果一个人没有能力帮助他所爱的人，最好不要随便谈什么爱与不爱。当然，帮助不等于爱情，但爱情不能不包括帮助。
14. If a person cannot help the one they love, it’s best not to talk about love or anything else. Of course, help is not equal to love, but love must include help.
15、最好的爱情，是他因淡泊明志，不唯利是图，他能应对生活中出现的各种挑战和诱惑。和你在一起的时候，灿烂时，他会为你的辉煌骄傲；落魄时，他会为你的失意鼓劲。
15. The best love is when he is indifferent to fame and fortune, not profit-driven, and can face various challenges and temptations in life. When he is with you, he takes pride in your glory during bright times and encourages you during setbacks.
16、热恋的时候，不必那么现实，失恋之后，却必须现实一点。一切已经完了，各有天涯路，多么不舍，也要放手。
16. When in love, there is no need to be realistic, but after a breakup, one must be more realistic. Everything is over, and everyone goes their separate ways. No matter how reluctant, let go.
17、人生是一幅风景，爱情是一束鲜花。没有鲜花，风景就不会绚丽，没有爱情，人生就容易成为荒凉的土地。
17. Life is a landscape, and love is a bouquet of flowers. Without flowers, the landscape would not be splendid; without love, life easily becomes a desolate land.
18、人在得不到的时候，什么都可以不介意，得到之后，什么都会有点介意。这是爱情，请你不要介意。 有人问，分离的时候，到底是离开的那个人比较痛苦，还是留下来的那个人比较痛苦？应该说，爱的最深的那个人比较痛苦。
18. When people don’t have something, they don’t mind anything; once they have it, they mind everything. This is love, please don’t mind. Someone asked, who suffers more during separation, the one who leaves or the one who stays? It should be said that the person who loves the deepest suffers the most.
19、如果一段感情，没有把你变成更好的人，那么很遗憾你跟错了人。
19. If a relationship doesn’t make you a better person, it’s regrettable that you’ve chosen the wrong person.
20、当爱情来临，当然也是快乐的。但是，这种快乐是要付出的，也要学习去接受失望、伤痛和离别。从此，人生便不再纯粹。
20. When love comes, it is, of course, joyful. However, this happiness requires payment and learning to accept disappointment, pain, and separation. From then on, life is no longer pure.
21、很多人，因为寂寞而错爱了一人，但更多的人，因为错爱一人，而寂寞一生。我们可以彼此相爱，却注定了无法相守。不是我不够爱你，只是我不敢肯定，这爱，是不是最正确的。
21. Many people fall in love with someone due to loneliness, but even more people, after falling in love with the wrong person, end up lonely for life. We can love each other, but we are destined not to be together. It’s not that I don’t love you enough, but I’m not sure if this love is the right one.
22、假如爱情可以解释，誓言可以修改。假如，你我的相遇，可以重新安排。那么，生活就会比较容易。假如有一天，我终于能将你忘记。然而，这不是随便传说的故事。也不是明天才要上演的戏剧。我无法找出原稿，然后，将你一笔抹去。
22. If love could be explained and vows could be changed. If our encounter could be rearranged. Then, life would be easier. If one day, I could finally forget you. However, this is not a story casually told, nor a drama to be performed tomorrow. I cannot find the original draft and erase you with a single stroke.
23、恋爱有时是教育工作，费尽心力把那个人整理好了，然后把那个人交还给世界。
23. Sometimes love is an educational endeavor, putting in all the effort to sort that person out, and then returning them to the world.
24、真正的爱情，是不讲究热闹，不讲究排场，不讲究繁华，更不讲究嚎头的。
24. True love doesn’t focus on excitement, grandeur, prosperity, or sensationalism.
25、真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的。你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪着你。
25. To truly love someone, it is impossible to state the reasons. You just know that no matter when, where, or what mood you are in, you want this person to accompany you.
26、真爱是分享，不是占有和控制，我爱你时候，我用我的言语，我的行为，善待你，创造一个更好的你，而在这个过程中，我也就同样也创造了一个新的更好的我自己。
26. True love is about sharing, not possession and control. When I love you, I use my words and actions to treat you well, creating a better version of you. In this process, I also create a new and better version of myself.
27、因为，爱情，就是抛却世事烦琐，倾听花开的声音，没有任何声音比它美比它动人。只一瞬，便是永恒。是生生不息的诱惑，世间无人可抵挡而过。
27. Because love is about casting aside the trivialities of the world, listening to the sound of blossoming flowers, with no sound more beautiful or moving than it. In an instant, it becomes eternity. It is an ever-lasting temptation that no one in the world can resist.
28、有心的人，再远也会记挂对方；无心的人，近在咫尺却远在天涯。如果你的爱情停留在曾经，它只属于那个时间。而我们需要的不是曾今，而是现在，将来！
28. People with intentions will remember each other, no matter how far apart; those without intentions, even if close by, are worlds apart. If your love remains in the past, it belongs only to that time. What we need is not the past, but the present and the future!
29、在爱的世界里，没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁。
29. In the world of love, no one owes anyone an apology; it’s just that some don’t know how to cherish each other.
30、也许爱不是热情，也不是怀念，不过是岁月，年深月久成了生活的一部分。
30. Perhaps love is not passion or nostalgia, but a part of life that becomes ingrained over time.
31、以前我以为爱一个人，最伟大的是等待，今天重又发现，爱的伟大，除了等待，就是接受。
31. I used to think that the greatest act of love was waiting; today, I’ve discovered that the greatness of love, besides waiting, is acceptance.
32、在爱情的问题上，往往没有谁对谁错，爱情只是一种缘分。缘至则聚，缘尽则散。能够结为夫妻并相伴到地老天荒，那是珍贵的不尽缘。
32. In matters of love, there is often no right or wrong, as love is just a kind of fate. When fate arrives, people come together; when fate ends, they part ways. To become husband and wife and stay together until the end of time is a precious, unending connection.
33、这个世界上总是有那么一个人，是你的念想，是你的温暖。就算他不远不近，只要想到他，就永远会觉得安定，觉得踏实，觉得心里有底。甚至连周围的空气，都变得笃定。
33. There is always someone in this world who is your thoughts, your warmth. Even if they are not close or far, just thinking of them will always make you feel stable, grounded, and secure. Even the air around you becomes more certain.
34、真正的爱情像美丽的花朵，它开放的地面越是贫瘠，看来越格外的悦眼。
34. True love is like a beautiful flower, and the more barren the ground it blooms on, the more delightful it appears.
35、最甜美的是爱情，最苦涩的也是爱情。
35. The sweetest thing is love, and the most bitter thing is also love.
36、爱除自身外无施与，除自身外无接受。
36. Love gives nothing but itself, and receives nothing but itself.
37、爱情，你的话是我的食粮，你的气息是我的醇酒。
37. Love, your words are my food, your breath is my wine.
38、说到底，爱情就是一个人的自我价值在别人身上的反映。
38. In the end, love is a reflection of one’s self-worth in someone else.
39、真正的爱情是不能用言语表达的，行为才是忠心的最好说明。
39. True love cannot be expressed in words; actions are the best proof of loyalty.
40、爱情是个变幻莫测的家伙，它渴望得到一切，却几乎对一切都感到不满。
40. Love is a fickle creature, craving everything yet almost dissatisfied with everything.
41、爱情是女人一生的历史，而只是男人一生中的一段插曲。
41. Love is the history of a woman’s life, but only an interlude in a man’s life.
42、爱情是一个平台，上面聚集着形形色色的人。
42. Love is a platform where all kinds of people gather.
43、爱情是自由自在的，而自由自在的爱情是最真切的。
43. Love is free and unfettered, and the most genuine love is the one that is free and unfettered.
44、在遇到梦中人之前，上天也许会安排我们先遇到别的人；在我们终于遇见心仪的人时，便应当心存感激。
44. Before meeting the person of your dreams, God may arrange for us to meet other people first; when we finally meet the person we desire, we should be grateful.
45、狂热的爱情总是绝不会持久的。
45. Passionate love never lasts long.
46、离别使爱情热烈，相逢则使它牢固。
46. Parting makes love passionate, and meeting makes it strong.
47、没有什么绳索能比爱情拧成的双股线更经拉，经拽。
47. No rope can withstand the拉扯 of a double-stranded thread made of love.
48、年轻女子的爱情像杰克的豆杆一样，长得飞快，一夜之间便可参天入云。
48. A young woman’s love grows as fast as Jack’s beanstalk, reaching the sky overnight.
49、女人的一生就是一部爱情的历史。
49. A woman’s life is a history of love.
50、人只应当忘记自己而爱别人，这样才能安静、幸福和高尚。
50. One should only love others by forgetting oneself, so as to achieve peace, happiness, and nobility.
51、水会流失，火会熄灭，而爱情却能和命运抗衡。
51. Water will flow away, fire will go out, but love can withstand fate.
52、一有人反对，爱情会变得象禁果一样更有价值。
52. When faced with opposition, love becomes as valuable as forbidden fruit.
53、真正的爱，在放弃个人的幸福之后才能产生。
53. True love can only emerge after one gives up personal happiness.
54、爱情是一位伟大的导师，她教我们重新做人。
54. Love is a great teacher; she teaches us to become better people.
55、爱情是真实的，是持久的，是我们所知道的最甜也是最苦的东西。
55. Love is real, enduring, and the sweetest and bitterest thing we know.
56、爱情所需要的唯一礼物就是爱情。
56. The only gift love requires is love itself.
57、爱情需要合理的内容，正像熊熊烈火要油来维持一样；爱情是两个相似的天性在无限感觉中的和谐的交融。
57. Love needs a reasonable foundation, just as a raging fire needs oil to sustain it; love is the harmonious blending of two similar natures in boundless feelings.
58、爱情有着奇妙的魔力，它使一个人为另一个人所倾倒。
58. Love has a magical power that can make one person fall for another.
59、真正的爱情能够鼓舞人，唤醒他内心沉睡着的力量和潜藏着的才能。
59. True love can inspire people, awakening their dormant strength and hidden talents.
60、爱情是不受制约的；一旦制度想施淫威，爱神就会振翅远走高飞；爱神和其他诸神一样，也是自由自在的。
60. Love is unbound; once a system tries to dominate, the god of love will take flight; like other gods, love is free and unrestrained.
61、爱情是耗尽锐气的激情，爱情是置意志于一炬的火焰，爱情是把人骗入泥潭的诱饵，爱情将剧毒抹在命运之神的箭上。
61. Love is a passion that exhausts one’s spirit, a flame that consumes willpower, a lure that deceives people into the quagmire, and a venom that coats the arrows of the god of fate.
62、爱情是两颗心撞击的火花，爱情的法则是奉献，爱情的桥梁是忠诚，爱情的灯塔是恒久，爱情是智慧的最高艺术，爱情的脚步无法阻挡！
62. Love is the spark of two colliding hearts; the law of love is devotion, its bridge is loyalty, its lighthouse is eternity, and its footsteps cannot be stopped! Love is the highest art of wisdom.
63、爱情是生命的桂冠，摇摆就会让它落地，因为我们的灵魂没有爱情，生活下去就会很消沉。所以，要修正人格，昂起爱情的头颅，自然会时时爱待你所爱的人。
63. Love is the crown of life; swaying will cause it to fall, for without love in our souls, life becomes dreary. Therefore, we must cultivate our character and hold our love high, naturally loving those we cherish.
64、爱情是心中的暴君；它使理智不明，判断不清；它不听劝告，径直朝痴狂的方向奔去。
64. Love is the tyrant in our hearts; it clouds our reason, blurs our judgment, and rushes headlong into madness, ignoring all advice.
65、一个萝卜一个坑，说的是婚姻情况。事实上对于爱情来说是不成立的，优秀的人，不管男女，都会是一个萝卜好几个坑,所以这个世界天天上演着悲欢离合的故事。
65. One radish for one坑 (hole) is a saying about marriage. However, it doesn’t apply to love, as outstanding people, regardless of gender, can be one radish with several holes. Thus, the world constantly witnesses stories of joy and sorrow.
66、和聪明的人恋爱会很快乐，因为他们幽默，会说话，但也时时存在着危机，因为这样的人很容易变心。和老实的人恋爱会很放心，但生活却也非常得乏味。
66. Loving a smart person can be joyful, as they are humorous and eloquent, but it also poses the risk of infidelity. Loving an honest person can be reassuring, but life becomes extremely dull.
67、成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。
67. Mature people don’t ask about the past; smart people don’t ask about the present; open-minded people don’t ask about the future.
68、不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。
68. No matter how old you are or how much your family and friends urge you, never treat marriage casually. Marriage is not like playing cards; redealing comes at a great cost.
69、浪漫是什么？是送花？雨中漫步？楼前伫立不去？如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。
69. What is romance? Is it sending flowers, strolling in the rain, or standing in front of a building? If two people truly love each other, even doing nothing and just being together feels romantic. Otherwise, even if they sit on the moon, they won’t feel romance.
70、彼此都有意而不说出来是爱情的最高境界。因为这个时候人都在尽情的享受媚眼，尽情的享受目光相对时的火热心理，尽情的享受手指相碰时的惊心动魄。一旦说出来，味道会淡，因为两人同意以后，所有的行为都是已被许可，已有心理的了，到最后渐渐会变得麻木。
70. The highest state of love is when both parties have feelings but don’t express them. At this point, people fully enjoy flirtatious glances, the fiery emotions when their eyes meet, and the thrilling touch of fingers. Once expressed, the flavor fades, as all actions become permitted and expected, eventually becoming numb.
71、学会用理解的，欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。
71. Learn to look at your partner with understanding and appreciation, rather than trying to control them with self-righteous concern.
72、男人有钱就变坏，是的，很多男人这样，不过，一有钱就变坏的男人就算没钱，也好不到哪里去。
72. Men become bad when they have money; yes, this is true for many men. However, men who become bad once they have money would not be much better even without money.
73、有外遇并非坏男人的专利，好男人一样有，所以当你遇到这样的男人时，不要一棍子打死，可以试着给一次机会，能改还是可以在一起的。几十年的感情不容易，对于男人的偶尔出轨，有时候不必看得过重。
73. Having an affair is not exclusive to bad men; good men can have them too. So when you encounter such a man, don’t judge him too harshly. You can try giving him a chance; if he can change, you can still be together. Decades of feelings are not easy to come by, and occasional infidelity from men sometimes should not be taken too seriously.
74、都说一个成功的男人背后，常常有一个默默无闻的支持他的女人，那一个失败的男人的背后，是不是也常常有一个明明有闻的瞎捣乱的女人呢？
74. It is said that behind a successful man, there is often a quiet woman supporting him. Then, is it also true that behind a failed man, there is often a notorious woman causing trouble?
75、幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题，成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
75. There is no problem when immature people are together with other immature people, and no problem when mature people are together with other mature people. However, when mature people are together with immature people, there will be many issues.
76、不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎幺办？
76. Don’t pursue a relationship out of loneliness, as time can be a demon. Over time, if you are an affectionate person, even if you don’t love the other person, you may develop feelings for them eventually. What will you do then?
77、初恋的人大多都不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多。成功的少。结婚应该找个未婚的，因为谁都喜欢原装。
77. Most people who experience their first love do not truly understand love, which is why many first loves fail and few succeed. When it comes to marriage, it is better to find someone who has never been married, as everyone prefers something original.
78、离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点:好的一点是人们的观念已经趋向人性化，不再为封建思想而禁锢自己，坏的一点是对于婚姻的轻率。没想好结什么婚？
78. A high divorce rate reflects both good and bad aspects: the good aspect is that people’s concepts have become more humanized, and they are no longer bound by feudal thoughts; the bad aspect is the recklessness towards marriage. If you haven’t thought it through, why get married in the first place?
79、有的女人恋爱时让男友宠着自己，结婚后仍然要老公百般宠着自己，却忘记做为一个女人应该做的份内之事。这样的女人是不懂得爱情的。
79. Some women expect their boyfriends to spoil them during their relationship and continue to expect the same from their husbands after marriage, but they forget their own responsibilities as a woman. Such women do not understand love.
80、有的人老是抱怨找不好人，一两次不要紧，多了就有问题了，首先你要检讨自己本身有没有问题，如果没有，那你就要审视一下自己的眼光了，为什么每次坏人总被你碰到？
80. If someone always complains about not finding the right person, it’s not a big deal once or twice, but it becomes a problem if it happens too often. First, you need to examine if there is any issue with yourself. If not, then you should scrutinize your judgment, as to why you always encounter bad people.
81、幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题，成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
81. There is no problem when immature people are together with other immature people, and no problem when mature people are together with other mature people. However, when mature people are together with immature people, there will be many issues.
82、持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱，建立在平等的基础之上。任何只顾疯狂爱人而不顾自己有否被爱，或是只顾享受被爱而不知真心爱人的人都不会有好的结局。
82. Lasting love stems from true love from both hearts, built on a foundation of equality. Anyone who only focuses on loving someone passionately without considering if they are being loved in return, or only enjoys being loved without genuinely loving the other person, will not have a happy ending.
83、不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。
83. No matter how old you are or how much your family and friends urge you, never take marriage lightly. Marriage is not like playing cards; redealing comes at a great cost.
84、感情的事基本上没有谁对谁错，他（她）要离开你，总是你有什么地方不能令他满足，回头想想过去在一起的日子，总是美好的。当然，卑劣的感情骗子也有，他们的花言巧语完全是为了骗取对方和自己上床，这样的人还是极少数。
84. In matters of love, there is essentially no right or wrong. If he (or she) wants to leave you, it’s because there must be something you cannot satisfy them with. Think back to the good times you spent together; they were always beautiful. Of course, there are also despicable emotional fraudsters who use sweet words to deceive their partners and themselves into bed, but they are extremely rare.
85、和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。
85. It’s okay to date someone with different living habits, but be cautious when it comes to marriage. Consider if you can tolerate each other’s differences for a long time.
86、有人说恋爱要找自己喜欢的人，结婚要找喜欢自己的人，都是片面的。恋人不喜欢自己有什么可恋的？老婆自己不喜欢怎么过一辈子？
86. Some say that in a relationship, you should find someone you like, and in marriage, you should find someone who likes you. Both are one-sided. What’s the point of being in a relationship if your partner doesn’t like you? How can you spend a lifetime with a spouse you don’t love?
87、真爱一个人，就要尽量让他，他说了你就会，那么双方就有激情了。
87. If you truly love someone, you should try to accommodate them. If you do what they say, there will be passion between both of you.
88、在要求对方必须是处女的时候，想想自己是不是处男，如果是，你可以，如果不是，你凭什么？
88. When demanding that the other party must be a virgin, think about whether you are a virgin yourself. If you are, you have the right; if not, what gives you the right?
89、不要随便和别人上床，否则将来遇到一个真爱但他洁身自好有原则的男人，你会后悔当年的所做所为。
89. Don’t casually sleep with others, or you may regret your actions in the future when you meet a true love who has principles and maintains his integrity.
90、不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。我见过的帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多了。
90. Don’t give up on pursuing someone just because you think you’re not as good-looking as them. Appearance is only a first impression; compatibility depends mainly on both parties’ personalities. I’ve seen too many handsome men with unattractive women and vice versa.
91、女人要学会扮靓自己，不要拿朴素来做挡箭牌，不要拿家务做借口，不懂时尚，你就不是一个完整的女人。
91. Women should learn to dress up and not use simplicity as an excuse or housework as a reason. If you don’t understand fashion, you’re not a complete woman.
92、离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点：好的一点是人们的观念已经趋向人性化，不再为封建思想而禁锢自己，坏的一点是对于婚姻的轻率。没想好结什么婚？
92. The high divorce rate reflects at least two different points: the good side is that people’s concepts have become more humanized, no longer being bound by feudal thoughts; the bad side is the casual attitude towards marriage. If you haven’t thought it through, why get married?
93、都说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，那是因为婚前已经往去坟墓的路上走着。就算不结婚也会在坟墓前分手。为什么不先分手就一头钻进坟墓呢？
93. It’s said that marriage is the grave of love because couples are already heading towards the grave before marriage. Even without marriage, they would break up in front of the grave. Why not break up first and then rush into the grave?
94、只会读书的女人是一本字典，再好人们也只会在需要的时候去翻看一下，只会扮靓的女人只是一具花瓶，看久了也就那样。服饰美容是做好一个女人的必要条件，不是充要条件。你还需要多看书。这样你会发现生活更加美好。
94. A woman who only knows how to read is like a dictionary; people will only flip through it when needed. A woman who only knows how to dress up is like a vase; after looking for a while, it becomes ordinary. Fashion and beauty are necessary conditions for being a good woman, but not sufficient. You also need to read more books. In this way, you will find life more beautiful.
95、平平淡淡才是真，没错，可那应该是激情过后的平淡，然后再起激情，再有平淡。激情平淡应呈波浪形交替出现。光有平淡无激情的生活有什么意思？只要你真心爱他，到死你也会有激情的。
95. It’s true that a plain life is the real one, but that should be the calm after passion, followed by more passion and then calm again. Passion and calm should alternate like waves. What’s the point of a life with only calmness and no passion? As long as you truly love him, you will have passion until the end of your life.
96、你爱他吗？爱就告诉他，何必把思念之苦藏在心底深处。怕样子，地位，身份不相配？别怕，爱一个人是美好的。
96. Do you love him? If you do, tell him; there’s no need to hide the pain of longing deep in your heart. Are you afraid of not matching in appearance, status, or identity? Don’t be afraid; loving someone is beautiful.
97、老婆和老妈掉进了河里，我先救老妈，因为是老妈给了我生命，我找不到任何理由丢下她不管。老婆如果没救上来，我可以再给她陪葬，在墓里继续我们的爱情。
97. If my wife and mother fell into a river, I would save my mother first because she gave me life, and I can’t find any reason to leave her behind. If my wife couldn’t be saved, I could accompany her in the grave and continue our love there.
98、草率地结了婚已经是错了，再也不要草率地去离婚。先试试看，真的不行,再离也不迟。
98. Marrying hastily is already a mistake; don’t hastily get a divorce. Give it a try first, and if it really doesn’t work, then divorce is not too late.
99、魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女人不一定能吸引我，端庄幽雅的女人我才喜欢。所以你不用担心自己不够漂亮。
99. What is charm? Charm is not about being beautiful. A beautiful woman may not attract me; I prefer women who are dignified, elegant, and graceful. So you don’t have to worry about not being beautiful enough.
100、初恋都让人难忘，觉得美好。为什么？不是因为他（她）很漂亮或很帅，也不是因为得不到的就是好的，而是因为人初涉爱河时心里异常纯真，绝无私心杂念，只知道倾己所有去爱对方。而以后的爱情都没有这么纯洁无瑕了。纯真是人世间最为可贵的东西。我们渴求的就是她。
100. First love is always unforgettable and beautiful. Why? Not because he/she is pretty or handsome, nor because what you can’t get is the best, but because when people first fall in love, their hearts are exceptionally pure, with no selfish thoughts, only knowing how to give their all to love the other person. In future relationships, love is not as pure and flawless. Purity is the most precious thing in the world, and that’s what we desire.
1、我倔强的不愿屈服，换来的却也只是伤痕累累。
1. I stubbornly refuse to yield, only to end up with scars all over my body.
2、谁都不想辜负的人，最后很可能会辜负自己。
2. Not wanting to let anyone down may eventually lead to letting yourself down.
3、重要的不是他有多好，而是他对你有多好。
3. What’s important is not how good he is, but how good he is to you.
4、爱情就像两个拉皮筋的人，受伤总是不愿放手的。
4. Love is like two people pulling a rubber band; the one who gets hurt always unwilling to let go.
5、真正的爱，应该超越生命的长度、心灵的宽度、灵魂的深度。
5. True love should surpass the length of life, the width of the mind, and the depth of the soul.
6、恋爱就是无数个饭局，结婚就是一个饭局。
6. Love is countless dinners, and marriage is just one dinner.
7、总有那么一些事，来不及等我们去决定，就已经无法改变。
7. There are always some things that cannot wait for us to decide before they become unchangeable.
8、谈恋爱就像剥洋葱，总有一层让你泪流。
8. Falling in love is like peeling an onion; there’s always a layer that makes you cry.
9、维系一段感情的，不是坦白，而是考虑到对方的感受，有所保留。
9. Maintaining a relationship depends not on honesty but on considering the other person’s feelings and knowing when to hold back.
10、适当的悲伤可以表示感情的深切，过度的伤心却可以证明智慧的欠缺。
10.适度的悲伤可以表示感情的深切，过度的伤心却可以证明智慧的欠缺。
11、谈恋爱就像射击一样，精确度虽高，但大部分都需要凭感觉去完成。
11. Falling in love is like shooting; although the accuracy is high, most of it needs to be done based on feelings.
12、即使说一千遍我爱你，但只要一句分手就可以结束。这就是爱情。
12. Even if you say “I love you” a thousand times, one “break up” can end it all. That’s love.
13、只有最聪明的女人才知道，体谅和理解永远比最动人的容貌还能令男人动心。
13. Only the wisest women know that understanding and empathy can be more touching to men than the most captivating appearance.
14、彼岸花，花开无叶，叶生无花，相念相惜却不得相见。
14. The flower on the other shore blooms without leaves, and the leaves grow without flowers, longing for each other but never meeting.
15、所谓幸福，就是一个笨蛋遇到一个傻瓜，引来无数人的羡慕和嫉妒。
15. So-called happiness is when a fool meets a simpleton, attracting the envy and jealousy of countless people.
16、真正爱我的人，绝不会离开我。他纵有千百个理由放弃，却也总会找一个理由坚持下去。
16. The one who truly loves me will never leave me. Even with a thousand reasons to give up, they will always find one reason to persist.
17、只要你明白，珍惜爱与被爱，我愿意等待，你给我的未来。
17. As long as you understand the importance of cherishing love and being loved, I am willing to wait for the future you give me.
18、相爱却不能相恋，相恋却不相爱。既相爱又相恋的我们却不能相守一生。
18. Loving but not being in a relationship, being in a relationship but not loving. We who both love and are in a relationship cannot stay together for a lifetime.
19、情断了，绑不住，试着放手，走与不走，留与不留，我不想懂。
19. The love is broken, can’t be tied, try to let go, whether to leave or stay, I don’t want to understand.
20、真爱，就是对你的一切缺点都熟视无睹，并且能无限放大你的优点的人。
20. True love is when someone turns a blind eye to all your flaws and can infinitely magnify your strengths.
21、爱她，就不要给她乱想的机会。因为你永远不会知道，为你乱想的人是多么的爱你。
21. If you love her, don’t give her the chance to worry. Because you will never know how much the person who worries for you loves you.
22、爱情和婚姻就像拾贝壳，不要捡最大、最漂亮的，要捡自己最喜欢、最适合的，并且，捡到了就不要再去海滩了。
22. Love and marriage are like picking up seashells; don’t pick the biggest or most beautiful ones, but the ones you like the most and suit you best. And once you’ve picked one, don’t go back to the beach.
23、当一份感情不属于你的时候，它根本也对你没有一点价值，所以你也不必认为它是一种损失。
23. When a relationship doesn’t belong to you, it has no value to you at all, so you don’t have to consider it a loss.
24、真心爱你的人，不会对你忽冷忽热；真心追你的人，不会跟你玩暧昧；真心要娶你的人，不会胡乱承诺。
24. Those who truly love you will not be hot and cold with you; those who truly pursue you will not play ambiguity with you; those who truly want to marry you will not make reckless promises.
25、如果我从没遇见你，如果我从没爱上你，如果我一开始没坚信，也许我就不会是现在的这个自己。
25. If I had never met you, if I had never fallen in love with you, if I hadn’t believed in it from the beginning, maybe I wouldn’t be the person I am now.
26、只希望你和我好，互不猜忌，也互不称誉，安如平日，你和我说话像对自己说话一样，我和你说话也像对自己说话一样。
26. I only hope that you and I will be good to each other, without suspicion or praise, as peaceful as usual. You talk to me like you’re talking to yourself, and I talk to you the same way.
27、真正的幸福是一点一点争取的，是一天一天积累的。不要去伤害喜欢你的人，也不要让你喜欢的人受伤害。
27. True happiness is gained little by little and accumulated day by day. Don’t hurt those who like you, and don’t let those you like get hurt.
28、爱必经三阶段：心动、心念、心痛。只心动，那是喜欢；只心动、心念，那是钟情；有爱必有痛。
28. Love goes through three stages: heartbeat, thoughts, and heartache. Just heartbeat, that’s liking; heartbeat and thoughts, that’s infatuation; there must be pain in love.
29、爱情像一只表，不上发条就会停摆；婚姻像一只钟，除了必须上发条，还得忍受每隔一小时就“当，当“作响的钟声!
29. Love is like a watch, which stops when not wound; marriage is like a clock, which needs to be wound and also requires enduring the “dong, dong” sound every hour!
30、这是不是你一直想要的生活，只闻花香，不谈悲喜，喝茶读书，不争朝夕。阳光暖一点，再暖一点，日子慢一些，再慢一些。
30. Is this the life you’ve always wanted, smelling only the fragrance of flowers, not talking about joys and sorrows, drinking tea and reading books, not competing for time. A little warmer sunshine, even warmer, and slower days, even slower.
31、爱情和机会没有关系，爱情是同一个苹果切成两半后重新吻合。我相信能量守恒，每个人的爱情都是有限的，用完就没了。
31. Love has nothing to do with chance; love is like two halves of an apple fitting together again. I believe in the conservation of energy, everyone’s love is limited, once used up, it’s gone.
32、这么多年，这么多人经过我的生活，可是为什么偏偏是你，看起来好像最应该是过客的你，在我心中占据了这么重的地位。
32. After so many years and so many people passing through my life, why is it you, who seem to be the most likely passerby, occupying such an important position in my heart?
33、如果把爱情经营成亲情，尽管分不开，但是会越来越没感觉。亲情给人温暖的感觉，爱情给人浪漫温馨的感觉，亲情里不可能有浪漫，爱情里却可以有温暖。所以，爱情不是亲情，爱人不是亲人。
33. If you turn love into affection, although inseparable, the feelings will gradually fade. Affection gives a warm feeling, while love gives a romantic and sweet feeling. There can be no romance in affection, but there can be warmth in love. Therefore, love is not affection, and a lover is not a relative.
34、婚姻是爱情的坟墓，因为婚姻是依靠法律维系的，爱情则依靠浪漫。浪漫的事，大多发生在恋爱时，它是确认两人亲密关系的重要手段。婚后两人除了彼此责任之外，如果还能继续浪漫，爱情之树就常青了。
34. Marriage is the grave of love because it relies on the law, while love relies on romance. Most romantic things happen during courtship, which is an important means to confirm the intimate relationship between two people. If a couple can continue to be romantic after marriage, in addition to their responsibilities to each other, the tree of love will remain evergreen.
35、爱让一个人失去自我，情让一个人无法超脱。爱上一个人，最终会爱上寂寞，爱上一个人，最终会习惯冷落。慢慢你会懂得，只有爱是不够的，滚滚红尘，你需要的远比爱更多，比爱更温暖的是拥抱，比爱更久远的是牵手，比爱更灿烂的是笑容。
35. Love makes a person lose themselves, and affection makes it impossible to transcend. Falling in love with someone will eventually lead to loving loneliness and getting used to neglect. Gradually, you will understand that love is not enough. In this world, you need more than love, something warmer than love is a hug, something longer-lasting than love is holding hands, and something more brilliant than love is a smile.
36、爱上一个人，可能不需要什么理由，但是不爱一个人时，一定得弄清楚原因，要不然，同样的伤感故事还会重演。
36. Falling in love with someone may not require any reason, but when you stop loving someone, you must figure out the reason. Otherwise, the same sad story will be repeated.
37、何时何地，你都要明白，你是活给自己看的，别把别人的评价看得太重，凡事只要于心无愧，就不必计较太多。
37. When and where, you must understand that you are living for yourself. Don’t take other people’s evaluations too seriously. As long as you have a clear conscience, there is no need to worry too much.
38、过分强调自己的欲望，是为聒噪；过度主张自己的嫌恶，是为烦躁；无法平息自身的迷惘，是为浮躁。
38. Over-emphasizing one’s desires is called noise; over-asserting one’s dislikes is called irritability; being unable to calm one’s own confusion is called impetuosity.
39、感情不需要诺言、协议与条件。它只需要两个人：一个能够信任的人，一个愿意理解的人。
39. Relationships do not need promises, agreements, or conditions. They only need two people: one who can be trusted and one who is willing to understand.
40、佛曰：缘来天注定，缘去人自夺。种如是因，收如是果，一切唯心造。笑言面对，不去埋怨。悠然，随心，随性，随缘。
40. Buddha said: Fate comes from heaven, and fate goes by one’s own choice. Plant such causes, harvest such fruits, all created by the mind. Face it with a smile, without complaints. Leisurely, follow the heart, follow one’s nature, follow fate.
41、风往哪个方向吹，草就要往哪个方向倒。我们总以为现实是风、梦想是草。但如果你愿意，梦想就可以是风。
41. The grass leans in the direction the wind blows. We always think reality is the wind and dreams are the grass. But if you are willing, dreams can be the wind.
42、对所有的人以诚相待，同多数人和睦相处，和少数人常来常往，只跟一个亲密无间。
42. Treat everyone with sincerity, get along well with most people, maintain close relationships with a few, and be intimate with only one.
43、感情就像白米饭，浪漫就像桌上的菜。人饿时，会想着吃饭，但吃完后，更多人喜欢评论菜好不好吃，而忽略白米饭的味道。
43. Emotions are like plain white rice, while romance is like the dishes on the table. When people are hungry, they think about eating, but after they finish, more people like to comment on whether the dishes are tasty, ignoring the taste of the white rice.
44、对别人微笑一次，实际上就用行动爱了一次，送了一件爱的礼物，一样美妙的东西。
44. Smiling at someone else is actually loving them through action, giving a gift of love, and sharing something wonderful.
45、都说时光飞逝，其实时间一直都在，只是自己的心在变，情在变。人说抵挡不过时间，其实是时间抵挡不过我们的善变。
45. People say that time flies, but in fact, time is always there; it’s just that our hearts and emotions are changing. When people say they can’t resist the passage of time, it’s actually the time that can’t resist our fickle nature.
46、我会一直奔跑，一直奔跑，直到世界的尽头，也要一直奔跑。带上我所有的家当：勇敢、坚持、隐忍，以及耐得住寂寞的心。
46. I will keep running, running until the end of the world, with all my belongings: courage, persistence, patience, and a heart that can endure loneliness.
47、我想许多事情都是这样，善始未必善终，本想执子之手，与子偕老，却不想，你执琴弓，割我若弦。
47. I think many things are like this: a good beginning doesn’t necessarily lead to a good end. I wanted to hold your hand and grow old together with you, but I didn’t expect that you would hold the bow and cut me like a string.
48、我喜欢那些让我笑起来的人，就算是我不想笑的时候。
48. I like those people who can make me laugh, even when I don’t feel like smiling.
49、我希望有这么一个人、不嫌弃我的坏脾气、不嫌弃我的坏习惯、不嫌弃我的家境怎样，始终站在我身边，一不小心就白头到老了。
49. I hope there is someone who won’t dislike my bad temper, my bad habits, or my family background, and will always stand by my side, growing old together accidentally.
50、我们只有对自己喜欢的人和事，才会有着持久的热情，在那一刻，要狠狠的幸福，因为，某日将无迹可寻。
50. We only have lasting passion for the people and things we like. At that moment, we should be truly happy, because one day, there will be no trace of it.
51、动了真感情的人都会喜怒无常，因付出太多，难免患得患失。
51. People who have real feelings tend to be moody, as they have invested so much that they can’t help but worry about the gains and losses.
52、登山不在于爬得多高，走得多远，更多的意义就在于，不闷在家里，走出去，吹吹风，山不来我去。
52. Climbing a mountain is not about how high or far you go; it’s more about getting out of the house, going outside, and enjoying the breeze. If the mountain won’t come to me, I will go to the mountain.
53、当有一天我站在红路灯下无人认领，你会不会穿过人群，手拿一款我最喜欢的冰淇淋来诱哄我。
53. If one day I stand unclaimed under a traffic light, will you cross the crowd and come with my favorite ice cream to coax me?
54、我们学着承受痛苦，学着把眼泪像珍珠一样收藏，把眼泪都贮存在成功的那一天流，那一天，哪怕流它个大海汪洋。
54. We learn to bear the pain, learning to collect tears like pearls, and save them for the day of success. On that day, even if we cry an ocean.
55、我们舍不得一个人，只是因为生活里还有对方的消息和痕迹。那么，唯一的办法，就是离开这些消息和痕迹。
55. We can’t let go of someone, only because their news and traces still exist in our lives. The only way is to leave those messages and traces behind.
56、我们把心给了别人，就收不回来了；别人又给了别人，爱便流通于世。
56. When we give our hearts to others, we can’t take them back; when others give them to more people, love circulates in the world.
57、我渴望能见你一面，但请你记得，我不会开口要求要见你。这不是因为骄傲，你知道我在你面前毫无骄傲可言，而是因为，唯有你也想见我的时候，我们见面才有意义。
57. I long to see you, but please remember, I won’t ask to see you. It’s not because of pride; you know I have no pride in front of you, but because only when you also want to see me does our meeting have meaning.
58、我们应该像对待自己的身体一样，给命运洗洗澡；像更换自己的衣装一样，来改变一下我们的生活。
58. We should treat our destiny like our own body, giving it a bath; change our lives like changing our clothes.
59、我们必须在爱中成长，为此我们必须不停地去爱，去给予，直至成伤。
59. We must grow in love, so we must keep loving and giving until we are hurt.
60、真正的幸福是一点一点争取的，是一天一天积累的。不要去伤害喜欢你的人，也不要让你喜欢的人受伤害。
60. True happiness is gained little by little and accumulated day by day. Don’t hurt those who like you, and don’t let those you like get hurt.
61、真正的纯并不是单纯，并不是对周遭的险恶一无所知。而是在看尽各种苦难与丑恶后，仍然保留着当初的善良与纯真，坚守着自己的原则。
61. True purity is not being naive or ignorant of the dangers around us. It is about retaining the kindness and innocence from the beginning, and sticking to our principles after witnessing all the suffering and ugliness.
62、真心爱你的人，不会对你忽冷忽热；真心追你的人，不会跟你玩暧昧；真心要娶你的人，不会胡乱承诺。
62. Those who truly love you will not be hot and cold with you; those who truly pursue you will not play ambiguous games with you; those who truly want to marry you will not make reckless promises.
63、这是不是你一直想要的生活，只闻花香，不谈悲喜，喝茶读书，不争朝夕。阳光暖一点，再暖一点，日子慢一些，再慢一些。
63. Is this the life you’ve always wanted, smelling the fragrance of flowers, not talking about joys and sorrows, drinking tea and reading books, not competing for time. A little warmer sunshine, slower days.
64、这似乎是一条定律：每次决定放弃前再努力一下下，往往是惊喜出现的时候。
64. This seems to be a law: every time you decide to give up, try a little harder, and it’s often when surprises appear.
65、一句话出口前，你是它的主人，出口之后，它是你的主人。钉子可以从木板中拔出，说出去的话却无法收回。多思、多想、多听、多看、谨言、慎行，这么做的好处就是让自己少一点后悔。
65. Before a word is spoken, you are its master; after it’s spoken, it becomes your master. A nail can be pulled out of a wooden board, but words cannot be taken back. Think, ponder, listen, observe, speak cautiously, and act prudently. The benefit of doing so is to have fewer regrets.
66、一个人走不开，不过因为他不想走开；一个人失约，乃因他不想赴约，一切借口均属废话，都是用以掩饰不愿牺牲。
66. If a person can’t leave, it’s because they don’t want to; if they break an appointment, it’s because they don’t want to attend. All excuses are nonsense, used to cover up their unwillingness to sacrifice.
67、一个人要获得实在的幸福，就必须既不太聪明，也不太傻。人们把这种介于聪明和傻之间的状态叫做生活的智慧。
67. To achieve true happiness, one must be neither too smart nor too foolish. People call this state between intelligence and foolishness the wisdom of life.
68、有的时候，很多事情根本无法解释清楚，你要做的就是跟随你的内心，并祈祷自己做出的选择是正确的。
68. Sometimes, many things cannot be explained clearly. All you have to do is follow your heart and pray that your choices are correct.
69、有的人活了一辈子，却没有真正活过完整的一天。因为他们不是追忆过去，就是期许未来，从来没有活在当下。
69. Some people live their whole lives without truly living a complete day, because they are either reminiscing about the past or expecting the future, never living in the present.
70、有的路注定没有机会再走，有的人注定不可能再爱。
70. Some roads are destined to never be taken again, and some people are destined to never be loved again.
71、用一生坚守自己许下的承诺，这就是爱。
71. To spend a lifetime upholding the promises you’ve made is love.
72、因为我不知道，下一辈子是否还能遇见你，所以我今生才会，那么努力，把最好的给你。爱情也好，友情也罢。
72. Because I don’t know if I will meet you in the next life, that’s why I will try so hard in this life to give you the best, whether it’s love or friendship.
73、因为不知道下一辈子还是否能遇见你，所以我今生才会那么努力把最好的给你——只是太爱你。
73. Because I don’t know if I will meet you in the next life, I am trying so hard to give you the best in this life – simply because I love you too much.
74、所谓相遇和回眸都是缘分
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