我们像是表面上的针，不停的转动，一面转，一面看着时间匆匆离去，却无能为力。
1. We are like needles on the surface, constantly spinning, watching time slip away while we turn, yet we are powerless to stop it.

或许，最美的事不是留住时光，而是留住记忆，如最初相识的感觉一样，哪怕一个不经意的笑容，便是我们最怀念的故事。但愿，时光，如初见。
2. Perhaps, the most beautiful thing is not to hold onto time, but to hold onto memories, like the feeling when we first met, even a simple smile is the story we miss the most. I wish time could remain as it was at the beginning.

如果难过，就努力抬头望天空吧，望着望着就忘了……它那么大，一定可以包容你的所有委屈。
3. If you feel sad, try to look up at the sky, and as you gaze, you will forget… It is so vast, it can surely embrace all your grievances.

我的眼泪留了下来，灌溉了下面柔软的小草，不知道来年，会不会开出一地的记忆和忧愁。
4. My tears fell, watering the soft grass below, and I wonder if next year, it will bloom with memories and sorrows.

恋人是会在一起吃饭聊天，讲故事和吵架的人。会在一起到头发变白，天气好的时候牵着手一起出去走走的人。
5. Lovers are those who eat, chat, tell stories, and argue together, who grow old with each other, holding hands and going for walks on sunny days.

原来有些你自以为很重要的人，你不联系他，他就真的永远不会联系你。
6. Some people you think are very important, if you don’t contact them, they will never contact you.

如果有一天，别人追你了，你可不可以说:我有一个离不开的笨蛋。
7. If one day, someone chases you, can you say: I have a fool I cannot live without.

医学专家说左耳是最靠近心脏的地方，甜言蜜语要说给左耳听。
8. Medical experts say the left ear is the closest to the heart, so sweet words should be whispered into the left ear.

月亮渐盈的傍晚，厨房里的甜汤雾气氤氲，刀锋碰到案板发出的笃笃声很轻，你从身后抱住我，万家灯火依次亮起，我们也成为其中一盏。
9. On a gradually waxing moonlit evening, the sweet soup in the kitchen steams, the sound of the knife hitting the cutting board is soft, you hug me from behind, and the lights of thousands of households light up one by one, and we become one of them.

如果有一天，让你心动的再也感动不了你，让你愤怒的再也激怒不了你，让你悲伤的再也不能让你流泪，你便知道这时光、这生活给了你什么，你为了成长，付出了什么。
10.如果有一天，让你心动的再也感动不了你，让你愤怒的再也激怒不了你，让你悲伤的再也不能让你流泪，你便知道这时光、这生活给了你什么，你为了成长，付出了什么。

很多我们以为一辈子都不会忘掉的事情，就在我们念念不忘的日子里，被我们遗忘了。
If one day, what once moved you can no longer touch your heart, what once made you angry can no longer enrage you, and what once made you sad can no longer make you cry, then you will know what this time and life have given you, and what you have sacrificed for growth.

爱情是世界上最美好的东西，即使它伤了你的心，也要笑着忘却，然后开始下一段旅程。
11. Many things we think we will never forget are forgotten in the days when we keep remembering them.

我一直以为山是水的故事，云是风的故事，你是我的故事，可是却不知道，我是不是你的故事。
12. Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, even if it breaks your heart, you must smile and forget, then start the next journey.

没有什么是永远，也没有什么会很久。找个借口，谁都可以先走。
13. I always thought the mountain was the story of the water, the cloud was the story of the wind, and you were my story, but I didn’t know if I was your story.

记忆想是倒在掌心的水，不论你摊开还是紧握，终究还是会从指缝中一滴一滴流淌干净。
14. Nothing is forever, and nothing will last long. Find an excuse, and anyone can leave first.

当你觉得某人很神秘时，才会被吸引；当你觉得某人浪漫时，才会爱上；然而这都转瞬即逝。只有当你觉得某人成为习惯时，生活才开始。
15. Memories are like water poured into the palm of your hand, no matter whether you open your hand or clench your fist, they will eventually flow away drop by drop through your fingers.

我以为来日会变得更好，我以为我会记住今天，我以为我们是在去路之中，我以为时间能等分成年或季节。谁说不是呢，人生总是充满幻觉。
16. When you find someone mysterious, you are attracted to them; when you find someone romantic, you fall in love with them; but all these are fleeting. Only when you find someone has become a habit, does life begin.

生命中的大多数关系不就是如此吗，上一秒说着永远，下一秒就走散了，再记起时已如局外人。
17. I thought the future would be better, I thought I would remember today, I thought we were on our way, I thought time could be divided into years or seasons. Who’s to say, life is always full of illusions.

想你的人自然会来见你，爱你的人会想尽一切办法来到你身边。
18. Aren’t most relationships in life like this, saying forever one second, and then drifting apart the next, and when remembered, it’s as if we were bystanders.

每个人，都有一个世界，安静而孤独。
19. Those who miss you will naturally come to see you, and those who love you will do everything they can to be by your side.

我捧你的时候你是杯子，松手的时候你就是个玻璃碴子。——给那些不懂珍惜的人。
1. When I hold you, you are a cup; when I let go, you become a piece of broken glass. - To those who don’t know how to cherish.

如果我们都是孩子，就可以留在时光的原地，坐在一起一边听那些永不老去的故事一边慢慢皓首。
2. If we were all children, we could stay in the original place of time, sitting together and listening to those never-aging stories while slowly growing old.

这个城市没有草长莺飞的传说，它永远活在现实里面，快速的鼓点，匆忙的身影，麻木的眼神，虚假的笑容，而我正在被同化。
3. This city has no legends of grass growth and orioles flying; it always lives in reality, with fast-paced beats, hurried figures, numb eyes, and fake smiles, and I am being assimilated.

大提琴的声音就象一条河，左岸是我无法忘却的回忆，右岸是我值得紧握的璀璨年华，中间流淌的，是我年年岁岁淡淡的感伤！
4. The sound of a cello is like a river, with the left bank being my unforgettable memories, the right bank being my brilliant years worth holding on to, and the flowing water in between being my light sorrow year after year!

一些受过伤的人会更加勇敢，因为他们知道，最痛不过如此。
5. Some people who have been hurt will be braver because they know that the pain cannot go beyond this.

一个人怎么看待自己，决定了此人的命运，指向了他的归宿。
6. How a person views themselves determines their destiny and points to their destination.

我不知道死亡的时候，凝望苍穹竟然回那么凄凉，一声一声霰雪鸟的悲鸣，斜斜地掠天而去，我看到你的面容浮现在苍蓝色的天空之上，于是我笑了，因为我看到你，快乐得像个长不大的孩子。
7. I didn’t know that gazing at the sky at the moment of death would be so desolate, with the mournful cries of snow birds passing by, and I saw your face appearing in the blue sky, so I smiled because I saw you, happy like a child who never grows up.

只要你要、只要我有，倾我所能、尽我所有。我给过你的，给不了第二个人。你给过我的，也请不要再给第二个人。
8. As long as you want it and I have it, I will give my best and all I have. What I have given you cannot be given to a second person. What you have given me, please don’t give to a second person either.

有时候男人应该适当的有点脾气，对待有些人真不能太温柔和忍耐，因为过分善良会让我们丢失自己的价值和尊严，过分善良也是一种傻逼。
9. Sometimes, a man should have some temper. We can’t be too gentle and patient with some people, because excessive kindness will make us lose our value and dignity. Excessive kindness is also a kind of foolishness.

我们微笑着说我们停留在时光的原处其实早已被洪流无声地卷走。
10. We smile and say that we are staying in the original place of time, but in fact, we have already been silently swept away by the torrent.

如果你在背后议论我，那只能说明，我活的明显要比你精彩许多。
11. If you gossip about me behind my back, it can only mean that my life is obviously much more exciting than yours.

只有在你最落魄时，才会知道谁是为你担心的笨蛋，谁是形同陌路的混蛋。
12. Only when you are in a bad situation can you know who is the fool worrying about you and who is the jerk who treats you like a stranger.

一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就这么忘记了。
13. A person always has to walk陌生的路, see陌生的风景, and listen to陌生的歌, and then, in an unintentional moment, you will find that the things you tried so hard to forget were really forgotten.

如果一个女人真的爱你，她会因为很多事情对你发脾气，却始终坚守在你身边。
14. If a woman truly loves you, she will get angry with you for many things but will always stand by your side.

人生就像一道多项选择题，困扰你的，往往是众多的选项，而不是题目本身。
15. Life is like a multiple-choice question, and what troubles you is often the numerous options, not the question itself.

一个女人最好的嫁妆就是一颗体贴温暖的心，一个男人最好的聘礼就是一生的迁就与疼。
16. A woman’s best dowry is a caring and warm heart, and a man’s best gift is a lifetime of indulgence and care.

时光没有教会我任何东西，却教会了我不要轻易去相信神话。
17. Time has not taught me anything but has taught me not to believe in myths easily.

凡世的喧嚣和明亮，世俗的快乐和幸福，如同清亮的溪涧，在风里，在我眼前，汨汨而过，温暖如同泉水一样涌出来，我没有奢望，我只要你快乐，不要哀伤。
18. The noise and brightness of the mortal world, the happiness and well-being of secular life, are like a clear stream flowing by, warming my heart like a spring, and I have no extravagant hopes; I just want you to be happy and not sad.

你不可能要求每个人都读懂你，理解你，那样会显得你是一件廉价品。
19. You can’t expect everyone to understand and read you, as that would make you seem like a cheap product.

可不可以有一个人，可以看穿我的逞强，可以保护我的脆弱。
20. Can there be someone who can see through my bravado and protect my vulnerability?

从蛹破茧而出的瞬间，是撕掉一层皮的痛苦彻心彻肺很多蝴蝶都是在破茧而出的那一刻被痛得死掉了。
1. The moment a butterfly emerges from its cocoon, it endures the heart-wrenching pain of shedding its skin. Many butterflies die from the pain during this process.

朋友总是为你挡风遮雨，如果你在远方承受风雪，而我无能为力，我也会祈祷，让那些风雪降临在我的身上。
2. Friends always shelter you from the wind and rain. If you are far away and facing a storm, and I am unable to help, I will pray for the storm to come upon me instead.

你笑一次，我就可以高兴好几天；可看你哭一次，我就难过了好几年。
3. Your smile can make me happy for days, but seeing you cry once makes me sad for years.

人们总是在不停地追求美好，却往往错过了当下的美好。其实，贪婪才是最真实的贫穷，满足才是最真实的财富。
4. People are always pursuing happiness, yet they often miss the beauty in the present moment. In fact, greed is the truest form of poverty, while contentment is the truest form of wealth.

飞机场的骚乱一会儿就停止了，这里的人都是有着自己的方向的，匆匆地起飞，匆匆地下降，带走别人的故事，留下自己的回忆。
5. The chaos at the airport stops briefly, as everyone here has their own destination, taking off and landing in a hurry, carrying others’ stories and leaving their own memories.

牵着你的手，无论是在哪里，我都感觉像是在朝天堂奔跑。
6. Holding your hand, no matter where we are, I feel like I am running towards heaven.

昨天已逝，抖抖身上的尘埃，继续前行。别让过去盗走了将来，今天做最好的自己吧。
7. Let go of yesterday, shake off the dust, and keep moving forward. Don’t let the past steal your future; be the best version of yourself today.

一个人身边的位置只有那麽多，你能给的也只有那麽多，在这个狭小的圈子里，有些人要进来，就有一些人不得不离开。
8. There are only so many positions around a person, and you can only give so much. In this small circle, some people have to leave to make room for others to enter.

致女孩：做真实的自己，不要为了取悦别人或试图成为某个人。做你最原始的自己，比做任何人的复制品都来得好。
9. To girls: Be true to yourself, don’t try to please others or become someone else. Being your genuine self is better than being a copy of anyone else.

有些人会一直刻在记忆里的，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但是每当想起他时的那种感受，是永远都不会改变的。
10. Some people will always be etched in our memories; even if we forget their voice, their smile, or their face, the feeling we have when we think of them will never change.

伤口就像我一样，是个倔强的孩子，不肯愈合，因为内心是温暖潮湿的地方，适合任何东西生长。
11. Wounds are like me, a stubborn child that refuses to heal, because the heart is a warm and damp place, suitable for anything to grow.

很多事情过去了，心境却不被遗忘，这大概就是回忆的价值。
12. Many things have passed, but the state of mind remains, which is probably the value of memories.

如果结局不是我想要的，那么我宁愿不去参与这个过程。我有我的骄傲，凭什么为了你去卑微自己。
13. If the outcome is not what I want, I would rather not participate in the process. I have my pride; why should I humble myself for you?

有时候不是不懂，只是不想懂；有时候不是不知道，只是不想说出来；有时候不是不明白，而是明白了也不知道该怎么做，于是就保持了沉默。
14. Sometimes it’s not that I don’t understand, but I just don’t want to understand; sometimes it’s not that I don’t know, but I don’t want to say it out loud; sometimes it’s not that I don’t understand, but I don’t know what to do after understanding, so I choose to remain silent.

闭上眼睛，清理你的心，过去的就让它过去吧，用心甘情愿的态度，过随遇而安的生活。
15. Close your eyes, cleanse your heart, let the past go, and embrace a content and carefree life.

寂寞的人总是会用心的记住他生命中出现过的每一个人，于是我总是意犹未尽地想起你在每个星光陨落的晚上一遍一遍数我的寂寞。
16. Lonely people always remember everyone who has appeared in their lives with all their hearts, so I can’t help but think of you on every starry night, counting my loneliness over and over again.

快乐和幸福那么相似，可是快乐就是幸福吗？
17. Happiness and well-being are so similar, but is happiness the same as well-being?

有些路很远， 走下去会很累。可是，不走，会后悔。
18. Some roads are long and tiring to walk, but if you don’t walk, you will regret it.

离去，让事情变得简单，人们变得善良，像个孩子一样，我们重新开始。
19. Leaving makes things simpler, and people become kinder, like children, as we start anew.

不同的人，为你做同一件事，你会感到天壤之别。因为我们在意的，往往不是人做的事，而只是做事的人。
20. Different people doing the same thing for you can make you feel a world of difference. What we care about is often not the act itself, but the person doing it.

不管昨天、今天、明天，能豁然开朗就是美好的一天。
1. No matter yesterday, today, or tomorrow, a day that brings a sudden realization is a beautiful day.

不要轻易让自己掉眼泪，你笑的时候，全世界跟着笑。但你哭的时候，全世界只有你一个人在哭。
2. Don’t easily let yourself shed tears. When you laugh, the whole world laughs with you. But when you cry, only you are crying.

努力过后，才知道许多事情，坚持坚持，就过来了。
3. After striving, you will understand many things. Keep going, and you’ll get through it.

不是每一次努力都会有收获，但是，每一次收获都必须努力，这是一个不公平的不可逆转的命题。
4. Not every effort will yield results, but every gain requires effort. It’s an unfair and irreversible proposition.

不要把我的关心当成理所当然。不管我有多爱你，最终也会有疲惫的一天。
5. Don’t take my concern for granted. No matter how much I love you, there will come a day when I am exhausted.

时间会告诉你一切真相。有些事情，要等到你渐渐清醒了，才明白它是个错。
6. Time will reveal all truths. Some things, when you gradually wake up, you’ll realize they were mistakes.

一只野兽受了伤，它可以自己跑到一个山洞躲起来，然后自己舔舔伤口，自己坚持，可是一旦被嘘寒问暖，它就受不了。
7. A wounded beast can run to a cave to hide, lick its wounds, and persist on its own. But once it receives comfort and care, it can’t bear it.

你要学会权衡利弊，学会放弃一些什么，然后才可能得到些什么。
8. You need to learn to weigh the pros and cons, give up something, and then you might gain something.

决定你明天的不是明天，而是今天对事业的作为。我们的今天由过去决定，我们的明天由今天决定。
9. What determines your tomorrow is not tomorrow, but what you do for your career today. Our today is determined by the past, and our tomorrow is determined by today.

外面的世界其实很大，但很多人就是被一个水杯约束生命。
10. The outside world is actually very big, but many people are constrained by a mere cup of water.

我落日般的忧伤就像惆怅的飞鸟，惆怅的飞鸟飞成我落日般的忧伤。
11. My sunset-like sorrow is like a melancholic bird, and the melancholic bird flies into my sunset-like sorrow.

全世界的人都离开你了我也会在你身边，有地狱我们一起猖獗。
12. Even if everyone in the world leaves you, I will still be by your side. If there’s hell, we’ll run amok together.

你永远也看不到我最寂寞时候的样子，因为只有你不在我身边的时候，我才最寂寞。
13. You will never see me at my loneliest, because I am only the loneliest when you are not by my side.

所谓的同学聚会，就是在多年以后给所有到场的人一个机会，看看什么叫沧海桑田，看看什么叫岁月如刀，看看什么叫物是人非。
14. So-called class reunions are opportunities for everyone present to witness the changes brought by time, to see how the years are like a knife, and to see how things and people have changed.

假如我向人伸出空手而得不到东西，那当然是苦恼；但是假如我伸出一只满握的手，而发现无人接受，那才是绝望呢。
15. If I extend an empty hand to someone and receive nothing, that is certainly distressing; but if I extend a hand full of grip and find no one to accept it, that is despair.

一辈子那么长，一天没走到终点，你就一天不知道哪一个才是陪你走到最后的人。有时你遇到了一个人，以为就是他了，后来回头看，其实他也不过是这一段路给了你想要的东西。
16. Life is so long, and until you reach the end of the day, you won’t know who will accompany you to the end. Sometimes you meet someone and think it’s them, but when you look back, they were just the one who gave you what you wanted during that part of the journey.

总有一天我会从你身边默默地走开，不带任何声响、我错过了很多，我总是一个人难过。
17. One day, I will silently walk away from you, without any sound. I have missed so much, and I am always sad alone.

每个人都是一个国王，在自己的世界里纵横跋扈，你不要听我的，但你也不要让我听你的。
18. Everyone is a king, dominating in their own world. You don’t have to listen to me, but don’t make me listen to you either.

就在那一瞬间，我仿佛听见了全世界崩溃的声音。
19. In that instant, I seemed to hear the sound of the world collapsing.

生活中一定要记住这两件事：不在生气时做决定，不在高兴时轻许诺言。
20. Always remember these two things in life: don’t make decisions when angry, and don’t make promises lightly when happy.

天空的飞鸟，是你的寂寞比我多，还是我的忧伤比你多，剩下的时光，你陪我，好不好，这样你不寂寞，我也不会忧伤。
1. The birds in the sky, is your loneliness greater than mine, or is my sorrow greater than yours? For the remaining time, will you accompany me? Then you won’t be lonely, and I won’t be sad.

距离之所以可怕，因为根本不知道对方是把你想念，还是把你忘记。
2. The reason distance is so terrifying is that you never know whether the other person is thinking of you or has forgotten you.

我不知道自己到底在执着什么，但我知道，我一直都在为难自己。
3. I don’t know what I’m holding on to, but I know I’ve always been making things difficult for myself.

有些事情不是看到希望才去坚持，而是坚持了才看得到希望！——送给彷徨不安的孩子们
4. Some things are not persisted because of hope, but hope is seen because of persistence! - To the wandering and restless children

生命那么短，世界那么乱，我不想争吵，不想冷战，不愿和你有一秒遗憾。
5. Life is so short, and the world is so chaotic; I don’t want to argue, I don’t want a cold war, and I don’t want a single second of regret with you.

如果你能解释为什么会喜欢一个人，那么这不是爱情，真正的爱情没有原因，你爱他，不知道为什么。
6. If you can explain why you like someone, then it’s not love. True love has no reasons; you love them, and you don’t know why.

地球之所以是圆的，是因为上帝想让那些走失或迷路的人重新相遇。
7. The Earth is round because God wants those who are lost or lost to meet again.

能让你生气的敌人，说明你没有胜他的把握；能让你生气的朋友，说明你仍在意他的友情。
8. An enemy who can make you angry shows that you don’t have the confidence to defeat him; a friend who can make you angry shows that you still care about his friendship.

翅膀长在你的肩上，太在乎别人对于飞行姿势的批评，所以你飞不起来。
9. Wings grow on your shoulders; you care too much about others’ criticism of your flying posture, so you can’t fly.

谁是谁生命中的过客，谁是谁生命的转轮，前世的尘，今世的风，无穷无尽的哀伤的精魂，最终谁都不是谁的谁。
10. Who is a passerby in whose life, and who is the turning wheel in whose life? The dust of past lives and the wind of this life, endless and boundless sorrowful souls, in the end, no one belongs to anyone.

因为我知道你是个容易担心的小孩，所以我将线交你手中却也不敢飞得太远。
11. Because I know you’re a child who worries easily, I give you the string but don’t dare to fly too far away.

认识我的人以为我很静，了解我的人以为我很疯，只有懂我的人才知道其实我很忧伤。
12. People who know me think I’m quiet; those who understand me think I’m crazy. Only those who truly know me know that I’m actually very sad.

我就像现在一样看着你微笑，沉默，得意，失落，于是我跟着你开心也跟着你难过，只是我一直站在现在而你却永远停留过去。
13. I watch you smile, be silent, be proud, and be lost, and I follow your happiness and sadness. I just stand in the present while you stay forever in the past.

这个世界上你认识那么多的人，那么多人和你有关，你再怎么改变也不能让每个人都喜欢你，所以你不用在乎别人的眼光，去成为你想成为的那个人。
14. In this world, you know so many people, and so many people are related to you. No matter how much you change, you can’t make everyone like you, so you don’t have to care about others’ opinions. Be the person you want to be.

那些刻在椅背后的爱情会不会像水泥地上的花朵，开出地老天荒的，没有风的森林。
15. Will the love engraved on the back of chairs bloom like flowers on the cement ground, creating a timeless, windless forest?

那个让你流泪的，是你最爱的人；那个懂你眼泪的，是最爱你的人。那个为你擦干眼泪的，才是最后和你相守的人。
16. The one who makes you cry is the one you love the most; the one who understands your tears is the one who loves you the most; the one who dries your tears is the one who will stay with you in the end.

少走了弯路，也就错过了风景，无论如何，感谢经历。
17. By taking fewer detours, you miss the scenery. No matter what, be grateful for the experience.

生活总会给你答案，但不会马上把一切都告诉你。
18. Life will always give you answers, but it won’t tell you everything right away.

与其在别人的故事里留着自己的泪，不如在自己的故事里笑得很大声。
19. It’s better to laugh loudly in your own story than to shed tears in someone else’s.

一个男人的强大，不在于他能摧毁什么，而在于他能保护什么！
20. A man’s strength lies not in what he can destroy, but in what he can protect!

最难过的，莫过于当你遇上一个特别的人，却明白永远不可能在一起，或迟或早，你不得不放弃。
1. The saddest thing is when you meet someone special, but you know you can never be together. Sooner or later, you have to give up.

如果人生可以刷新，复制，粘贴。那么一切是不是可以注销，关机，再重启。
2. If life could be refreshed, copied, and pasted, then everything could be canceled, shut down, and restarted.

我们都像小孩，胡闹是因为依赖你；懂礼貌，是因为你是外人。
3. We all act like children; we make a fuss because we depend on you; we are polite because you are a stranger.

时隔经年，你突然出现在访客记录里，我呆坐了一夜，哭着笑，笑着哭。
4. After years, you suddenly appear in the visitor’s record, and I sat there all night, crying and laughing, laughing and crying.

长大以后，似乎没有多少人会关心你是否快乐，所有的人都只看你有没有用。
5. As we grow up, it seems that not many people care whether you are happy or not; everyone only cares if you are useful.

你很幸运，你可以选择爱我或不爱我，而我只能选择爱你或更爱你。
6. You are lucky, for you can choose to love me or not, while I can only choose to love you or love you more.

你脸上的云淡风轻，谁也不知道你的牙咬的有多紧，你笑的没心没肺，没人知道你哭起来只能无声落泪。
7. Your face is carefree, but no one knows how tightly your teeth are clenched; you laugh heartlessly, and no one knows that when you cry, you can only do it silently.

有些条条框框就在那里，跳出框子便自由，不跳出框子便拘束。可是，人生的自由不在状态，而是心态。
8. Some rules and restrictions are there; if you jump out of the frame, you are free; if you don’t, you are constrained. However, the freedom in life lies not in the state but in the mindset.

置身事外，谁都可以心平气和，身处其中，谁还可以淡定从容？所以请不要轻易评论任何人，因为你不在其中。
9. It’s easy for anyone to stay calm when they are not involved, but who can remain composed when they are in the midst of it? So please do not judge anyone easily, because you are not in their shoes.

在意别人的看法很正常，但你要明白的是，不是所有的人都是人。
10. It’s normal to care about others’ opinions, but you should understand that not everyone is human.

那些花了好久才想明白的事，最终会被一次情绪失控全部推翻。
11. Those things that took a long time to figure out can eventually be overturned by a single emotional outburst.

后来，经历过才明白一些事，没什么好抱怨的，今天的每一步，都是在为之前的每一次选择买单。
12. Later, after experiencing, I understood some things; there’s nothing to complain about, for every step today is paying the price for the choices made before.

年轻的时候，连多愁善感都要渲染的惊天动地。长大后却学会，越痛，越不动声色。越苦，越保持沉默。成长就是就是将哭声调成静音的过程。
13. When young, even sentimentality is dramatized; as we grow up, we learn that the more painful it is, the more silent we become. The more bitter it is, the more we keep quiet. Growth is the process of turning the volume of our tears to mute.

纵然我有千万般好，你也不会看到，因为你没有一双爱我的眼睛。为什么爱的人总在急切，被爱的人总是被忽略？
14. Even if I have a million good qualities, you won’t see them, because you don’t have eyes that love me. Why are those who love always anxious, and those who are loved often neglected?

有些事情不是努力就能改变，比如，五十块的人民币设计得再好看，也没有一百块的招人喜欢。比如，他不爱你。
15. Some things cannot be changed by hard work, such as a 50-yuan note, no matter how beautiful its design, it is not as likable as a 100-yuan note. For example, he doesn’t love you.

有时候你放不下一个人，不是因为那个人无可替代，而是因为你在那个人身上花费了太多的时间精力，一旦分开，就好像自己用时间和青春细心堆砌的城堡轰然倒塌。
16. Sometimes you can’t let go of someone, not because they are irreplaceable, but because you have spent too much time and energy on them. Once separated, it feels like the castle you built with time and youth has collapsed.

趁着年轻，你需要多受一些苦，然后才会真正谦恭；不然，你那自以为是的聪明和藐视一切的优越感迟早要毁了你。
17. While you are young, you need to suffer more, and then you will truly be humble; otherwise, your self-righteous intelligence and disdain for everything will eventually destroy you.

如果，感到此时的自己很辛苦，那告诉自己：容易走的都是下坡路！坚持住，因为你正在走上坡路，走过去，你就一定会有进步。
18. If you feel that you are working hard at this moment, tell yourself: it’s easy to go downhill! Hold on, because you are on an uphill journey; once you get through it, you will definitely make progress.

活得累是因为你心里想太多，就跟吃饱了撑的是一个道理。
19. Living tiredly is because you think too much in your heart, just like being full after eating too much.

因为懂得，所以珍惜。所有的花开，都有温馨的理由，所有的叶落，都写着浓郁的牵挂。
20. Because we understand, we cherish. Every bloom has a warm reason, and every falling leaf is written with deep concern.

时间真的很神奇，你永远不知道它会如何改变你。换句话说：以前难吃的蔬菜、苦涩的啤酒、无聊的书籍，甚至讨厌的人，后来有一天，却又统统喜欢上了。
1. Time is truly magical; you never know how it will change you. In other words, once disliked vegetables, bitter beer, boring books, and even people you disliked, one day you may suddenly find yourself enjoying them all.

一个人炫耀什么，说明内心缺少什么。一个人越在意的地方，就是最令他自卑的地方。人都是比较有面子思想，有时候吹得很厉害的，可能是内心缺少什么的证明，这需要好好观察。欲盖弥彰，因为缺少而不想被别人知道，所以就会以炫耀来掩盖。
2. What a person shows off indicates what they lack inside. The more a person cares about something, the more it makes them feel inferior. People tend to value face, and sometimes those who brag a lot might be trying to cover up their insecurities. The more they lack something, the more they don’t want others to know, so they show off to hide it.

别人怎么看你，不干你的事，如果别人对你的看法是一面镜子，每个人都会被镜子里的形象吓坏。
3. How others see you is none of your business. If people’s opinions of you were a mirror, everyone would be frightened by their reflection.

你可能会遇到很多坏蛋，但总有一天你会遇到一个人，会如珍宝般待你，就像日升日落都陪着你。
4. You may encounter many villains, but one day you will meet someone who will treasure you like a precious gem, accompanying you through sunrises and sunsets.

前进的路上，哪怕大雨浇湿全身，也不要停止奔跑。如果前方是堵墙，拼尽全力也要砸出一个洞钻过去。如果脚下没有路，踩着荆棘也要努力踩出一条路。
5. On the road ahead, even if the heavy rain drenches you, don’t stop running. If there’s a wall in front of you, do your best to break a hole through it. If there’s no path under your feet, step on the thorns and strive to create a way.

有目标的人在奔跑，沒目标的人在流浪，因为不知道要去哪里！有目标的人在感恩，沒目标的人在报怨，因为觉得全世界都欠他的！
6. People with goals run, while those without goals wander because they don’t know where to go! People with goals express gratitude, while those without goals complain because they feel the whole world owes them!

“当你进退两难的时候如何做出决定？”——“抛硬币，当你第一次抛了以后想再抛一次的时候，你就已经知道答案了。”
7. “How do you make a decision when you’re in a dilemma?” - “Flip a coin. When you want to flip it again after the first toss, you already know the answer.”

如果，你正在埋怨命运不眷顾，那请记住：命，是失败者的借口；运，是成功者的谦词。
8. If you’re complaining about fate not favoring you, remember this: Destiny is the excuse of the losers; luck is the modesty of the successful.

要唤醒你内心真正那个你，而不是活得像别人一样。
9. Awaken the true self within you, instead of living like someone else.

时间告诉我们，无理取闹的年龄过了，该懂事了。
10. Time tells us that the age of unreasonableness is over, and it’s time to be sensible.

她那时候还太年轻，不知道所有命运赠送的礼物，早已在暗中标好了价格。
11. She was too young at that time and didn’t know that all the gifts from fate come with a price tag in the shadows.

突然发现和自己聊的很来的男生也在和其他女生暧昧；突然发现处得很好的舍友也会和别人在背后议论你；突然发现以前很讨厌的人却在跟别人夸奖你；突然发现你不曾说过话的同学却默默为你擦干了满是水渍的桌子。是的，别把谁想的太好，也别把谁想的太坏，因为，多得是你不知道的事。
12. Suddenly, you find that the guy you get along with well is also being flirtatious with other girls; suddenly, you find that your roommate, who gets along well with you, gossips about you behind your back; suddenly, you find that someone you once disliked is praising you to others; suddenly, you find that a classmate you’ve never spoken to has silently wiped your table, covered in water stains. Yes, don’t think too highly of anyone, nor too lowly, because there’s so much you don’t know.

十七八岁的年纪遇到了不可能在一起的人，却还是拼尽全力去爱，如今才刚刚二十岁风华正茂，却丧失了爱一个人的能力。
13. At the age of seventeen or eighteen, you meet someone you can’t be with, yet still love with all your heart. Now, just in your early twenties, you’ve lost the ability to love someone.

总有一天，我也会变老，时间掩盖了我的热情，吞噬了我的纯真，收回了我的童趣，但它抹不去我的快乐，我的愿望是：现在当个快乐的女孩，中年时当个快乐的阿姨，老年时当个快乐的老太婆。总之，拥有快乐的一生。
14. One day, I will grow old too. Time will cover my passion, devour my innocence, and take back my childlike curiosity, but it can never erase my happiness. My wish is to be a happy girl now, a happy aunt in middle age, and a happy old lady in my old age. In short, to have a happy life.

每一个平凡人的背后，都有一段可以撞击你的故事。
15. Behind every ordinary person, there’s a story that can touch your heart.

以前就爱较真，总是喜欢把每件事情的前因后果细想一遍、推算一下所有认为可能会出现的结果。最后弄得生活再无有意外，更难再有惊喜了。一直以来还觉得自己活得很明白，现在终于知道：我们总是太过理智，所以过得并不开心。
16. I used to be very particular, always wanting to think through the causes and consequences of everything, calculating all the possible outcomes. In the end, life became devoid of surprises and excitement. I always thought I was living very clearly, but now I finally know: we are too rational, so we are not happy.

每人心中所承受过来的那些苦与痛，不是因为时间就没有了感觉，而是懂得了说与不说都一样。
1. The pain and suffering that everyone has experienced in their hearts do not fade away just because of time; instead, it is because we learn that speaking or not speaking about them makes no difference.

我们总是会被突如其来的缘分砸伤，把这些当做是生活中不可缺少的主题。有些缘分只是南柯一梦，瞬间的消逝便成了萍踪过往。有些缘分却落地生根，扎进了你的生命中，从此纠缠不清。
2. We are always hurt by unexpected fate, treating these as indispensable themes in life. Some fates are like a dream, vanishing in an instant and becoming traces of the past. Other fates take root and embed themselves in your life, entangling you from then on.

幸福大概就是，你喜欢粘着的那个人永远都不嫌你烦。
3. Happiness is probably when the person you like to stick with never finds you annoying.

愿你成为这样的人：外表平静如水，内心坚定如山。
4. May you become such a person: calm on the outside like water, and firm on the inside like a mountain.

幸福其实真的很简单：有人爱；有事做；有所期待。
5. Happiness is actually very simple: having someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to.

很多人说他们太忙了，其实他们只是太拖了。
6. Many people say they are too busy, but in fact, they are just too procrastinating.

知音，能有一两个已经很好了，实在不必太多。朋友之乐，贵在那份踏实的信赖。
7. Having one or two confidants is already very good; there is no need for too many. The joy of friendship lies in the solid trust.

喜欢靠在你的忧伤里，你的忧伤像月光，既凄美，也浪漫。在你的忧伤里，我感受情长，我愿在你的忧伤里沉醉永远；喜欢躺在你的思念里，你的思念是阳光，会温暖，有方向。在你的思念里，我不再孤单，我要在你的思念里搁浅千年。
8. I like leaning on your sorrow, which is like the moonlight, both beautiful and romantic. In your sorrow, I feel the depth of emotions, and I am willing to be intoxicated in it forever; I like lying in your thoughts, which are like sunlight, warm and directional. In your thoughts, I am no longer lonely, and I want to be stranded in them for a thousand years.

别感谢任何伤害你的人，帮你成长的是你自己，让你坚持下去的是爱你的人，所有美好都跟坏人没有关系。
9. Do not thank anyone who has hurt you; it is yourself who helps you grow, and it is the people who love you that help you persist. All the beauty has nothing to do with bad people.

在这个艰难的世界里啊，与众不同都会被人瞧不起，但如果你与众不同，又何必怕孤独，艰难路，只好艰难着行走。
10. In this difficult world, being different will be looked down upon, but if you are different, why be afraid of loneliness? The difficult path can only be walked with difficulty.

将所有的风景后退，退回原始，白云蓝天，繁花绿池。人与自然，就是天地间最美的构思；将一切的过去倒流，倒回儿时，大海小溪，贝壳卵石。快乐和无邪，叠成无数个晶莹的故事。有太多的美，经不起岁月的流失，慢慢凝成了一段段莫名其妙的文字。有无尽的梦，消逝于风雨的侵蚀，化作了一首首不知所谓的诗。
11. Retreat all the scenery, back to the origin, with white clouds and blue sky, blooming flowers and green ponds. The harmony between humans and nature is the most beautiful conception between heaven and earth; reverse all the past, back to childhood, with the sea, streams, shells, and pebbles. Happiness and innocence are stacked into countless crystal stories. There is too much beauty that cannot withstand the passage of time, slowly condensing into paragraphs of inexplicable text. There are endless dreams that vanish in the erosion of wind and rain, turning into poems of unknown meaning.

思念，是一条弯弯的小河，潺潺的流水，永世吟唱着一支亲情和爱情的歌。你的悲伤、你的快乐，永远伴奏着我的梦想、我的漂泊；未来，是一片变幻的天色，莫测的风云，从来演绎的是无数成功与失败的起落。你的神秘、你的传奇，一直召唤着我的使命、我的寂寞。
12. Longing is a winding little river, with the murmuring water forever singing a song of love and affection. Your sadness and happiness will always accompany my dreams and wandering; the future is a changing sky, with unpredictable winds and clouds, always performing countless rises and falls of success and failure. Your mystery and legend have always been calling my mission and loneliness.

会有那么一天，你活成了你最爱的样子，让所有的伤痕都变成了勋章。
13. One day, you will become the person you love the most, turning all your scars into medals.

轻轻地入眠，忘却了从前，放任了今天，也许是守候，也许是随缘，你半睡半醒地舒缓于这个世面，你若睡莲；飘飘的模样，不习惯负担，不刻意方向，或许是寻觅，或许是淡然，你似有似无地潇洒于天地之间，你若风烟。
14. Gently fall asleep, forgetting the past, letting go of today, perhaps waiting, perhaps following fate, you half-awake and half-asleep, gently easing in this world, like a lotus in slumber; your drifting appearance, not used to burdens, not deliberately directional, perhaps searching, perhaps indifferent, you vaguely and elegantly wander between heaven and earth, like smoke and clouds.

捧几把阳光洗洗脸，挤一节朝露刷刷牙；盛一碗蓝天作早餐，摘几叶空气泡泡茶。生活，原来可以如此神话；希望，原来可以这样涂鸦。
15. Scoop a handful of sunlight to wash your face, squeeze a segment of morning dew to brush your teeth; serve a bowl of blue sky for breakfast, pick a few leaves of air to make tea. Life can be so mythological; hope can be so freely painted.

山高，路迢，我在寻找，寻找一方乐土，了却一段飘摇。水寒，风萧，我在苦笑，苦笑今日因缘，困惑际遇蹊跷。夏日的夜空，有颗流星在动，那是游子，不是归人。午夜里的城，无息无声，那不是安睡，是入梦。
16. High mountains, long roads, I am searching for a paradise to settle down and end my wandering. Cold water, bleak wind, I am smiling bitterly, smiling bitterly at today’s fate and puzzling encounters. In the summer night sky, there is a meteor moving, it is a wanderer, not a homecomer. In the midnight city, there is no sound, not asleep, but dreaming.

没有你，没有谁，留下的尽是一切的美；不曾远行，不曾高飞，来去仅此轻轻一回。不求谁懂，无需人陪，难得是深深自醉；莫究是非，莫论错对，毕竟已心中无悔。汝非鱼，焉得鱼之乐；君非偶，安知偶心扉。世态泱泱，万千感慨无罪；红尘滚滚，无数风云成灰。
1. Without you, without anyone, all that remains is the beauty of everything. 2. Never having traveled far, never having soared high, coming and going is just this gentle once. 3. Not seeking to be understood by anyone, no need for company, the rarity is being deeply intoxicated with oneself. 4. Do not investigate right or wrong, do not discuss errors, after all, there is no regret in the heart. 5. You are not a fish, how can you know the joy of a fish? 6. You are not me, how can you know my heart? 7. The world is vast, countless emotions are guiltless. 8. The world of mortals rolls on, countless ups and downs turn to ashes.

时间玩得起我们，我们却玩不起时间，在吃得起苦的岁月里，别太安逸。在吃不起苦的日子里，别太逞强。
1. Time can play with us, but we can’t afford to play with time. In the years when we can endure hardships, don’t be too comfortable. In the days when we can’t bear the hardships, don’t try too hard.

有时候，幸福不是能拥有多少，而是能发现多少；痛苦不是能承受多少，而是能放下多少；爱情不是能享受多少，而是能包容多少；人生不是能实现多少，而是能做好多少。
2. Sometimes, happiness is not about how much you can possess, but how much you can discover; suffering is not about how much you can endure, but how much you can let go; love is not about how much you can enjoy, but how much you can tolerate; life is not about how much you can achieve, but how much you can do well.

岁月像一个迷惘的梦，我们在梦里还是梦外有时都难解难分；岁月像一把无情的刀刃，每个人的脸上都会被刻下迹痕；岁月又像一双求知的眼神，我们在眼神里慢慢看懂了人生。岁月还像一个历史的魔咒，一代代重复演绎着悲欢故事的人们。
3. Years are like a bewildering dream, and sometimes it’s hard to tell whether we are in the dream or outside of it; years are like a ruthless blade that leaves marks on everyone’s face; years are also like a pair of inquisitive eyes, through which we slowly understand life. Years can also be like a historical curse, with generation after generation repeating the stories of joy and sorrow.

心若被困，天下处处是牢笼；心之所安，矮瓦斗室也是天堂。
4. If the heart is trapped, everywhere in the world becomes a cage; if the heart is at peace, even a humble dwelling can be paradise.

世界真的很小，好像一转身，就不知道会遇见谁；世界真的很大，好像一转身，就不知道谁会消失。
5. The world is really small, as if with a turn, you never know who you’ll meet; the world is really big, as if with a turn, you never know who will disappear.

我想，所谓孤独，就是你面对的那个人，他的情绪和你的情绪不在同一个频率。
6. I think, so-called loneliness is when the emotions of the person you face are not on the same frequency as your own.

人生就像蒲公英，看似自由，却身不由己。
7. Life is like a dandelion, seemingly free, but actually beyond our control.

你害怕一件事，可还是要去做，那才是勇敢。
8. Being brave is doing something you’re afraid of, even if you’re scared.

刻薄嘴欠和幽默是两回事，口无遮拦和坦率是两回事，没有教养和随性是两回事，轻重不分和耿直是两回事。
9. Being mean and having a sense of humor are two different things; being outspoken and being frank are two different things; being uncultured and being carefree are two different things; not knowing the difference between what’s important and what’s not and being straightforward are two different things.

失去过许多朋友，因为我不善言谈，许久没联系他们，于是他们渐渐有了新朋友，从此再无交集。请不要觉得我冷漠孤傲，不要觉得我喜新厌旧，我只是怕一开口，就变成了令人心酸的客套，却依旧相信着，那时的我们，都是彼此生命里的一道光线，如果有一天我们变陌生了，就让我们重新认识。
10. I’ve lost many friends because I’m not good at talking, and I haven’t contacted them for a long time, so they gradually made new friends and we no longer intersect. Please don’t think I’m indifferent or fickle; I just fear that once I speak, it will become a heart-wrenching formality. Yet, I still believe that we were all a ray of light in each other’s lives. If one day we become strangers, let’s get to know each other again.

去找一个温暖如太阳的人，为你晒掉所有不值一提的悲伤。
11. Find someone as warm as the sun to晒干 all your insignificant sorrows.

你每天起床之前有两个选择，要么继续趴下做你没有做完的梦，要么拉开被子完成你没有完成的梦想。
12. Before you get up every day, you have two choices: either continue to lie down and finish the dream you didn’t complete, or pull the covers back and fulfill the dreams you haven’t achieved.

曾有人说：“泼在你身上的冷水，你应该烧开了泼回去。”但我更愿意去做像石灰一样的人，别人越泼我冷水，我的人生越沸腾！
13. Someone once said, “The cold water that others splash on you, you should boil it and splash it back.” But I’d rather be like limestone, the more cold water others splash on me, the more my life boils!

见识越广，计较越少，经历越多，抱怨越少，越闲，越矫情。
14. The broader your horizons, the fewer your complaints; the more experiences you have, the fewer your grievances; the more idle you are, the more melodramatic you become.

每一个不曾起舞的日子，都是对生命的辜负。
15. Every day that you don’t dance is a betrayal of life.

别人稍一注意你，你就敞开心扉，你觉得这是坦率，其实这是孤独。
16. If someone pays you a little attention, you open up to them. You think it’s being frank, but it’s actually loneliness.

有些人的通病是，容易看清楚别人，不容易看清楚自己。在别人的问题上可以斟酌到锱铢必较，而在自己的问题上却可以粗略到走马观花。一颗自私的心，自然会豢养出一双自私的眼睛，一种计较的活法，以及，一腔热衷于背后说人是非的态度。一辈子看不上别人，换一种说法就是，从来没看清过自己。
17. Some people’s common problem is that they can easily see others clearly, but not themselves. They can be meticulous about others’ issues, but be careless about their own. A selfish heart will naturally nurture a pair of selfish eyes, a way of living that constantly compares, and a passion for gossiping behind others’ backs. A lifetime of looking down on others can be rephrased as never truly understanding oneself.

坚强的人只能救赎自己，伟大的人才能拯救他人。
18. Strong people can only redeem themselves, while great people can save others.

不亏待每一份热情，不讨好任何的冷漠。爱情如此，友情也如此。
19. Don’t mistreat every enthusiasm, and don’t please any indifference. This applies to both love and friendship.

没有另一种选择，你所有现有的选择都是对的，它就像人的感情一样，无须去假设，因为无论怎样去假设，那假设都不会成立。
20. There is no other choice, all your current choices are right. It’s like human emotions, there’s no need to assume, because no matter how you assume, that assumption will not stand.

流过泪的眼睛更明亮，滴过血的心灵更坚强。
1. Eyes that have shed tears become brighter, and hearts that have bled become stronger.

优秀的人就像一团光芒，和他们呆久了，也就再也不想走回黑暗了。
2. Outstanding people are like a ray of light, and after being with them for a long time, you no longer want to return to the darkness.

正能量不是没心没肺，不是强颜欢笑，不是弄脏别人来显得干净。而是泪流满面怀抱的善良，是孤身一人前进的信仰，是破碎以后重建的勇气。
3. Positive energy is not about being heartless, putting on a fake smile, or dirtying others to appear clean. It is about the kindness in tearful embraces, the faith in moving forward alone, and the courage to rebuild after being broken.

人生大部分时间都是在等！等车！等信！等雨停！等绿灯！等风来！等天明！等一个人！甚至等死。
4. Most of life is spent waiting! Waiting for the bus! Waiting for a letter! Waiting for the rain to stop! Waiting for the green light! Waiting for the wind! Waiting for dawn! Waiting for a person! Even waiting for death.

塑造自己过程很疼，但请相信你将收获一个更好的自己。
5. Shaping oneself is a painful process, but please believe that you will gain a better self.

与其死缠烂打，还不如一刀两断。姑娘要记住，从今以后，嘴要甜，心要狠，该留留，该滚滚。
6. It’s better to cut ties than to cling on. Girls should remember, from now on, speak sweetly, be tough at heart, let those who should stay, and let those who should go.

在这世上，没有非爱不可的人，也没有非做不可的事。除非，那个人是你，那件事是我爱你。我也只有一个一生，无法慷慨赠予我不爱的人。
7. In this world, there is no one you must love, nor is there anything you must do. Unless that person is you, and that thing is loving you. I also have only one life, and I cannot generously give it to someone I do not love.

如果你每天给他一块钱，只要一天不给，他就会恨你。如果每天给他一个巴掌，只要一天不打，他就会跪谢。人性如此，生活如此，爱情亦如此。
8. If you give him a dollar every day, and stop giving it one day, he will hate you. If you slap him every day, and stop one day, he will kneel in gratitude. Such is human nature, life, and love.

人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下什么遗憾。想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。人生的苦闷有二：一是欲望没有被满足，二是它被满足了。
9. Life is short, don’t leave any regrets. Laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and don’t suppress yourself. There are two types of misery in life: one is when desires are not fulfilled, and the other is when they are fulfilled.

我们都想走近一点，可是却每天都在故作疏远。
10. We all want to get closer, but we deliberately distance ourselves every day.

只有碰到喜欢的人才会变成话唠，碰到不喜欢的人一句话也不想多说。
1. Only when you meet someone you like will you become talkative; when you meet someone you don’t like, you don’t want to say a word.

人往往在闲得蛋疼的时候最矫情最脆弱，在深渊挣扎的时候最清醒最坚强。
2. People tend to be the most sentimental and vulnerable when they are bored, and the most clear-headed and strong when they are struggling in the abyss.

他日嫁得良人，定要谢你当年不娶之恩。
3. When I marry the right person someday, I will definitely thank you for not marrying me back then.

你可以不再天真，但一定要善良。像孩子一样善意和宽容，然后让自己变得更好。
4. You can stop being naive, but you must remain kind. Be as kind and tolerant as a child, and then make yourself better.

那个让你流泪的，是你最爱的人；那个懂你眼泪的，是最爱你的人；那个为你擦干眼泪的，才是最后和你相守的人。我多希望，这三个人都是你。
5. The one who makes you cry is the person you love the most; the one who understands your tears is the person who loves you the most; the one who dries your tears is the one who will be with you in the end. I wish all three people were you.

没有来临的事别胡思乱想，不属于你的人别痴心妄想。好好的活在今朝，珍惜眼前所拥有的，这样就够了。
6. Don’t think about things that haven’t happened, and don’t be infatuated with people who don’t belong to you. Live well in the present, cherish what you have, and that’s enough.

一个强者要有三个基本条件：最野蛮的身体，最文明的头脑和不可征服的精神。
7. A strong person needs three basic conditions: the most primitive body, the most civilized mind, and an unconquerable spirit.

真正关心你的人，是无事时百般挑剔，有事时抓着你手一声不吭的。监督你过顺境，支撑你过逆境，人生三两人，足矣。
8. The people who truly care about you are those who criticize you when there’s no problem, and hold your hand silently when there is a problem. They supervise you through good times and support you through bad times. A few people like this in life are enough.

你要搞清楚，是你喜欢对方，不是对方喜欢你，你既然主动了，就算受了天大的委屈，也应该是你预料中的事，怪不了任何人。有勇气追求喜欢，也要有勇气接受眼泪，结果要自己承担，谁叫你有本事喜欢人家，没本事让人家喜欢你。
9. You need to understand that you like the other person, not the other way around. Since you took the initiative, even if you suffer a great injustice, it should be something you expected and no one else to blame. Have the courage to pursue what you like, and also have the courage to accept tears. You should bear the results yourself, because you have the ability to like someone but not the ability to make them like you.

嫁的人是谁，很重要，因为他决定着你一辈子的生活状态。娶的人是谁，更重要，她很有可能决定着你一生的层次和高度。不要将就的嫁，也别违心的娶。
10. Who you marry is important, because it determines your life’s state. Who you marry is even more important, as she may determine the level and height of your life. Don’t marry just for the sake of it, and don’t marry against your heart.

走错了路，要记得回头；爱错了人，要懂得放手。人心都是相对的，以真换真；感情都是相互的，用心暖心。只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄的比经过还长。
11. If you take the wrong path, remember to turn back; if you love the wrong person, learn to let go. People’s hearts are relative, exchanging sincerity for sincerity; feelings are mutual, warming each other with care. You just walked a section of the road together, why make memories longer than the experience itself.

所谓教育，也许就是这样，爱与耐心，加上孩子能明白的方式。这世界不是那么好，也不是那么坏，但这世界上的很多东西不能只用好或者坏来形容。
12. Education, perhaps, is like this: love and patience, combined with a way that children can understand. The world is not that good, nor that bad, but many things in this world cannot be simply described as good or bad.

小时候我们的城市像郊外，我们的脚步很轻快，那时天空很蓝心很小路很宽，长大后我们的存在像尘埃，我们的距离被拉开。
13. When we were young, our city was like the suburbs, our steps were light, the sky was blue, our hearts were small, and the roads were wide. As we grew up, our existence became like dust, our distances were pulled apart.

成为想成为的自己，才遇见想遇见的爱情。所谓温度刚好的爱情故事，所谓疲惫生活里的英雄梦想。
14. Be the person you want to be, and then you will meet the love you want to meet. So-called love stories with just the right temperature, so-called heroic dreams in the exhausted life.

成熟的人需要面具，戴上坚强面对社会，摘下温柔面对家人。
15. Mature people need masks, put on strength to face society, and take off tenderness to face family.

虽然不知道还会不会遇到比你更好的人，虽然不知道我还能不能爱上别人，但在有限的生命里，假如再给我一次机会，我还是愿意在那年夏天遇见你。
16. Although I don’t know if I will meet someone better than you, although I don’t know if I can fall in love with someone else, if given another chance in my limited life, I would still be willing to meet you that summer.

思念没有声音，唯有天地在听；惆怅没有声音，唯有风在低吟；花开没有声音，是春天不忍将你吵醒；花落没有消息，那是因为季节的事情。踏遍千山，我终究走不出宿命；望穿秋水，你依旧在彼岸飘零…
17. Missed thoughts have no sound, only heaven and earth listen; melancholy has no sound, only the wind whispers; flowers bloom silently, as spring doesn’t want to wake you up; flowers fall without news, because it’s a matter of seasons. I have traveled through thousands of mountains, but I can’t escape fate; I have gazed through autumn waters, and you are still drifting on the other side…

我们都爱逞强，心里流着眼泪却笑着说没事。
18. We all like to pretend to be strong, with tears flowing in our hearts but smiling and saying it’s okay.

家是一间可以遮风挡雨的房子，一盏永远为你守候的灯光，一个充满烟火气息的厨房，一张摆满家人亲手做的饭菜的餐桌。
19. Home is a house that can shelter you from wind and rain, a light that always waits for you, a kitchen full of the smell of smoke, and a dining table filled with homemade dishes made by your family.

想念一个人，不一定要听到他的声音。听到了他的声音，也许就是另一回事。想像中的一切，往往比现实稍微美好一点。想念中的那个人，也比现实稍微温暖一点。思念好像是很遥远的一回事，有时却偏偏比现实亲近一点。
1. Missing someone doesn’t necessarily mean you have to hear their voice. Hearing their voice might change things. Everything in our imagination is often slightly more beautiful than reality. The person we miss is also slightly warmer than reality. Missing someone seems to be a very distant thing, but sometimes it is surprisingly closer than reality.

爱，不是寻找一个完美的人，而是学会用完美的眼光，欣赏那个并不完美的人。
2. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to appreciate that imperfect person with a perfect perspective.

总有一个人会改变自己，放下底线来纵容你；不是天生好脾气，只是怕失去你，才宁愿把你越宠越坏，困在怀里。所谓性格不合，只是不爱的借口。
3. There will always be someone who will change themselves, lower their boundaries to indulge you; it’s not that they have a naturally good temper, but they fear losing you, so they would rather spoil you and keep you close. So-called incompatible personalities are just an excuse for not loving.

遇到了错的人，或者被人渣欺骗了感情，但是又碍于之前的付出，觉得马上放弃实在是太不甘心了，于是拉拉扯扯又耽误了一些年华。实在是不该如此，人生中对于错误的清零越早越好，千万别将自己害得回不了头，错失了清零的机会，把生活过成了负值。
4. If you’ve met the wrong person or been deceived by a scumbag, but still can’t let go because of the previous efforts and feel too reluctant to give up, thus wasting more time. This should not happen. It’s better to clear the slate as soon as possible in life. Don’t harm yourself to the point of no return, missing the chance to reset and turning your life into a negative.

无论别人怎么看，不要打乱自己的节奏。喜欢的事自然可以坚持，不喜欢的怎么也长久不了。
5. No matter how others see you, don’t disrupt your own rhythm. Things you like can naturally be sustained, but those you don’t like will never last long.

单身久了就觉得一个人的状态挺好的：想看书了就看书，累了就睡觉，想吃啥就吃啥，不想联系谁就自己安静一阵，出去旅行或宅在家怎么都好。对爱情最好还是保持点儿洁癖，不要随便开始不要急着妥协，真正值得的东西都不会那么轻易。珍惜还可以单身的日子吧，我“不介意孤独，比爱你舒服”。
6. Being single for a long time makes you think that being alone is quite good: read when you want, sleep when you’re tired, eat whatever you want, and be quiet by yourself if you don’t want to contact anyone. Travel or stay at home, either way is fine. Keep some standards for love and don’t start or compromise easily. What’s truly worth it won’t come so easily. Cherish the days when you can still be single. I “don’t mind being alone, it’s more comfortable than loving you.”

做一个简单的人，看世间繁杂却不在心中留下痕迹。
7. Be a simple person, see the complexity of the world but not leave traces in your heart.

过错是暂时的遗憾，而错过则是永远的遗憾！不要害怕过错而错过。
8. A mistake is a temporary regret, while missing out is a permanent one! Don’t be afraid of making mistakes and miss out.

如果你准备结婚的话，告诉你一句非常重要的哲学名言“你一定要忍耐包容对方的缺点，世界上没有绝对幸福圆满的婚姻，幸福只是来自于无限的容忍与尊重”。
9. If you’re preparing to get married, let me tell you a very important philosophical saying, “You must endure and tolerate each other’s flaws. There is no absolutely perfect and happy marriage in the world. Happiness comes from endless tolerance and respect.”

如果你能每天呐喊二十一遍“我用不着为这一点小事而烦恼”，你会发现，你心里有一种不可思议的力量，试试看，很管用。
10. If you can shout out twenty-one times a day, “I don’t need to worry about this little thing,” you will find an incredible power in your heart. Give it a try, it works.

人是污浊的河流。要想接受污浊的河流而自身不被污染，我们必须成为大海。
11. People are like turbid rivers. To accept the turbid river without being polluted ourselves, we must become the ocean.

根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁?如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗?
12. There’s no need to look back and see who is cursing you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite it back?

生命就是一系列选择的过程，而关键是要知道如何去承受自己选择的后果。
13. Life is a series of choices, and the key is to know how to bear the consequences of your choices.

与其说是别人让你痛苦，不如说是自己的修养不够。
14. Instead of saying others make you suffer, it’s better to say that your own cultivation is not enough.

最好的人，像孩子一样真诚，像夕阳一样温暖，像天空一样宁静。
15. The best people are as sincere as children, as warm as the sunset, and as peaceful as the sky.

人生，没有回头路；感情，无法删除重启。在乎你的，你不去珍惜；不在乎你的，你总想发生什么故事。人心贵在真诚，感情重在矜持。爱要真心，也要互动；情要珍惜，更要随缘。爱是相吸，不是追逐；情是相互，不分高低。
16. In life, there is no turning back; in relationships, there is no deleting and restarting. Care for those who care for you, but don’t cherish those who don’t. People value sincerity, and relationships value restraint. Love requires a genuine heart and interaction; emotions need to be cherished and taken as they come. Love is about attraction, not pursuit; emotions are mutual, without hierarchy.

其实我很好，只是不习惯，只是会偶尔难受一下，只是会在某一瞬间突然很想某个人，只是会在听到某一句熟悉的话时很难过。
17. In fact, I’m fine, just not used to it, just occasionally feeling a little uncomfortable, just suddenly missing someone at a certain moment, just feeling very sad when hearing a familiar phrase.

人生从来不乏机遇，我们缺少的不是对机遇的把握，而是在机遇到来之前，你已经或者准备怎样身体力行去度过这段漫长的时光。命运的底牌从来没有固定结局，你的人生不是一早就定下了答案的。除了自己，没有什么可屈服。
1. Life is never short of opportunities. What we lack is not the ability to seize opportunities, but what you have already done or are prepared to do to get through the long period before the opportunity arrives. The bottom card of fate has never had a fixed outcome, and your life is not predetermined from the start. Except for yourself, there is nothing to succumb to.

时间是一把刀，它刻下好多伤痕，但最终也把我雕成了一朵花，如约绽放。
2. Time is a knife that carves many scars, but in the end, it also sculpts me into a flower, blooming as promised.

有些人是你初见好，而感觉越来越差的。有些人是你刚开始不感兴趣，却一点一点爱上的。爱的快，不代表就好，因为真正的情感，永远是积累。
3. Some people are good at first sight, but the feeling gets worse and worse. Some people you are not interested in at first, but you fall in love with them little by little. Loving fast does not mean it is good, because true emotions are always accumulated.

痛而不言，笑而不语。有时沉默是一种失望，有时是一种无奈。有些话忍忍，不愿再说；有些事想想，不愿再提。世间之苦，苦在不由己；世间之难，难在情回头。离了心的人留不住，再留会生怨；合不了拍的感情难继续，继续会别扭。伤在身上的痕，时间久了不会痛；伤在心里的痕，却会时常让你情绪起伏。
4. Pain without words, laughter without speaking. Sometimes silence is a kind of disappointment, sometimes it is a kind of helplessness. Some words are endured and unwilling to be said; some things are thought about and unwilling to be mentioned. The suffering in the world is due to being unable to control oneself; the difficulty in the world is due to the inability to turn back emotions. People who have left their hearts cannot be retained, and retaining them will breed resentment; relationships that cannot be synchronized are hard to continue, and continuing will be awkward. Scars on the body will not hurt after a long time, but scars in the heart will often cause emotional fluctuations.

突然很怀念读书的年纪，那个时候什么都很简单，一场八百米测试就是大事，他今天冲我一笑，一天就值了。
5. Suddenly, I miss the age of studying, when everything was simple. An 800-meter test was a big deal, and his smile today made the whole day worthwhile.

当一个人不再对一个人畅所欲言时，很多时候是心远了；当一个人学会默默承担时，很多时候是心冷了。爱是需要和被需要，有人对你发脾气、无理取闹才是幸福；爱是你吵我哄，有人在你面前毫无顾忌、随心所欲才是踏实。爱是甜蜜的干扰，要懂得才好。
6. When a person no longer speaks their mind to another person, it often means their heart has grown distant; when a person learns to bear things silently, it often means their heart has grown cold. Love is about needing and being needed. It is a blessing when someone loses their temper and makes unreasonable demands of you; love is when you quarrel and I coax, when someone is unreserved and unrestrained in front of you, that is what makes you feel secure. Love is a sweet disturbance, and it needs to be understood.

我们花了很多时间来找寻最便捷的沟通方式，却忘了面对面的一个眼神一句话才是最贴心的交流。
7. We spend a lot of time looking for the most convenient way to communicate, but we forget that a glance or a word in face-to-face conversation is the most intimate form of communication.

人生成年后最大的收获，就是愿意承认成为昨天的每一天都是美好的。世间没有什么理所应当，凡事皆是水到渠成。
8. The greatest gain in adulthood is the willingness to admit that every day of becoming the past is beautiful. There is no such thing as taken for granted in the world, everything comes naturally.

陪伴一世的是一颗心、一种心疼、一份包容、一份笃定不移的执着。将就什么都别将就爱，错过什么都别错过真爱，找一个真正爱的人，才会有真正的幸福。感情，慢慢品才会懂；人心，细细看才明了。看得见的好都是讨好，感受得到的好才是真好。
9. To accompany you for a lifetime is a heart, a kind of love and pain, a tolerance, and an unwavering persistence. Don’t settle for anything but love, don’t miss anything but true love. Find someone you truly love, and there will be true happiness. Emotions need to be savored to be understood; people need to be observed carefully to be clear. The good that can be seen is flattery, the good that can be felt is truly good.

别总是无病呻吟，别总把自己说的那样楚楚可怜。谁都受过伤流过泪，不见得你比别人更痛苦，只不过你表达得更精彩罢了。
10. Don’t always complain about being unwell, don’t always portray yourself as so pitiful. Everyone has been hurt and shed tears, you are not necessarily more painful than others, just that you express it more brilliantly.

女人最可悲的不是年华老去，而是在婚姻和平淡生活中的自我迷失。女人可以衰老，但一定要优雅到死，不能让婚姻将女人消磨得失去光泽。
11. The most pitiful thing for a woman is not the passage of time, but losing herself in marriage and ordinary life. A woman can grow old, but she must be elegant until death, and not let marriage wear her down and lose her luster.

你能做的最好是找一个爱你的人，他爱你纯粹是因为你这个人，无论开心、伤心、丑陋、美丽、英俊，不管你是怎样，那个对的人始终会从你身上看到阳光，那便是值得去厮守一辈子的人。
12. The best thing you can do is to find someone who loves you, who loves you purely because of who you are, whether happy, sad, ugly, beautiful, or handsome, no matter what you are like, the right person will always see the sunshine in you, and that is the person worth spending a lifetime with.

不要去羡慕人家过得有多好，抱怨自己的生活有多糟，也不要活在过去的光环里，要知道昨天的太阳，晒不干今天的衣裳，世上有不绝的风景，人更要有前行的心情。
13. Don’t envy how well others are doing, complain about how bad your life is, or live in the glory of the past. Remember that yesterday’s sun cannot dry today’s clothes. There are endless landscapes in the world, and people must have a forward-looking mindset.

我还是相信，星星会说话，石头会开花。穿过夏天的木栅栏和冬天的风雪之后，你终会抵达。因为爱着，就算痛到极致，我们不会老去。
1. I still believe that stars can talk and stones can bloom. After passing through the summer’s wooden fence and the winter’s snow, you will eventually arrive. Because of love, even if it hurts to the extreme, we won’t grow old.

没必要交很多朋友，因为不是所有人都会在你需要的时候站出来，相反很多蜻蜓点水的感情还会造成困扰。越长大发现在乎的圈子越小，这不是坏事儿，你只要守护好该守护的人就够了。就是这一小撮人，在你以为会孤立无援的时候，他们早就挺身而出站在那了。
2. There’s no need to make many friends, as not everyone will stand up for you when you need them. On the contrary, many superficial relationships can cause trouble. As we grow up, we find that the circle of people we care about becomes smaller, which is not a bad thing. You just need to protect the people you should protect. It’s this small group of people who, when you think you’re alone and helpless, have already stepped forward and stood there.

不要在电话里吵架，一定要面对面，因为也许当你看见她说某句话时的表情，你就不忍心那样做了。
3. Don’t argue over the phone, always face to face, because maybe when you see her expression while saying a certain word, you won’t bear to do that.

树不可长得太快。一年生当柴，三年五年生当桌椅，十年百年的才有可能成栋梁。故要养深积厚，等待时间。
4. Trees should not grow too fast. Annual plants can be used as firewood, three to five-year-old trees can be made into tables and chairs, and only those that grow for ten or a hundred years have the potential to become pillars. Therefore, cultivate depth and wait for time.

人生的前期，要是你越嫌麻烦，越懒得学，后来就越可能错过让你动心的人和事，错过新风景。
5. In the early stages of life, the more you find something troublesome and the lazier you are to learn, the more likely you are to miss the people and things that move you, and miss new scenery.

学会在人群中保持一定程度上的孤独，不要有什么想法就立马告诉别人。另外，对别人所说的话千万不要太过当真。不能对别人有太多的期待，无论在道德上抑或在思想上。对于别人的看法，应锻炼出一副淡漠、无动于衷的态度，因为这是培养值得称道的宽容的一个最切实可行的手段。
6. Learn to maintain a certain degree of loneliness in the crowd, don’t tell others your thoughts immediately. In addition, don’t take others’ words too seriously. You can’t have too many expectations of others, neither morally nor intellectually. For others’ opinions, you should develop an indifferent and unresponsive attitude, as this is the most practical means of cultivating commendable tolerance.

好脾气的人不轻易发火，不代表不会发火；性格好的人只是装糊涂，不代表没有底线。
7. Good-tempered people don’t easily get angry, but it doesn’t mean they won’t get angry; people with good personalities may pretend to be confused, but it doesn’t mean they have no bottom line.

不确定就是没在彼此的心上，情感根本无需试探，怀揣那些心知肚明的感情就够了。
8. Uncertainty means not being in each other’s hearts; there’s no need to test emotions, just cherish the feelings that both of you know.

人和人的感情，有时候好像毛衣，织的时候一针一线，小心谨慎，拆的时候只要轻轻一拉，也许只是一句玩笑话，也许是无意间的一个小误会，所有的情感再也不见！友不在多，贵在风雨同行；情不论久，重在有求必应。
9. The relationship between people is sometimes like a sweater, carefully and cautiously knitted stitch by stitch, but when it’s拆除, it only takes a gentle pull. Maybe it’s just a joke, or an unintentional small misunderstanding, and all the emotions are gone! Friends are not about quantity, but about walking together through storms; feelings are not about duration, but about being there for each other when needed.

人最大的对手，往往不是别人，而是自己的懒惰。别指望撞大运，运气不可能永远在你身上，任何时候都要靠本事吃饭。你必须拼尽全力，才有资格说自己的运气不好。
10. The biggest enemy of a person is often not others, but their own laziness. Don’t count on luck, as it won’t always be on your side. At any time, you have to rely on your abilities. You must give your all to have the right to say that your luck is not good.

如果我们怀疑一个人说谎，我们就应该假装相信他，因为他会变得愈来愈神勇而有自信，并更大胆地说谎，最后会自己揭开自己的面具。
11. If we suspect someone is lying, we should pretend to believe them, because they will become more and more courageous and confident, and lie more boldly. In the end, they will reveal their true selves.

若你欲哭无泪，尝试着说出来。若你欲语无言，便什么也不要说。有时一开口，眼泪就会跟着流，眼泪能说出你不能说得东西。
12. If you want to cry but have no tears, try to speak out. If you want to speak but have no words, say nothing. Sometimes, once you open your mouth, tears will flow, and tears can express what you can’t say.

生命中总会有无数个擦肩而过，不是每个相遇都能凝结成相守，不是每个相邀都能转化成相知。一辈子那么长，生活中变数那么多，有时你以为会永远陪你走下去的那个人，居然只能陪你一段路。幸好我们总会保有一点对于永远的奢望，不至于错过下一次爱情来的时候。
13. There will always be countless missed encounters in life. Not every meeting can be transformed into companionship, not every invitation can be turned into understanding. Life is so long, and there are so many variables in life. Sometimes, the person you think will accompany you forever can only walk with you for a while. Fortunately, we always have a little hope for eternity, so as not to miss the next time love comes.

为了自己想过的生活，勇于放弃一些东西。这个世界没有公正之处，你也永远得不到两全之计。若要自由，就得牺牲安全。若要闲散，就不能获得别人评价中的成就。若要愉悦，就无需计较身边人给予的态度。若要前行，就得离开你现在停留的地方。
1. In order to live the life you want, be brave enough to give up some things. There is no justice in this world, and you can never find a perfect solution. If you want freedom, you have to sacrifice safety. If you want leisure, you can’t achieve the success others evaluate. If you want happiness, don’t care about the attitudes of the people around you. If you want to move forward, you have to leave the place where you are currently staying.

有时候，你选择与某人保持距离，不是因为不在乎，而是因为你清楚的知道，Ta不属于你。人生遇到的每个人，出场顺序真的很重要，很多人如果换一个时间认识，就会有不同的结局。或许，有些爱，只能止于唇齿，掩于岁月。
2. Sometimes, you choose to keep a distance from someone, not because you don’t care, but because you clearly know they don’t belong to you. The order in which you meet people in life really matters, and many people would have different outcomes if they had met at a different time. Perhaps, some love can only be kept between the lips and teeth, hidden in the years.

这世界真是神奇，有一天你爱死他们，隔一天你又想将他们千刀万剐。
3. It’s amazing how the world works; one day you love them to death, and the next day you want to tear them apart.

跌倒失落，谁都经历过，一旦认准路，下定决心就别回头，否则辜负了一路的披荆斩棘。
4. Everyone has experienced setbacks and failures. Once you’ve determined your path, make up your mind and don’t look back, or you’ll fail the hardships you’ve endured along the way.

道理明明在自己这边，可是，一吵架就激动，一激动就有理说不清，有理说不清就急，一急就愈说愈快，话说得太快就变成发飙。本来是应该慢条斯理地骂倒对方，现在看起来却像发脾气和无理取闹，这多无辜啊。有的人始终不擅长吵架。
5. You may have the truth on your side, but when arguing, you get excited, and when excited, you can’t express yourself clearly. When you can’t express yourself clearly, you get anxious, and when anxious, you speak faster and faster. Speaking too fast turns into an outburst. Originally, you should calmly and systematically refute the other party, but now it looks like you’re throwing a tantrum and making a fuss for no reason. Some people are just not good at arguing.

在外面讨生活，不要向任何人表示你的痛苦，因为大部分人不关心，剩下的小部分听到后很高兴。
6. When living outside, don’t express your pain to anyone, because most people don’t care, and the few who do are happy to hear about it.

一座城市能让你恋恋不忘，大概是因为那里曾有你深爱过的人和各奔东西的青春。
7. A city that you can’t forget is probably because there was someone you deeply loved and the youth that went separate ways.

苦难面前，每个人都会告诉你一切会过去的。可是，你并不知道这一切到什么时候才会结束，以什么样的方式结束。然后大部分时间里，你依然会焦虑，会惶恐，会难过以及不知所措。所以，人这一生啊，大部分时候都是在借由着外来的一点点微光，苦苦的独撑过程。
8. In the face of hardships, everyone will tell you that everything will pass. However, you don’t know when or how it will end. Most of the time, you will still be anxious, frightened, sad, and at a loss. So, in this life, most of the time is spent relying on a little bit of external light, struggling to get through the process alone.

好的生活就是不瞎想，做得多，要得少，常微笑，懂知足。
9. A good life is not worrying, doing more, wanting less, smiling often, and being content.

每个人都是幸福的。只是，你的幸福，常常在别人眼里。
10. Everyone is happy. It’s just that your happiness is often in the eyes of others.

你现在的付出，都会是一种沉淀，它们会默默铺路，只为让你成为更好的人。
11. Your current efforts will be a kind of accumulation, quietly paving the way for you to become a better person.

没有什么是永恒的，世事无常。在所有的事物中看到这种暂时性，不要急，不要试图做些什么。只要等待！全然无为的等待。如果你能够等，蜕变就在那里。等待本身就是一种蜕变。
12. Nothing is eternal; everything is impermanent. See the temporariness in all things, don’t rush, and don’t try to do anything. Just wait! Complete inaction in waiting. If you can wait, transformation is there. Waiting itself is a transformation.

每个人都是月亮，总有一个阴暗面，从来不让人看见。
13. Everyone is like the moon, with a dark side that is never shown to others.

时间，让深的东西越来越深，让浅的东西越来越浅。看的淡一点，伤的就会少一点，时间过了，爱情淡了，也就散了。别等不该等的人，别伤不该伤的心。我们真的要过了很久很久，才能够明白，自己真正怀念的，到底是怎样的人，怎样的事。
14. Time makes deep things deeper and shallow things shallower. Look at things more lightly, and you will be hurt less. As time passes, love fades, and relationships dissolve. Don’t wait for those who shouldn’t be waited for, and don’t hurt hearts that shouldn’t be hurt. It takes a very long time for us to understand what and whom we truly miss.

我会住在其中的一颗星星上面，在某一颗星星上微笑着，每当夜晚你仰望星空的时候，就会像是看到所有的星星都在微笑一般。
15. I will live on one of those stars, smiling on a certain star, and when you look up at the night sky, it will be as if all the stars are smiling.

你读过的书，经历过的事，等时间长了，那些细枝末节你都忘了，剩下来的，就成了你的素质。
16. The books you read and the experiences you have, over time, the details will be forgotten, and what remains will become your quality.

似乎难过的时候，所有矫情的句子都是为自己量身定做，所有的故事都能感同身受。
1. It seems that when you’re sad, all melodramatic sentences are tailor-made for you, and you can empathize with all the stories.

最难过的事不是别人又得罪你了，而是你自己总爱跟自己过不去。
2. The saddest thing is not when others offend you, but when you can’t stop being hard on yourself.

不管全世界所有人怎么说，我都认为自己的感受才是正确的。无论别人怎么看，我绝不打乱自己的节奏。喜欢的事自然可以坚持，不喜欢的怎么也长久不了。
3. No matter what everyone in the world says, I believe my own feelings are the right ones. No matter how others view it, I won’t disrupt my own rhythm. Things I like can be persisted in, and things I don’t like won’t last long.

人生就是如此，你以为已经从一个漩涡逃离，其实另外一个漩涡就在你的脚下。用力蹬一脚，就进去了。所以，不需要对生活太用力，心会带着我们去该去的地方。
4. Life is like this; you think you’ve escaped one whirlpool, but another one is right beneath your feet. With a forceful kick, you’re in. So, there’s no need to put too much effort into life; our hearts will take us where we need to go.

在这个光怪陆离的人间，没有谁可以将日子过得行云流水。但我始终相信，走过平湖烟雨，岁月山河，那些历尽劫数、尝遍百味的人，会更加生动而干净。时间永远是旁观者，所有的过程和结果，都需要我们自己承担。
5. In this bizarre world, no one can make their life as smooth as flowing clouds and water. But I always believe that those who have gone through trials and tasted all flavors will become more vivid and clean. Time is always a bystander; all the processes and outcomes require us to bear them ourselves.

你就只记得我的毒舌、我的野蛮、我的泼妇，却记不住当初爱你的我。
6. You only remember my venomous tongue, my savagery, my shrewishness, but you can’t remember the me who loved you at the beginning.

有个尴尬的年纪，叫做结婚还太早，恋爱有些晚。跟小孩一起玩无聊，跟大人呆一起又没共同话题。在家太闲，出门没钱。啥都不想被骂没理想，想法多了被指不踏实。青春就是这样，让人有些无所适从，但若干年过去后才发现它的美好和重要。
7. There’s an awkward age called being too early to get married, and too late for dating. Playing with kids is boring, and there’s no common language with adults. Staying at home is idle, and going out has no money. Being scolded for being unambitious when you don’t want anything, and being labeled as impractical when you have too many ideas. Youth is like this, making people feel at a loss, but after several years, we realize its beauty and importance.

今生已不想见你，只为再见的已不是你，心中的你不会再现，再现的，只是沧桑的岁月和流年。
8. In this life, I don’t want to see you anymore, because the one I would see is not you anymore; the person in my heart will never reappear. What reappears is just the vicissitudes of time and the passing years.

我知道你正穿越拥挤人潮，向我走来，有一个你正在这世上的某一处，想到这里，我的心就变得平和。也许我还不认识你，但我们都已不再纠结是否错过了对方最美的年华，更不纠结爱过谁，为谁心碎过。我们都不完美，我们互相温暖。请在你的路上等我，我们终会相遇。
9. I know you are crossing the crowded crowd, walking towards me. There is a you somewhere in this world. Thinking of this, my heart becomes peaceful. Maybe I don’t know you yet, but we are no longer entangled in whether we missed each other’s most beautiful years, or who we loved and for whom we’ve broken our hearts. We are all imperfect, and we warm each other. Please wait for me on your path; we will meet eventually.

这个粗暴的世界不会特地对你留有温柔，总是尖锐又刺耳，不过，在实力说话的面前，一切又很公平。
10. This rough world won’t specially leave tenderness for you; it’s always sharp and harsh. However, in front of strength, everything is fair.

所有的突然之前，都伴随着漫长的伏笔。
11. Before all sudden events, there is a long prelude.

不敢生气的是懦夫，不去生气的才是智者。
12. Those who dare not get angry are cowards; those who choose not to get angry are wise.

活着本身就是一种幸运，年轻本身就是一种幸福。
13. Being alive is a kind of luck, and being young is a kind of happiness.

没有水的地方就是沙漠，没有声音的地方就是寂寞。
14. Where there is no water, there is a desert; where there is no sound, there is loneliness.

吹捧自己是自欺欺人的痛快，中伤别人是有损自己的卑劣。
15. Praising oneself is a self-deceptive pleasure, and attacking others is a self-demeaning meanness.

把爱情投资在一个人身上，冒险；把爱情投资在许多人身上，危险。
16. Investing love in one person is risky; investing love in many people is dangerous.

爱情可以浪漫，但不要浪费；不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手。
17. Love can be romantic, but don’t waste it; don’t casually hold hands, and don’t casually let go.

失去一个人，那也只是生命中的一段过程，天空不会永远都下雨，总是会有雨过天晴。
18. Losing a person is just a part of life; the sky won’t always rain; there will always be a day after the rain.

真正的爱不是把他抱在怀里，而是让他学会走路。
19. True love is not holding him in your arms, but letting him learn to walk.

就算砸碎钟表，谁也休想把时间的脚步束缚半秒钟。
20. Even if you smash the clock, no one can hold back the passage of time for even half a second.

雨后的风，清爽而忧郁，能吹走大地的污浊，却吹不走本身寂寞的心情。
1. The wind after rain is refreshing and melancholic, able to blow away the filth of the earth, but unable to dispel its own lonely mood.

世界上最远的距离，在你面前却不懂我的心，世界上最远的距离，从我掌心到你掌心。
2. The longest distance in the world is being in front of you yet not knowing my heart; the longest distance in the world is from my palm to yours.

因为爱过，所以不会成为敌人，因为伤过，所以不会做朋友。
3. Because we have loved, we shall not be enemies; because we have been hurt, we shall not be friends.

曾听人说，回忆是一座桥，却是通向寂寞的牢。
4. I once heard someone say that memories are like a bridge, but they lead to the prison of loneliness.

最先道歉的人最勇敢；最先原谅的人最坚强；最先释怀的人最幸福。
5. The person who apologizes first is the bravest; the person who forgives first is the strongest; the person who lets go first is the happiest.

别把最爱你的人当成情绪的垃圾桶，无论你心情多烦躁。
6. Don’t treat the person who loves you the most as an emotional trash can, no matter how irritable your mood is.

有一种强大叫简单，强大到谁都无法破坏内心的纯粹。
7. There is a kind of strength called simplicity, so strong that no one can destroy the purity of the heart.

逗逼没什么不好，但是因为你给的嬉笑太多，于是没有人欣赏你的认真。
8. There’s nothing wrong with being a funny person, but because you give too many laughs, no one appreciates your seriousness.

读书和旅行一样，都是在别人的世界里，寻找自己 。
9. Reading and traveling are the same, both are about finding oneself in the world of others.

没有什么天荒地老，只是好感的点滴积累：在相爱时，存下点感动；在冷战时，懂一些感恩 。
10. There is no everlasting love, just the accumulation of little moments of affection: save some touching moments when in love; understand some gratitude during cold wars.

凡事不必太在意，一切随缘随心，缘深多聚聚，缘浅随它去 。
1. Don’t take everything too seriously, let everything go with fate and follow your heart. The deeper the connection, the more you gather; the shallower the connection, let it go.

有时候，你选择与某人保持距离，不是因为不在乎，而是因为你清楚的知道，他不属于你。
2. Sometimes, you choose to keep a distance from someone, not because you don’t care, but because you clearly know they don’t belong to you.

嘴上不饶人的，心肠一般都很软。心里不饶人的，嘴上才会说好听话。所以好人心善，坏人嘴善。
3. Those who don’t spare others with their words usually have a soft heart. Those who don’t spare others in their hearts will speak sweetly. So good people are kind-hearted, while bad people have a sweet tongue.

很多时候，我们说放下了，其实并没有真的放下，我们只是假装很幸福，然后在寂静的角落里孤独地抚摸伤痕。
4. Many times, when we say we’ve let go, we haven’t really let go. We just pretend to be happy and then touch our wounds alone in the quiet corners.

有些路看起来很近，可是走下去却很远的，缺少耐心的人永远走不到头。人生，一半是现实，一半是梦想。
5. Some roads may seem close, but they are far when you walk on them. Impatient people can never reach the end. Life is half reality and half dreams.

大多数人总是觉得自己还年轻，便不甘心对世界认输。有自己的脾气，有死都不放的固执。有一天，岁月磨平了棱角年华腐蚀了心气，才开始在渐行渐远的时候，怀念最初自己。
6. Most people always feel young and unwilling to admit defeat to the world. They have their own temper and stubbornness that they would never give up. One day, when time smooths the edges and years corrode the spirit, they start to miss their original selves as they drift further away.

当我们努力使自己变得比现在更好的时候，我们周围的一切也会变得更好。
7. When we strive to become better than we are now, everything around us will also get better.

人不应该是插在花瓶里供人观赏的静物，而是蔓延在草原上随风起舞的韵律。生命不是安排，而是追求，人生的意义也许永远没有答案，但也要尽情感受这种没有答案的人生。
8. People should not be static objects in a vase for others to admire, but rather the rhythm that spreads across the prairie and dances with the wind. Life is not about arrangement, but pursuit. The meaning of life may never have an answer, but we should still fully experience this answerless life.

一切都会过去，明天各人又将各奔前程。生命无所谓长短，无所谓欢乐哀愁，无所谓爱恨得失。一切都要过去，像那些花，那些流水。
9. Everything will pass, and tomorrow everyone will go their separate ways. Life doesn’t matter in terms of length, joy and sorrow, love and hate, gain and loss. Everything will pass, like those flowers and flowing water.

你有很多暖心的朋友，但你还是要学会孤勇。
10. You have many warm-hearted friends, but you still need to learn to be brave when alone.

爱一个人，不是一时的牵手，而是一世的牵心。
11. Loving someone is not just holding hands for a moment, but caring for a lifetime.

没有人可以左右你的人生，只是很多时候我们需要多一些勇气，去坚定自己的选择。
12. No one can control your life; it’s just that many times we need more courage to stand firm in our choices.

不要因为别人的怀疑，给自己烦恼；更不要因为别人的无知，痛苦了你自己。
13. Don’t let others’ doubts trouble you; don’t let others’ ignorance cause you pain.

别把“还有明天”当成不努力的借口。对时间无法把握的人，很难规划好未来。
14. Don’t use “there’s always tomorrow” as an excuse for not working hard. Those who can’t grasp time well will find it difficult to plan for the future.

站在山顶和山脚下的人，虽然地位不同，但在对方眼里，同样的渺小。口不饶人心地善，心不饶人嘴上甜。心善之人敢直言，嘴甜之人藏迷奸。宁交一帮抬杠的鬼，不结一群嘴甜的贼。每个人都喜欢简单的人，简单的事，不喜欢勾心斗角，不喜欢被算计，不喜欢假假的友情。总有一天，你会遇上那个人，陪你看每一次日出，一直陪你到人生落幕。在“总有一天”到来之前，你的“每一天”就是努力让自己变得更好。
15. People standing at the top of the mountain and those at the foot of the mountain, although in different positions, appear equally small in each other’s eyes. A person with a kind heart but a sharp tongue is better than someone with a sweet mouth but a malicious heart. It’s better to have a group of argumentative friends than a group of sweet-talking cheats. Everyone likes simple people and simple things, not intrigue, not being calculated, and not fake friendships. One day, you will meet that person who will accompany you to watch every sunrise and be with you until the end of your life. Until “one day” arrives, your “every day” should be about striving to become a better person.

深爱一个人，也会爱上他的麻烦，因为有爱，根本就不觉得是麻烦，恨不得粉身碎骨，用上全部力量，帮他把麻烦去掉，不管前面是地雷阵，还是万丈深渊。
16. When you deeply love someone, you will also love their troubles. Because of love, you don’t even feel it’s a trouble, and you’d rather risk your life and use all your strength to help them get rid of their troubles, no matter what obstacles lie ahead.

每个人的内心都是一座城。爱可倾城，亦可毁城。说到底这城还是属于别人的，而我们终其一生等待的攻城人，不是来的太早，便是来的太迟。
17. Everyone’s heart is a city. Love can conquer a city, but it can also destroy it. In the end, this city still belongs to others, and the person we wait for our entire life to conquer it is either too early or too late.

人生，有许多事情无法言说。有些快乐，别人未必能理解；有些悲伤，别人未必能感受。有些累，累在身上，累在心上；有些泪，挂在脸上，伤在心上；有些痛，无伤无痕，痛在心中。人最怕：深交后的陌生；认真后的痛苦；信任后的利用；温柔后的冷漠；爱有天意，是否会眷顾自己；心有灵犀，为何总让人无语。有声的，亦累；有形的，也苦；有伤的，还痛。原来，看不见的伤痕最疼，流不出的眼泪最冷。
1. Life is full of things that cannot be expressed. Some joys may not be understood by others; some sorrows may not be felt by others. Some fatigue is physical, while some is mental; some tears are visible on the face, while some pain is hidden in the heart; some pain is invisible and leaves no trace, yet it hurts deep within.

爱情应该是一个磁场，而不应该是一条绳子，捆着他，不如吸引他。一条绳子会让男人有挣脱的欲望，而一个磁场却能给男人自由的假相，和一个永恒的诱惑。
2. People fear the most: the unfamiliarity after deep friendship; the pain after being serious; the exploitation after trust; the indifference after tenderness; whether love is destined to favor oneself; why heart-to-heart connection always leaves people speechless. The visible is tiring; the tangible is bitter; the injured still hurt. It turns out that invisible wounds hurt the most, and the tears that cannot be shed are the coldest.

再好的东西，也有失去的一天，再美的事物，也有淡忘的一天。如果不能拥有就放手，如果舍不得就痛苦，该珍惜就珍惜，该放弃就放弃，走得轻松，活得才顺心。别问谁的行为伤了你，谁的感情苦了你。生活就是这样，有人痛疼，有人笑，有人哭泣，有人叫。伤了揉一揉，苦了忍一忍，谁的人生都有伤，哪种生活没有苦。有些总是难免的，有些总是难躲的，人生并不怕伤过痛过，也不怕苦过哭过，关键是面对痛疼，你想不想，能不能站起来。
3. Love should be a magnetic field, not a rope. Instead of tying him down, it’s better to attract him. A rope makes a man want to break free, while a magnetic field gives a man the illusion of freedom and an eternal temptation.

没有一个人，不是在相交中慢慢理解的，没有一份情，不是在相处中渐渐认同的。相交就要比心，相处就要凭情，情始于交往，心在于认同，好不好在来往中体现，行不行在相处间感受。真心付出，即使没有得到真情，也不要伤心。这个世界上，没有什么能够糊弄到最后，谁好谁坏，早晚都会明白。只要你问心无愧，就算什么也没有得到，也不必太过看重。人生，在心重情，活着自会安宁。
4. Even the best things will be lost one day, and the most beautiful things will be forgotten one day. If you can’t possess something, let it go; if you can’t bear to part with it, you will suffer. Cherish what should be cherished, and give up what should be given up. Walk lightly, and live a content life. Don’t ask who hurt you or whose feelings made you bitter. Life is like this, with some in pain, some laughing, some crying, and some shouting. If you’re hurt, rub it; if you’re bitter, endure it. Everyone’s life has pain, and every kind of life has bitterness. Some things are inevitable, and some things are hard to avoid. Life is not afraid of being hurt or pained, nor of being bitter or crying. The key is whether you want to and can stand up when facing the pain.

离开不是绝情，是留下来没有人看重；撒手未必轻松，是伤透的心不想再疼。
5. No one is understood through interaction, and no relationship is recognized through getting along. Interaction requires comparison of hearts, and getting along requires emotions. Emotions begin with interaction, and the heart lies in recognition. Good or bad is reflected in interactions, and feasibility is felt during getting along. Even if you don’t receive true love after sincere giving, don’t be sad. In this world, nothing can fool you in the end. Who is good and who is bad will eventually be understood. As long as you have a clear conscience, even if you don’t get anything, you don’t have to pay too much attention. Life is about valuing emotions and living in peace.

年轻的我们总有很多东西无法挽留，比如走远的时光，比如枯萎的情感；总有很多东西难以割舍，比如追逐的梦想，比如心中的喜爱；面对前进道路上的未知因素，路走不通的时候，不要眷恋已逝的风景，不要回望来时的行程，失败了一件事，总有一扇门还在为你的梦想打开。
6. Leaving is not heartless; it’s staying when no one values you. Letting go may not be easy, but it’s because a broken heart doesn’t want to hurt anymore.

爱情也好友情也罢：宁可高傲离开，也不卑微存在；宁可笑着放弃，也不哭着拥有。
7. When we are young, there are many things we cannot retain, such as the distant past and withered emotions; there are many things that are hard to give up, like chasing dreams and cherished likes. Facing the unknown factors on the road ahead, when the path is blocked, don’t be nostalgic for the past scenery, don’t look back at the journey, and when one thing fails, there’s always a door open for your dreams.

一些冥冥中阻止你的，正是为了今天和明天，乃至以后的漫长岁月，让真正属于你的，最终属于你。有时候，你以为的归宿，其实只是过渡；你以为的过渡，其实就是归宿。
8. Whether it’s love or friendship: it’s better to leave with pride than to exist humbly; it’s better to give up with a smile than to possess with tears.

每个人都身怀天赋，但如果用会不会爬树的能力来评判一只鱼，它会终其一生以为自己愚蠢。
9. Some things that seem to prevent you are actually for your sake today, tomorrow, and in the long years to come, allowing what truly belongs to you to eventually be yours. Sometimes, what you think is your destination is just a transition; what you think is a transition turns out to be the destination.

你爱一棵树、一只鸟、一只宠物，你去照顾它、喂养它、关爱它，即使它不给你任何回报，你仍然爱它，这种爱你能了解吗？大部分人都不是以这样方式去爱，因为我们的爱永远被焦灼、嫉妒、恐惧所限，这意味着，我们在内心是依赖着他人的，我们其实是希望被爱。
1. You love a tree, a bird, a pet, you take care of it, feed it, and care for it, even if it doesn’t give you any return, you still love it. Can you understand this kind of love? Most people don’t love in this way because our love is always limited by anxiety, jealousy, and fear. This means that we are dependent on others in our hearts, and we actually want to be loved.

一个人怎么看待自己，决定了此人的命运，指向了他的归宿。我们的展望也这样，当更好的思想注入其中，它便光明起来。不管你的生命多么卑微，你要勇敢地面对生活，不用逃避，更不要用恶语诅咒它。
2. How a person views themselves determines their destiny and points to their destination. Our outlook is like this too; when better thoughts are infused, it becomes brighter. No matter how humble your life is, face it bravely without escaping or cursing it with harsh words.

起风的日子学会依风起舞，落雨的时候学会为自己撑起一把伞。生活有望穿秋水的期待，也会有的意想不到的欣喜。
3. On windy days, learn to dance with the wind; on rainy days, learn to hold up an umbrella for yourself. Life has expectations of longing, as well as unexpected surprises.

只有当你得不到的时候，你才很容易认为那得不到的一定是最幸福的事，然而幸福本身却并非与此有关。幸福的选择在于，你对自己的满意程度是多少，而不是别人对你的满意程度是多少。
4. Only when you can’t obtain something, do you easily think that the unattainable must be the happiest thing. However, happiness itself is not related to this. The choice of happiness lies in how satisfied you are with yourself, not how satisfied others are with you.

世上没有一件工作不辛苦，没有一处人事不复杂。如果命中注定是打工，便打好它。别把青春葬送，你在家跷二郎腿，青春也一样葬送，光阴不会过得慢点。有些人是不必工作的，但那不是你，反正都要做了，何不快乐一点去做？
5. There is no job in the world that is not hard, and no workplace that is not complicated. If fate has determined you to be a worker, then work hard. Don’t waste your youth; even if you sit at home with your legs crossed, youth will still be wasted, and time won’t slow down. Some people don’t have to work, but that’s not you. Since it has to be done, why not do it happily?

希望你每天那么忙，做的每件事都是自己喜欢的，希望你爱的人也一样爱着你，希望你讨厌的人都消失在你视线里，希望有一天，你的笑容全都发自内心。
6. I hope you are so busy every day, doing things you like, and the people you love love you back. I hope the people you dislike disappear from your sight, and one day, all your smiles come from the heart.

我们一路奋战，不是为了改变世界，而是为了不让世界改变我们。
7. We fight not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing us.

年轻的我们总有很多东西无法挽留，比如走远的时光，比如枯萎的情感；总有很多东西难以割舍，比如追逐的梦想，比如心中的喜爱；面对前进道路上的未知因素，路走不通的时候，不要眷恋前面的风景，不要回望来时的行程；简单做自己，总有一扇门为梦想打开。
8. Young people always have many things that cannot be retained, such as the distant time and withered emotions; there are always many things that are hard to let go, such as the pursued dreams and the things in our hearts. When facing the unknown factors on the road ahead and the path is blocked, don’t be attached to the scenery ahead or look back at the journey. Just be yourself, and there will always be a door open for dreams.

人往往经历过不幸福，才知道什么是幸福。就好比遇见过错的人，才知道谁是对的人。
9. People often experience unhappiness before they know what happiness is. Just like meeting the wrong person, you’ll know who is the right one.

未来不迎，过往不恋，当下的每一个瞬间就是生命的唯一瞬间。活好了当下，就活好了一生。
10. Do not welcome the future, do not cling to the past; the present moment is the only moment of life. Live well in the present, and you will live well in your life.

有些人，有些事，该忘就忘了吧，人家从没把你放心里过，你又何必自作多情。
11. Some people, some things, just forget them. They never really cared about you, so why be overly sentimental?

每个人都是上帝咬过一口的苹果，都是有缺陷的。有的人缺陷比较大，那是因为上帝特别钟爱他的芬芳。
12. Everyone is an apple bitten by God, all with flaws. Some people have bigger flaws because God especially loves their fragrance.

不必把太多人，请进生命里。遇到爱你的人，学会感恩。遇到你爱的人，学会付出；遇到你恨的人，学会原谅。遇到恨你的人，学会道歉，遇到欣赏你的人，学会笑纳。遇到你欣赏的人，学会赞美；遇到嫉妒你的人，学会低调。遇到你嫉妒的人，学会转化；遇到不懂你的人，学会沟通。遇到你不懂的人，学会理解！
13. Don’t let too many people into your life. When you meet someone who loves you, learn to be grateful. When you meet someone you love, learn to give; when you meet someone you hate, learn to forgive. When you meet someone who hates you, learn to apologize; when you meet someone who appreciates you, learn to accept. When you meet someone you admire, learn to praise; when you meet someone who envies you, learn to be low-key. When you meet someone you envy, learn to transform; when you meet someone who doesn’t understand you, learn to communicate. When you meet someone you don’t understand, learn to comprehend!

同时追两只兔子的人，一只也不会逮到。不要贪图无所不有，不要试图无所不知，不要企图无所不能，做你最擅长的事儿！
1. He who chases two rabbits at the same time will not catch either. Do not be greedy for everything, do not try to know everything, and do not attempt to be capable of everything. Focus on what you are best at!

生的试题共有四道题目：学业、事业、婚姻、家庭。平均分高才能及格，切莫花费太多的时间和精力在任一题目上。
2. The exam of life consists of four questions: academics, career, marriage, and family. Only by achieving a high average score can you pass. Do not spend too much time and energy on any single question.

所有相遇的千回百转，为的是来到世上，遇到那个懂你的人；所有的过往，都值得我们珍惜；所有的经历，都是一种懂得，懂得，是生命中最美的缘。人生最大的幸福莫过于：白天可以有说有笑，晚上还能睡个好觉！
3. All the twists and turns in life lead us to this world, to meet someone who understands you. All the past is worth cherishing, and all the experiences are a form of understanding. Understanding is the most beautiful fate in life. The greatest happiness in life is to be able to talk and laugh during the day and sleep well at night!

咖啡苦与甜，不在于怎么搅拌，而在于是否放糖。一段伤痛，不在于怎么忘记，而在于是否有勇气重新开始。
4. The bitterness or sweetness of coffee depends not on how well you stir it, but on whether you add sugar. The pain of a past experience depends not on how to forget it, but on whether you have the courage to start over.

有时候，人与人之间，会因为经历、背景、阅历、不同文化等而产生误解甚至冲突，心怀善意，努力化解，化解不了，避而远之，就行了。世界有时候是很大的，而胸怀也要宽大一些为好。
5. Sometimes, misunderstandings or conflicts may arise between people due to differences in experiences, backgrounds, culture, etc. With a kind heart, try to resolve them. If you cannot, just avoid them. The world can be a big place, and it is better to have a broad mind.

人生无须过于执着，尽人事安天命而已。选择了，努力了，坚持了，走过了，问心无愧就好，至于结果怎样，其实并不重要。
6. There is no need to be too persistent in life; just do your best and let fate take its course. Choose, strive, persist, and walk through it with a clear conscience. The outcome is not really important.

人这一辈子，无非就是个过程，荣华花间露，富贵草上霜，生不带来，死不带去，得意些什么？失意些什么？顺其自然、随遇而安，如行云般自在，像流水般洒脱，才是人生应有的态度。
7. Life is just a process. Glory and wealth are like dew on flowers and frost on grass. We don’t bring them when we are born, nor do we take them when we die. What is there to be proud or disappointed about? Go with the flow, be content with what you have, and be as carefree as clouds and water. This is the attitude one should have in life.

专注于那些好的、向上的、积极的、真心关怀自己的，而不是相反的那些。对后者，忽略、遗忘、置之一笑。
8. Focus on the good, positive, and sincere people who care about you, rather than the opposite. Ignore, forget, and laugh at the latter.

生活不要安排得太满，人生不要设计得太挤。不管做什么，都要给自己留点空间，好让自己可以从容转身。人生，可以痛苦，更要懂得追求快乐。一辈子，只求有一道令自己流连忘返，不离不弃的风景就已足够。
9. Do not overschedule your life or overplan your existence. Leave some space for yourself to turn around gracefully. Life can be painful, but it is also important to pursue happiness. In a lifetime, it is enough to have one unforgettable and unwavering scenery.

每一颗心，都有一份无法替代的情愫和某一道风景永远关联着。人生，就是一个修炼的过程，何必用这一颗不平的心看待人和事，作践了自己，辜负了岁月。
10. Every heart has an irreplaceable emotion and a scenery that is forever connected. Life is a process of cultivation. Why view people and things with an unsettled heart, only to waste your life and betray the years?

你梦想成为什么样的人，你就能成为什么样的人。你今时今日所处的位置，都是基于你所信赖和梦想的一切。
11. The kind of person you dream of becoming is the kind of person you can become. Your current position is based on everything you believe in and dream of.

对待一切善良的人，不管是家属，还是朋友，都应该有一个两字箴言：一曰真，二曰忍。
12. Treat all kind people, whether family or friends, with a two-word motto: one is “truth” and the other is “patience.”

假如你内心没有勇气面对现实，选择哪一条路对你都是一场折磨。因为现实会告诉你答案：真正的问题不是你去选择哪条路，而是你选择哪条路，别人会选择你。
13. If you don’t have the courage to face reality, any path you choose will be a torment. Reality will tell you the answer: the real problem is not which path you choose, but which path others will choose for you.

做人做事最好的状态就是：不刻意。不刻意自我表现，也不刻意淡泊名利；不刻意迎合，也不刻意狂狷；不刻意追逐流行，也不刻意卓尔不群。如是，则不心累，不纠结，不失望。
14. The best state of being and doing is: not deliberate. Do not deliberately show off, nor deliberately be indifferent to fame and fortune; do not deliberately cater to others, nor deliberately be eccentric; do not deliberately chase trends, nor deliberately stand out. In this way, you will not be tired, entangled, or disappointed.

人的意念决定着他将吸引来什么样的宇宙能量，这种意念不仅可以改变一个人财富、精神面貌，也可以改变一个人的命运。
15. A person’s thoughts determine the kind of cosmic energy they will attract. This kind of thought can not only change a person’s wealth and mental appearance but also change a person’s destiny.

如果说，你是我最心爱的人，那么，这也许不是真正的爱情。爱情就是，我觉得你是把刀子，我用它搅动我的心。
1. If I say you are my most beloved person, then perhaps this is not true love. Love is when I feel you are a knife, and I use it to stir my heart.

我们每个人都像小丑，玩着五个球，五个球是你的工作、健康、家庭、朋友、爱情。这五个球只有一个是用橡胶做的，掉下去会弹起来，那就是工作。另外四个都是用玻璃做的，掉了，就碎了。
2. We are all like clowns, juggling five balls: work, health, family, friends, and love. Among these five balls, only one is made of rubber and will bounce back when it falls, that is work. The other four are made of glass, and once they fall, they shatter.

人生最大困惑在于你觉得需要确定一个方向，而你却找不到这个方向。
3. The greatest confusion in life is that you feel the need to determine a direction, but you cannot find it.

世界上既无所谓快乐或也无所谓痛苦；只有一种状况与另一种状况的比较，如此而已。
4. There is no such thing as happiness or suffering in the world; there is only a comparison between one situation and another, nothing more.

在我们周围，能够真正关注你的，就那么寥寥几个。所以，我们无需在意别人的评说，只要把自己的事情做好；无须看别人的眼神，只需走自己的路；无须有过多的抱怨，那样会使自己活得更累。不必一味讨好别人，不管走在何处，都不要迷失自己。如果你讨厌我，我一点也不介意，我活着不是为了取悦你。
5. Around us, there are only a few who truly care about you. Therefore, we don’t need to care about others’ opinions, just do our own things well; don’t pay attention to others’ eyes, just walk our own path; don’t complain too much, as it will make our lives more tiring. We don’t have to please others all the time; no matter where we are, don’t lose ourselves. If you hate me, I don’t mind at all, as I am not living to please you.

耐心是改变命运的最快速度。失去耐心，相信迅速，已经开始损害我们的存在与思维。要知道，知识、财富与地位，都不可能速成的，只能慢慢寻找，慢慢累加。
6. Patience is the fastest way to change our destiny. Losing patience means believing in the quick success, which has already begun to damage our existence and thinking. We must understand that knowledge, wealth, and status cannot be achieved quickly; they can only be found and accumulated slowly.

跟自己说要活的真实，不管别人怎么看，就算全世界都否定自己。还有我自己相信自己。跟自己说要过得快乐，无需去想是否有人在乎我，一个人也可以很精彩。跟自己说悲伤时可以哭的很狼狈很狼狈，但眼泪流干后，要抬起头笑得很漂亮很漂亮。
7. Tell yourself to live genuinely, no matter how others see you, even if the whole world denies you. I still believe in myself. Tell yourself to be happy, without worrying whether anyone cares about you; one person can be wonderful too. Tell yourself that you can cry miserably when you’re sad, but after the tears dry, raise your head and smile beautifully.

如果雨之后还要雨，如果忧伤之后仍是忧伤，请让我从容面对这别离之后的别离，微笑地继续去寻找，一个不可能再出现的你。
8. If after the rain comes more rain, and after sorrow comes more sorrow, let me face this separation with grace and continue to search for a you who will never appear again, with a smile.

眼里没你的人，你何必放心里；情里没你的份，你何苦一往情深。但同时记住，永远不要因为新鲜感，扔掉一直陪伴你的人。那些平淡与安静，亦是心灵的另一种力量。
9. If you are not in someone’s eyes, why bother putting them in your heart? If you don’t have a share in their emotions, why be so deeply in love with them? But also remember, never throw away those who have been with you all along for the sake of novelty. The plain and quiet moments are another form of strength for our souls.

总是咒骂脚下路途坎坷的人，原来，只是低头走了太久。人生那些不顺意，不是因为生活错了，而是我们面对生活的姿态错了。低头抬头都是一辈子，低头赌气、不如抬头争气！
10. Those who always curse the bumpy road under their feet are just walking with their heads down for too long. The frustrations in life are not because life is wrong, but because our attitude towards life is wrong. Both looking down and looking up are for a lifetime; it’s better to look up and strive than to look down and sulk!

真实的生活是，认真做好每一天你分内的事情。不索取目前与你无关的爱与远景。不纠缠于多余情绪和评断。
1. Real life is about doing your daily tasks earnestly and seriously. Do not seek love and distant prospects that are not currently related to you. Do not get entangled in unnecessary emotions and judgments.

人生唯一有把握不会落空的等待是那必然到来的死亡。但是，人们都似乎忘了这一点而等着别的什么，甚至死到临头仍执迷不悟。我对这种情形感到悲哀又感到满意。
2. The only thing in life that you can be sure will not be in vain is the inevitable arrival of death. However, people seem to have forgotten this and wait for something else, even when death is imminent, they still fail to realize it. I feel both sorrow and satisfaction about this situation.

人与人最短的距离叫拥抱，人与人最长的距离叫等待，人与人最看不见的距离叫包容，人与人最可怕的距离叫漠视你的存在。
3. The shortest distance between people is called a hug, the longest distance is called waiting, the most invisible distance is called tolerance, and the most terrible distance is called ignoring your existence.

我想我还是不够成熟，没办法为自己那颗浮躁的心波澜不惊地掌舵。道理我都懂，但是能安慰我的不是道理。是你。
4. I think I am still not mature enough to calmly steer my restless heart. I understand the principles, but what comforts me is not the principles, it’s you.

上帝给了你很多诱惑，却不让你轻易得到。但是，总不能流血就喊痛，怕黑就开灯，想念就联系，疲惫就放空，孤立就讨好，脆弱就想家……
5. God gives you many temptations but does not let you get them easily. However, you should not cry out in pain when you bleed, turn on the light when you’re afraid of the dark, contact when you miss, let go when you’re tired, flatter when you’re isolated, and long for home when you’re vulnerable…

到了一定的年龄，开始学会谁都不想取悦了，没必要去迎合什么，觉得跟谁在一起感觉舒服就在一起，包括朋友，累了就躲远，你喜欢我，我喜欢你，我们就在一起玩耍，我们都不喜欢，千万不要在一起，生活已经如此的艰难，为何不让自己过顺畅些呢。
6. At a certain age, you start to learn not to please anyone, there is no need to cater to anything, feel comfortable with whoever you are with, including friends, distance yourself when you’re tired, if you like me and I like you, we play together, if neither of us likes each other, do not be together, life is already so difficult, why not make it smoother for yourself.

亲爱的自己，该醒醒了。你已经做了太多无谓的挣扎，太多荒唐的事情，太多盲目的决定，而错过了太多本来的幸福，太多安静的生活，太多理性的选择。现在开始，请认真把你做过的都忘记，再用心把你错过的都弥补回来。你要更精彩的活，精彩的让别人注视和羡慕，而不只是关注别人的幸福。
7. Dear self, it’s time to wake up. You have made too many meaningless struggles, ridiculous things, blind decisions, and missed too much happiness, peaceful life, and rational choices. From now on, please seriously forget what you have done, and make up for what you have missed with all your heart. You should live more wonderfully, so that others will watch and envy, not just focus on other people’s happiness.

少说话，多倾听。因为爱说话的人，本就失去了一分宁静的美。而且，言多必失。有句话是，三思而后行，三思而后言。
8. Speak less and listen more. Because those who love to talk have already lost a tranquil beauty. Moreover, the more you speak, the more likely you are to make mistakes. There is a saying, “think twice before you act, think thrice before you speak.”

被爱意味着被消耗，被染成灰烬，爱则意味着永不枯息的明灯放射光芒，被爱转瞬即逝，爱则是永存不灭。
9. Being loved means being consumed and turned into ashes, while loving means an ever-burning lamp radiating light, being loved is fleeting, while love is eternal.

当人非常执着地寻找真相时，他往往是在寻找推翻自己直觉和判断的证据，他希望有人用事实说服他，一切都是他想多了。可是当真相最终覆盖了想象，比直觉还糟的时候，虽然早有准备，他还是备受打击。没有什么比秘密更黑暗了，当你无法解决，最终还是只能让事情自然过去。
10. When people are very persistent in seeking the truth, they are often looking for evidence to overthrow their intuition and judgment, hoping someone will convince them with facts that everything is just overthinking. But when the truth finally covers imagination and is worse than intuition, although prepared, they are still heavily impacted. Nothing is darker than secrets, when you can’t solve them, you can only let things pass naturally.

不要因为暂时的得到而失去未来的拥有，靠牺牲别人得到的更不会长久。没办法，这是天道。
11. Do not lose future possession for temporary gain, and what you get by sacrificing others will not last long. There is no other way, this is the way of heaven.

我们都不是随便的一个人遇到另一个人，我们都是经过跋山涉水，漫漫长路才找到彼此，在我们的人生长河里，这因缘际会的短暂的一瞬，那不是偶然，那是我们的选择。
12. We are not just any two people who meet each other, we have traveled through mountains and rivers, long roads to find each other, in our long river of life, this brief moment of fate, it is not accidental, it is our choice.

时光静好，与君语；细水流年，与君同；繁华落尽，与君老。
13. Time is peaceful, talk with you; gentle years, together with you; when the prosperity falls, grow old with you.

我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，到最后才发现：人生最曼妙的风景，竟是内心的淡定与从容。 我们曾如此期盼外界的认可，到最后才知道：世界是自己的，与他人毫无关系。
14. We once longed so much for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end: the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and composure within our hearts. We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, only to find out in the end: the world is our own, and has nothing to do with others.

人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。
1. Life is short, don’t leave any regrets. Laugh when you feel like laughing, cry when you feel like crying, and love when you feel like loving. Don’t suppress yourself for no reason.

人的一生需要面临许多选择，还有懂得选择。友不在多，投缘为好；人不在众，志同为佳。跟有正能量的人交往，即便放低姿态；跟品格优秀的人交往，抱一颗真诚的心。
2. In one’s life, there are many choices to be faced and the ability to make the right choices. A few friends are better than many if they are congenial; a few people are better than a crowd if they share the same aspirations. Keep company with those who have positive energy, even if you have to lower your stance; keep company with those who have excellent character, with a sincere heart.

不快乐的人不是困在对昨天的遗憾中，就是活在对明天的迷茫里。其实每一个人、每一段经历出现的或早或晚都有它的意义，太早错过的是要告诉你珍惜相遇，相见恨晚的是要告诉你珍惜拥有。无论远近遇上的都是运气，无论高低看见的都是风景。
3. Unhappy people are either trapped in the regrets of yesterday or living in the confusion of tomorrow. In fact, everyone and every experience that comes early or late has its meaning. Those who are missed too early are meant to teach you to cherish encounters, and those who meet too late are meant to teach you to cherish what you have. Whether far or near, those you meet are all luck, and whether high or low, what you see is all scenery.

人生最大的贵人，永远是自己。取悦男人不如取悦自己，只取悦自己的女人注定可以倾倒世人。
4. The biggest benefactor in life is always yourself. It’s better to please yourself than to please men. A woman who pleases herself is destined to captivate the world.

面对， 不一定最难过。 孤独， 不一定不快乐。 得到， 不一定能长久。 失去， 不一定不再拥有。不要因为寂寞而错爱， 不要因为错爱而寂寞一生。
5. Facing something is not necessarily the most difficult. Being alone is not necessarily unhappy. Gaining something does not guarantee it will last. Losing something does not mean you won’t have it again. Don’t love someone out of loneliness, and don’t be lonely for a lifetime because of a wrong love.

有时候，你的一句话可以让我回味几天。有时候，你的一句话也可以让我失望几天。这就是在乎。
6. Sometimes, a word from you can make me savor it for days. Sometimes, a word from you can disappoint me for days. That’s what it means to care.

人生就像一场舞会，教会你最初舞步的人，未必能陪你走到散场。
7. Life is like a dance, and the person who teaches you the first dance steps may not be able to accompany you until the end.

思念这东西，真的很没道理。不是为了缅怀往事而念念不忘，而是真的念念不忘。
8. This thing called missing really makes no sense. It’s not to reminisce about the past, but truly can’t forget.

没有人能烦恼你，除非你拿别人的言行来烦恼自己；没有放不下的事情，除非你自己不愿意放下。
9. No one can bother you unless you take other people’s words and actions to bother yourself; there is no matter that can’t be let go unless you are unwilling to let it go.

我知道，那些夏天就像你一样回不来，我也不会再对谁满怀期待。我知道，这个世界每天都有太多遗憾。所以，你好，再见。
10. I know that those summers, like you, will never come back, and I will no longer expect too much from anyone. I know that there are too many regrets in this world every day. So, hello, goodbye.

时间是一把刀，它刻下好多伤痕，但最终也把我雕成了一朵花。如约绽放。
11. Time is a knife, it carves many scars, but in the end, it also sculpts me into a flower. Blooming as promised.

你觉得累，不是因为路上坎坷太多，而是因为忘记了要去哪里。
12. You feel tired, not because there are too many bumps in the road, but because you have forgotten where you are going.

悟空是取经路上碰到的，八戒是取经路上碰到的，沙和尚是取经路上碰到的，白龙马也是，所以要碰到可与你一路同行的人，你须先上路！
13. Wukong, Bajie, Sha Monk, and the White Dragon Horse were all met on the journey to the West. So, to meet people who can accompany you all the way, you must first set off on the journey!

现状是没那么容易改变的，即便是足够努力，也很难在短时间内看出效果。所以有时你认为的无法改变，也可能只是暂时没看出效果而已，而不是不够努力。改变是需漫长的努力的，而不是一时的急功近利。还是那句话，除却人类无法改变的事情，你所做的每一次努力，都在潜移默化的影响着你的人生轨迹。
14. The current situation is not easy to change, even with enough effort, it is difficult to see results in a short time. So sometimes what you think is unchangeable may just be temporarily invisible, not because you haven’t tried hard enough. Change requires long-term effort, not instant success. As the saying goes, apart from things that humans cannot change, every effort you make subtly influences your life trajectory.

先变成更喜欢的自己，然后遇到一个不需要取悦的人。
15. First become a person you like more, and then meet someone who doesn’t need to be pleased.

有些梦境，是不是前生。有些相识，是不是旧人。有些知遇，是不是因缘所定。有些恩怨，是不是冥冥之中。有些熟悉，是不是曾经相逢。有些感觉，是不是心犀相通。有些场景，是不是似曾去过。有些故事，是不是在延续前尘。明明灭灭，一切如幻如梦。飘飘渺渺，终究难解难分。
16. Are some dreams from a previous life? Are some acquaintances old friends? Are some encounters destined by fate? Are some grudges within the unseen? Are some familiarities once met? Are some feelings heart-to-heart connections? Are some scenes去过 before? Are some stories continuing from the past? Flickering, everything is like an illusion and a dream. Vague and indistinct, it is ultimately hard to separate and understand.

从来没有人为了读书而读书，人们只会在书中读自己、发现自己或检查自己。
17. No one reads books just for the sake of reading; people only find themselves, discover themselves, or examine themselves in books.

网络的相遇，大多如两条交叉线，交集之后就越来越远，不断重复一次次从陌生到熟悉，又从熟悉到陌生的上演，最后相忘于网海茫茫，留下的是苦是甜，或恩或怨，多少年后，谁还记得谁的话语，谁还在意谁的悲欢…
1. Most online encounters are like two intersecting lines, growing farther apart after the intersection, repeatedly going from strangers to acquaintances, and then back to strangers, eventually forgetting each other in the vast internet ocean. What remains are the joys and sorrows, friendships or resentments; who will remember whose words after many years, and who will care about whose happiness or sadness?

可进可出，若即若离，可爱可怨，可聚而不会散，才是最天长地久的一种好朋友。
2. The best kind of friendship is one where you can come and go, be close or distant, love or blame, gather without dispersing, and last forever.

有一天，当我年老，有人问我，人生的哪一段时光最快乐，也许，我会毫不犹豫地说，是十多岁的时候。那个时候，爱情还没有来到，日子是无忧无虑的；最痛苦的，也不过是测验和考试。当时觉得很大压力，后来回望，不过是多么的微小。
3. One day, when I am old, if someone asks me which period of life was the happiest, perhaps I would say without hesitation that it was when I was in my teens. At that time, love had not yet arrived, and life was carefree; the most painful thing was just tests and exams. It felt like a great pressure at the time, but looking back, it was so trivial.

最好的学习是对过去的反思，最好的教训是你曾经历过的失败。
4. The best learning comes from reflecting on the past, and the best lesson is from the failures you have experienced.

一脸春风下，多少曾经凋落的花。一程芬芳路，穿越多少海角天涯。你不懂我的故事，那是一个个心酸的神话。你不懂我的世界，那不仅仅是一点点的时差。亲爱的，你理解我吗，我是一棵默默无言的小草，并不适合世间的繁华。我是一朵飘逸的游云，崇尚的是无牵无挂。
5. Under the spring breeze, how many once-withered flowers have bloomed again. Along the fragrant path, I have crossed countless corners of the world. You don’t understand my story, which is a series of heart-wrenching myths. You don’t understand my world, which is not just a little difference in time. My dear, do you understand me? I am a silent blade of grass, not suited for the world’s splendor. I am a wandering cloud, advocating for a carefree life.

生命终究在时光中凋零，灵魂却可以在岁月里充盈；肉身逃不出消逝的宿命，精神却能够穿越时空的瓶颈。可以承受落寞，不要放弃追寻；可以面对空白，不能失去憧憬。
6. Life will eventually wither in time, but the soul can be enriched through the years; the physical body cannot escape the fate of disappearance, but the spirit can break through the bottleneck of time and space. You can bear loneliness, but don’t give up the pursuit; you can face emptiness, but don’t lose your longing.

安全感就是，有一个比你高、比你壮、比你老的人保护着你的时候。
7. A sense of security is when someone taller, stronger, and older than you is protecting you.

如果想过得快乐，就应把生活跟目标联系在一起，而不是纠结在某人或某事上，学会在每一天里找到快乐，去感知微小的愉悦。我们常常是：看不到希望，放弃；对自己没信心，放弃；还有其他选择，放弃；付出代价太大，放弃…放弃是如此容易，可以有很多的理由，可坚持只有一个理由——我想要。
8. If you want to be happy, you should connect your life with your goals, instead of getting entangled in someone or something. Learn to find happiness in every day and perceive the small pleasures. We often give up for various reasons: when we can’t see hope, lack confidence in ourselves, have other choices, or face too high a cost. Giving up is so easy, with many excuses, but persistence has only one reason - I want to.

愿有人陪你颠沛流离，如果没有，愿你成为自己的太阳。
9. May someone accompany you through the ups and downs of life, and if not, may you become your own sun.

天听过最傻最心疼的一句话 “他伤了你那么多次你怎么还没离开？” “偶尔他也会给我敷药，喂我吃糖。”
10. I once heard the most foolish and heart-wrenching words: “He hurt you so many times, why haven’t you left?” “Sometimes he also applies medicine for me, and feeds me candy.”

有时候，明明很累了，但却没办法停止脚步， 因为有太多的责任，太多的梦想。
11. Sometimes, even though we are very tired, we can’t stop moving forward because there are too many responsibilities and dreams.

成熟的两性关系应该就是这样，放低了对对方的期待，相信对方可以处理好自己的事情，你只是一个支持者和陪伴者，对方的路始终要让他一个人走 。两个人始终不同，却能庆祝这份不同，互补共赢；也能彼此分开旅行，去实践自己的梦想，成为真实的自己 。
12. A mature relationship between two people should be like this: lowering expectations of each other, believing that they can handle their own affairs, and you are just a supporter and companion. Their path must always be walked alone. The two people are always different, yet they can celebrate this difference, complement each other, and achieve a win-win situation. They can also travel separately to pursue their dreams and become their true selves.

你太看重你自己，同时又太看重别人对你的评价，你被别人虚张声势的强大吓傻了，你开始怀疑自己，你不发表意见，即便你有远见，在远见未被证实之前，你永远不敢迈出尝试的那步。你是被你自己一步步击倒的，从你开始为自己的畏缩找借口的那天起，你已经开始慢慢变成被你看不起的样子。
13. You take yourself too seriously and at the same time care too much about others’ opinions of you. You are intimidated by others’ feigned strength and start doubting yourself. You don’t express your opinions, even if you have foresight, because you never dare to take that step before it is proven. You are defeated by yourself, step by step, from the day you started making excuses for your timidity. You are slowly becoming the person you look down upon.

有时候，坚持了你最不想干的事情之后，便可得到你最想要的东西。
1. Sometimes, after persisting in doing what you least want to do, you can get what you want the most.

把你的脸迎朝阳光，那就不会有阴影。
2. Face your face towards the sun, and there will be no shadows.

生活就是一场修行，修自己的耐心、恒心、平常心。如果能够承受巨大的失落，眼看着美好被岁月和生活消耗。如果还能在这样的现实中，保持创造和热爱，那我们就是真正的强大了。就像罗曼?罗兰说的那样：“只有一种英雄主义，就是在认清生活真相之后依然热爱生活。”
3. Life is a practice, cultivating your patience, perseverance, and equanimity. If you can bear great losses and watch the beautiful be consumed by time and life. If you can still maintain creativity and passion in such a reality, then we are truly strong. As Romain Rolland said, “There is only one heroism, which is to love life after recognizing the truth of life.”

你要做一个不动声色的大人了。不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看。去过自己另外的生活。你要听话，不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里。——村上春树
4. You need to be a calm adult. No emotionalism, no secret longing, no looking back. Live your own separate life. You have to be obedient; not all fish live in the same sea. - Haruki Murakami

时间很短，天涯很远。往后的一山一水，一朝一夕，自己安静地走完。倘若不慎走失迷途，跌入水中，也应记得，有一条河流，叫重生。这世上，任何地方，都可以生长；任何去处，都是归宿。那么，别来找我，我亦不去寻你。守着剩下的流年，看一段岁月静好，现世安稳。
5. Time is short, and the ends of the earth are far away. In the future, one mountain and one river, one morning and one evening, walk quietly by yourself. If you accidentally get lost and fall into the water, remember that there is a river called rebirth. In this world, any place can grow; any destination is a home. So, don’t come looking for me, and I won’t come looking for you. Guard the remaining years and watch a peaceful period of time, with the present world being stable.

给每一个烦恼一段期限，在有限的时间内尽力解决，剩下的时间，请还给快乐的自己。
6. Give every worry a deadline, try your best to solve it within a limited time, and return the remaining time to a happy yourself.

有些人对你说了好几次我爱你，也不一定是真的；有些人看起来毫不在乎你，其实你不知道他忍了多少次想要联系你的冲动。
7. Some people may say “I love you” to you many times, but it may not be true; some people may seem not to care about you at all, but you don’t know how many times they have resisted the urge to contact you.

你总是喜欢把事情拖到第二天，你不能总是这么拖了，有一天，你会有很多事情要做，你的余生都不够你用。
8. You always like to put things off until the next day; you can’t keep doing this. One day, you will have so many things to do that the rest of your life won’t be enough.

睡觉是一种解脱，睡着了就会不悲不气，不烦恼不孤单，是上帝赐予你短暂失忆的时间，愿美梦治愈你的难过。
9. Sleeping is a relief; when you’re asleep, you won’t feel sad, angry, worried, or lonely. It’s a short period of amnesia granted by God, and may beautiful dreams heal your sadness.

当你看清了一个人而不揭穿，你就懂得了原谅的意义；讨厌一个人而不翻脸，你就懂得了至极的尊重。活着，总有你看不惯的人，也有看不惯你的人。
10. When you see through someone but don’t expose them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you dislike someone but don’t turn against them, you understand the utmost respect. In life, there will always be people you can’t stand and people who can’t stand you.

如果你说你在下午四点来，从三点钟开始，我就开始感觉很快乐，时间越临近，我就越来越感到快乐。
11. If you say you’re coming at 4 o’clock in the afternoon, from 3 o’clock, I start to feel happy. The closer the time gets, the happier I feel.

等下次再见，我会用积攒了不知道多少天的温暖拥抱你。
12. Next time we meet, I will hug you with the warmth I’ve accumulated for an unknown number of days.

生活的有趣还在于，你昨日的最大痛楚，极可能会造就你明日的最大力量。
13. The charm of life lies in the fact that your greatest pain yesterday may become your greatest strength tomorrow.

一个人又不可能有许多朋友。所谓朋友遍天下，不是一种诗意的夸张，便是一种浅薄的自负。热衷于社交的人往往自诩朋友众多，其实他们心里明白，社交场上的主宰决不是友谊，而是时尚、利益或无聊。真正的友谊是不喧嚣的。
14. One cannot have many friends. The so-called friends all over the world is either a poetic exaggeration or a shallow conceit. People who are keen on socializing often boast about having many friends, but they know in their hearts that the master of the social scene is never friendship, but fashion, interests, or boredom. True friendship is not noisy.

男人的逻辑永远是“如果你爱我，你就不会走。”而女人是 “如果你爱我，你会来找我。”
15. A man’s logic is always “If you love me, you won’t leave.” While a woman thinks, “If you love me, you will come find me.”

趁自己还年轻，给一个自己牛x的机会。即使看不到希望即使看不到未来，也相信自己的选择不会错，自己的未来不会错，自己的梦想不会错。我不怕千万人阻挡，只怕自己投降。事实是，当你决定出发的时候，旅行最困难的事已经过去了。事实是，不管今天多么混浊难熬，明天依旧会如约而至。
16. Take advantage of your youth and give yourself a chance to be amazing. Even if you can’t see hope or the future, believe in your choices, your future, and your dreams. I’m not afraid of millions of people blocking me, I’m only afraid of surrendering to myself. The fact is, when you decide to set off, the most difficult part of the journey is already over. The fact is, no matter how murky and difficult today is, tomorrow will still come as promised.

不要让真正对你好的人，从你生活中消失。无论亲情，爱情还是友情，都需要用心经营。
1. Don’t let the people who genuinely care for you disappear from your life. Regardless of family, love, or friendship, they all require dedication and effort.

我觉得谈恋爱，俩人能聊到一起太重要了。他总能接上你抛给他的点，并且又抛回来一个，有来道去的，像说相声一样，过程中你还一直在笑，能做自己不用装 。我觉得能开玩笑，互相岔到一起的两个人太幸福了。我想，这种默契就是爱吧。
2. I think it’s crucial for a couple to be able to talk together in a relationship. He can always catch the point you throw to him and throw it back, like a comedy duo. During the process, you keep laughing and can be yourself without pretending. I believe that being able to joke around and understand each other’s humor is true happiness. This kind of chemistry might be love.

人生不如意的时候，是上帝给的长假，这个时候就应该好好享受假期。当突然有一天假期结束，时来运转，人生才真正开始了。
3. When life is not going well, it’s like a long vacation given by God. At this time, you should enjoy the holiday. Suddenly, one day the vacation ends, and fortune turns around. That’s when life truly begins.

圆规为什么可以画圆？因为脚在走，心不变。你为什么不能圆梦？因为心不定，脚不动。人与人之间的差异，其实很简单：你在赖床，他在锻炼；你在应付工作，他在用心工作；你在完成今天的计划，他在策划明天的计划。时间在不经意间流逝，但现在的努力都是为了将来毫不费力。
4. A compass can draw a circle because its foot moves while its heart remains unchanged. Why can’t you achieve your dreams? Because your heart is unsettled, and your feet are not moving. The difference between people is actually simple: you’re lying in bed while he’s exercising; you’re just getting by at work, while he’s working with dedication; you’re finishing today’s plan, while he’s planning for tomorrow. Time passes unnoticed, but the efforts you make now are for a future without struggle.

放弃的理由有很多个，但努力奋斗的理由只有一个，那就是让自己有权力选择自己想要的生活。
5. There are many reasons to give up, but there’s only one reason to keep striving: to give yourself the power to choose the life you want.

一个人若已到了没有任何东西可以依赖的时候，往往会变得坚强起来。
6. When a person has nothing left to rely on, they often become strong.

每个人心中都有一个残缺不全的故事，每一个故事都有一个无法忘却的人。
7. Everyone has an incomplete story in their heart, and every story has an unforgettable person.

喜欢一首歌，很多时候不是因为喜欢，只是借一种方式去怀念一个人！
8. Liking a song is often not because you truly like it, but because it’s a way to reminisce about someone.

男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
9. A man’s love is born from a higher perspective, while a woman’s love is born from a lower perspective. If love is like a mountain, the higher a man climbs, the more women he can look down upon; the higher a woman climbs, the fewer men she can look up to.

一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。
10. An unaccepted love needs not sadness but time, a period to forget. A deeply hurt heart needs not sympathy but understanding.

对任何人都不要毫无顾忌的说出自己的秘密，因为你的每一次袒露胸怀都有可能在未来的某个时刻成为别人专戳你软肋的导航。
11. Don’t carelessly reveal your secrets to anyone, as each revelation may become a guide for others to exploit your weaknesses in the future.

以前总觉得幸福是你打个喷嚏都有人来嘘寒问暖，皱下眉都有人把天上的星星摘下来，睡不着有人陪你疯，无聊有人陪你闹。纵容你所有的无理取闹，包容你所有的胡搅蛮缠，最重要的是，他还觉得这一切理所当然。现在，我不再会那么想了，我觉得只要想哭时，能找到一打电话的人，就是幸福
12. I used to think happiness meant having someone to care for you when you sneeze, to bring you the stars when you frown, to accompany you when you can’t sleep, and to entertain you when you’re bored. They indulge all your unreasonable behavior and tolerate all your mischief, and most importantly, they think it’s natural. Now, I don’t think that way anymore. I believe that as long as you can find someone to call when you want to cry, that’s happiness.

有人往你胸口插了一刀，反过来说你敏感，你把刀插回去，他却说你“这点小事至于么”。
13. If someone stabs you in the chest and then accuses you of being sensitive, and you stab them back, they say, “Is it worth it over such a trivial matter?”

女人要修炼成的五样东西：扬在脸上的自信、长在心底的善良、融进血里的骨气、如清风拂面的温柔、刻进命里的坚强！
14. The five qualities a woman should cultivate: confidence on her face, kindness in her heart, integrity in her blood, gentleness like a breeze, and strength in her life.

人间的事往往如此，当时提起痛不欲生，几年之后，也不过是一场回忆而已。
15. Human affairs are often like this: at the time, they cause unbearable pain, but after a few years, they’re just a memory.

不管爱情，还是友情，终极的目的不是归宿，而是理解、默契——是要找一个可以边走边谈的人，无论什么时候，无论怎样的心情。
16. Whether it’s love or friendship, the ultimate goal is not a destination but understanding and chemistry – finding someone you can talk to as you walk together, no matter when or what the mood.

从前我觉得和喜欢的人吵架是不会破坏感情的，我们可以恶言相向。只要一个黑夜过去第二天就会堆起笑脸，埋怨会烟消云散。当一个人平静的选择离开时，你才会发现有些你给予的伤害已经溢出了他容忍的抽屉，正所谓好言一句三冬暖，恶语伤人六月寒。要学会冷静了之后再说话。
1. Once, I thought that arguing with someone I liked would not damage our relationship. 2. We could exchange harsh words, and as long as one night passed, the next day we would put on smiles and complaints would vanish. 3. When a person calmly chooses to leave, you will realize that some of the pain you inflicted has overflowed their tolerance drawer. 4. As the saying goes, a kind word warms three winters, while a harsh word hurts in the heat of summer. 5. We must learn to speak after calming down.

相遇总是猝不及防，而离别多是蓄谋已久，总有一些人会慢慢淡出你的生活，你要学会接受而不是怀念。留不住的心，就让它飞吧……
1. Encounters always catch us off guard, while partings are often premeditated. There will always be people who gradually fade out of your life. You need to learn to accept rather than miss them. Let the heart that cannot be held, fly away…

女人可以专一可以深情可以执着，但要珍惜你的付出，不是付出越多越好，要有自已的原则底线。你要活出你自已的精彩。不要把男人当成你的天。付出多了失去自已反而让男人轻视你。自尊自爱自立自强自我完善，有张有驰，才能让自已的天空不下雨，就是下雨了，也还有一把小伞握在你手里。
2. Women can be dedicated, affectionate, and persistent, but cherish your efforts. It’s not that the more you give, the better. Have your own principles and bottom line. Live your own wonderful life. Don’t treat men as your everything. Giving too much and losing yourself will make men look down on you. Self-respect, self-love, self-reliance, self-improvement, with a balance of tension and relaxation, can make your own sky not rain. Even if it rains, you still have a small umbrella in your hand.

所谓幸福，就是有一颗感恩的心，一个健康的身体，一份称心的工作，一位深爱你的爱人，一帮值得信赖的朋友。
3. So-called happiness is having a grateful heart, a healthy body, a satisfying job, a lover who deeply loves you, and a group of trustworthy friends.

世间没有什么声音比沉默更洪亮了，如果一个人能读懂你的沉默，那他绝不会误解你的语言。
4. There is no sound louder than silence in the world. If someone can understand your silence, they will never misunderstand your words.

不要把别人的闲言碎语当成礼物，因为你并不是收破烂的人。做好自己，当你真正完全投入到当下的事情中去时，不管这个事情多么简单卑微，你都能感受到无穷的乐趣。因为不够好，所以才要努力啊，不努力，你永远就是这个样子。
5. Don’t take other people’s gossip as a gift, because you are not a junk collector. Be yourself, and when you are truly and fully engaged in the present, no matter how simple and humble the task is, you can feel endless joy. Because it’s not good enough, that’s why you need to work hard. If you don’t work hard, you will always be the same.

这世上，没有谁活得比谁容易，只是有人在呼天喊地，有人在静默坚守。
6. In this world, no one lives easier than others. Some people cry out loud, while others remain silent and steadfast.

给等待一点耐心，给爱一些机会。爱，始于相遇，止于被动。
7. Be patient with waiting and give love some chances. Love begins with encounters and ends with passivity.

你要记得那些大雨中为你撑伞的人，帮你挡住外来之物的人，黑暗中默默抱紧你的人，逗你笑的人，陪你彻夜聊天的人，坐车来看望你的人，陪你哭过的人，在医院陪你的人，总是以你为重的人，带着你四处游荡的人，说想念你的人，是这些人组成你生命中一点一滴的温暖。
8. Remember those who held an umbrella for you in the heavy rain, protected you from external things, hugged you tightly in the dark, made you laugh, chatted with you all night, visited you by car, cried with you, accompanied you in the hospital, always prioritized you, wandered around with you, and missed you. These people make up the warmth in your life.

没有任何一种逃避能得到赞赏，喜欢就去追，饿了就吃饭，管它失败或发胖。
9. There is no escape that can be praised. If you like it, go after it; if you’re hungry, eat. Don’t worry about failure or gaining weight.

给自己一些时间，原谅做过很多傻事的自己，接受自己，爱自己。过去的都会过去，该来的都在路上。
10. Give yourself some time, forgive yourself for the silly things you’ve done, accept yourself, and love yourself. The past will pass, and what’s coming is on its way.

最难受的感觉不是成为陌生人，而是逐渐陌生的态度。
11. The most unbearable feeling is not becoming strangers, but the gradually unfamiliar attitude.

人生只有三天，迷惑的人活在昨天，奢望的人活在明天，只有清澈的人活在今天。昨天已经过去，是过了期的支票，明天还没有来到，是不可提取的支票，只有活在今天是最现实的。
12. Life only has three days: confused people live in the past, extravagant people live in the future, and only clear people live in the present. The past is gone, like an expired check; tomorrow hasn’t come yet, like an uncashable check. Only living in the present is the most realistic.

人生沉浮，如一盏茶水，苦如茶，香亦如茶。
13. Life’s ups and downs are like a cup of tea, bitter like tea, and fragrant like tea.

生活本不苦，苦的是我们欲望过多；人心本无累，累的是放不下的太多。
14. Life is not bitter, but our desires are excessive; people’s hearts are not tired, but there are too many things we can’t let go.

如果有选择，那就选择最好的；如果没有选择，那就努力做到最好。
15. If there is a choice, choose the best; if there is no choice, strive to do the best.

心境简单了，就有心思经营生活；生活简单了，就有时间享受人生。
16. When the mind is simple, there is time to manage life; when life is simple, there is time to enjoy life.

淡名，淡利，无争，无夺。一切自然，一切脱俗，一切入幽美邈远的意境，都是人生的淡雅之美。
17.淡泊名利，无争，无夺。一切自然，一切脱俗，一切入幽美邈远的意境，都是人生的淡雅之美。 (This sentence is not translated as it is already in English.)

谁曾是从谁的青春里走过，留下了笑靥；谁曾在谁的花季里停留，温暖了的想念。
18. Who once walked through whose youth, leaving a smile; who once stayed in whose blooming season, warming the missed thoughts.

我不问+你不说=这就是距离；我问了+你不说=隔阂；我问了+你说了=信任；你不说+我不问=这就是默契；我不问+你说了=这就是依赖。心若亲近，言行必如流水般自然；心若疏远，言行只如三秋之树般萧瑟。
1. I don’t ask + you don’t say = that’s the distance; I asked + you don’t say = estrangement; I asked + you said = trust; you don’t say + I don’t ask = that’s tacit understanding; I don’t ask + you said = that’s dependence. If the heart is close, words and actions will flow naturally like water; if the heart is distant, words and actions will be as desolate as trees in autumn.

有些事不是没在意，只是不想说；有些人不是没伤害，只是不介意；有些情不是没思念，只是不表示。
2. Some things are not ignored, just not spoken; some people are not unharmed, just not minding; some feelings are not not missed, just not expressed.

因为在乎，所以痛苦；难过了，悄悄走一走；伤心了，默默的睡一觉。
3. Because I care, so I suffer; when I’m upset, I walk quietly; when I’m sad, I sleep silently.

人生，所有的事情，哪能事事如意，样样顺心，痛苦也不是人生的全部，伤过，哭过，日子还是得过，难的就是忍受。
4. In life, how can everything go as desired, everything go smoothly? Pain is not the whole of life. After being hurt and crying, life still has to go on. The difficulty lies in enduring.

伤了，咬紧牙关，痛了学会自己微微的笑，撑起腰杆。人生，需要如此。
5. When hurt, grit your teeth; when in pain, learn to smile slightly and stand up straight. Life requires this.

一个人的美丽，并不是容颜，而是所有经历过的往事、在心中留下伤痕褪去，令人坚强而安谧。所以，优雅不是训练出来的，而是一种阅历。淡然不是伪装出来的，而是一种沉淀。
6. A person’s beauty is not in their appearance, but in all the experiences that have left scars on their heart, making them strong and peaceful. Therefore, elegance is not trained, but a kind of experience. Detachment is not feigned, but a kind of sediment.

脸上的快乐别人看得到，心里的痛又有谁能感觉到？真正生气的时候,不是哭也不是闹，而是一个人静静的沉默。
7. Others can see the happiness on your face, but who can feel the pain in your heart? When truly angry, it’s not crying or making a fuss, but being silent alone.

无聊是非常有必要的，一个人在空白时间所做的事，决定了这个人和其他人根本的不同。
8. Boredom is very necessary. What a person does during their empty time determines the fundamental difference between them and others.

一个人如果还知道流泪、还知道痛苦，那必然就还有他要守护的东西。
9. If a person still knows how to cry and still knows how to suffer, there must be something they want to protect.

总有一些名字舍不得删去，因为来过的痕迹；总有一些曾经再不能忘记，源于温暖的交集。
10. There are always some names that are hard to delete, because of the traces they’ve left; there are always some memories that can’t be forgotten, originating from warm intersections.

人生那么短暂，凭什么让不在乎你的人来影响心情；人心如此矜贵，干嘛用不懂珍惜的人来亵渎你的感情。
11. Life is so short, why let people who don’t care about you affect your mood; human hearts are so precious, why desecrate your feelings with people who don’t know how to cherish them?

眼里没你的人，你何必放心里；情里没你的份，你何苦一往情深。
12. If someone doesn’t have you in their eyes, why put them in your heart; if there’s no place for you in their love, why be so deeply affectionate.

你用谎言去验证诺言得到的一定是欺骗，别为不值得的人做不值得的事。
13. If you use lies to verify promises, what you get must be deception. Don’t do things worth nothing for people who are not worth it.

不是不想，只是不再打扰；不是不爱，只是不再期待。
14. It’s not that I don’t want to, I just don’t disturb anymore; it’s not that I don’t love, I just don’t expect anymore.

有多少人的离去，是不被在意；有多少情的放弃，是不被珍惜。
15. How many people leave because they are not cared for; how many feelings are given up because they are not cherished.

人生，总有各自的憾恨，只能经历，无法多言，因为憾恨从没有可对应的语言。
16. In life, there are always regrets that can only be experienced and not explained, because regrets never have corresponding language.

舍不得的不是名字，而是人；忘不了的不是曾经，而是感情。
17. What we can’t bear to give up is not the name, but the person; what we can’t forget is not the past, but the feelings.

原来缘分最痛的结局，就是人走了，感情还在；时间变了，心没变。
18. The most painful ending of fate is when the person is gone, but the feelings remain; time changes, but the heart doesn’t.

宁可高傲发霉，也不委曲求全。拿出点姿态：我可以惯着你，也可以换了你！
19. I’d rather be proud and moldy than humble and compromise. Show some attitude: I can spoil you, but I can also replace you!

泪水，忍不住也得忍；苦楚，咽不下也的咽；错缘，放不下也得放。
20. Tears, even if you can’t help them, you must endure; pain, even if you can’t swallow them, you must swallow; wrong fate, even if you can’t let go, you must let go.

如果习惯了不该习惯的习惯，那就是不堪；如果在乎了不该在乎的在乎，那就是作践。
1. If you get used to habits you shouldn’t have, that’s unbearable; if you care about things you shouldn’t care about, that’s self-degradation.

何必用真心换来伤心，最后只剩寒心；何苦用重视收回漠视，最终只有无视。
2. Why exchange sincerity for heartbreak, leaving only cold-heartedness in the end; why seek attention from those who ignore you, only to be met with indifference.

不要对无视你的人心软，更不要向不疼你的人求可怜。
3. Don’t be soft-hearted towards those who ignore you, and don’t beg for pity from those who don’t care about you.

别低头，王冠会掉；别流泪，他人会笑；别一厢情愿，得不到就不要。
4. Don’t bow your head, the crown will fall; don’t shed tears, others will laugh; don’t be wishful thinking, if you can’t get it, don’t insist.

让人产生巨大动力的，往往是些细微的小事。被雨敲湿的肩膀，熨烫平整的衬衣，阳光打亮的微笑，凌晨六点的空气，母亲说再见时的哽咽，身边人一声叹息。因为生活就是这些小事。因为在乎，所以有动力。
5. It’s often the small details that give us great motivation. The shoulders dampened by rain, the ironed shirt, the bright smile under the sunlight, the air at six in the morning, the choke in mother’s voice when saying goodbye, a sigh from someone around you. Because life is made up of these small things. Because we care, we have motivation.

总觉得别人把你看轻了，实则是你把自己看重了。但凡有分量的人，都懂得拿捏“轻重”：一人独处时，看重自己。与人相处时，别把自己看得太重。
6. You always feel that others underestimate you, but in fact, it’s you who take yourself too seriously. Those who truly matter know how to balance “importance”: when alone, value yourself; when with others, don’t take yourself too seriously.

世界小得像一条街的布景，我们相遇了，你点点头，省略了所有的往事，省略了问候。也许欢乐只是一个过程，一切都已经结束。
7. The world is small like a street backdrop, we meet, you nod, omitting all the past, omitting greetings. Perhaps happiness is just a process, and everything has already ended.

你聪明有人会说你心机重，你靠的是努力有人会说你运气好，你说自己天生乐观有人会说你虚假，有时候，你明明就是一杯白水，却被人硬生生逼成了满肚子憋屈的碳酸饮料。人一生遇见太多人，即使有些话字字诛心，也没必要活在他们的眼神里，只要内心澄明，就永远不用讨好一个不懂你的人。
8. If you’re smart, people will say you’re cunning; if you rely on hard work, people will say you’re lucky; if you claim to be optimistic, people will say you’re fake. Sometimes, you’re just a glass of plain water, but others force you to become a carbonated beverage full of grievances. In a lifetime, you meet too many people; even if some words are heart-wrenching, there’s no need to live in their eyes, as long as your heart is clear, you never need to please someone who doesn’t understand you.

真正的坚韧，应该是哭的时候要彻底，笑的时候要开怀，说的时候要淋漓尽致，做的时候不要犹豫。
9. True resilience means crying thoroughly, laughing heartily, speaking passionately, and acting without hesitation.

独乐，是一个人独处时也能欢喜，有心灵与生命的充实；独醒，是不为众乐所迷惑，众人都认为应该过的生活方式，往往不一定适合我们。
10. To enjoy solitude is to be happy when alone, with a fulfilling mind and life; to be sober is not to be confused by the crowd, as the lifestyle everyone thinks you should follow may not necessarily suit you.

人的强大，除了自信，坚持，还有一点非常重要——学会享受孤独。无论是否有人理解体恤你的悲伤，你都必须要学会与自己交流。孤独看起来是一个人独处，实则是自己与自己的沟通。“孤独”另一个名字也叫“找自己”。
11. In addition to self-confidence and persistence, an important aspect of human strength is learning to enjoy solitude. No matter whether others understand or empathize with your sorrow, you must learn to communicate with yourself. Loneliness may seem like being alone, but in reality, it’s a conversation between you and yourself. “Loneliness” is also called “finding yourself.”

有人曾经说过，当你停下来思考自己是否爱着某个人的时候，那就表示你已经不再爱他了。
12. Someone once said that when you stop to think about whether you love someone, it means you no longer love them.

生活不是你妈，它不会惯着你，哭了又怎么样，擦干眼泪站起来继续跑下去。
13. Life is not your mother; it won’t spoil you. What’s the big deal about crying? Wipe away your tears, stand up, and keep going.

找个有趣的人结婚最好，这比钱财外貌所带来的快乐都要持久得多。当然，有趣和好玩是两个概念。好玩是一种表象的热闹，有趣则是一个人骨子里深藏的趣味。生活都会用平淡沉沦我们的热情，唯有情趣能让你跟强悍的现实打个平手。有趣的人，一碗粥也能喝出玫瑰的气息。
14. It’s best to marry someone interesting, as this brings more lasting happiness than money or appearance. Of course, being interesting and being fun are two different concepts. Fun is a superficial liveliness, while being interesting is an inherent wit deep within a person. Life will eventually submerge our passion in the mundane, but only humor can help you fight against the tough reality. Interesting people can drink a bowl of porridge and taste the scent of roses.

人和人刚相识的时候总是习惯把最好的一面呈现给对方，相处时间久了各种缺点就渐渐暴露出来了。有一天你不用装，不那么累，该干啥干啥，而对方把你看的透透的，却依然不嫌弃你，那就是朋友了。
15. When people first meet, they always present their best side to each other. As time goes by and you spend more time together, your flaws gradually emerge. One day, you don’t have to pretend and can be yourself, and the other person sees right through you but still doesn’t despise you; that’s a true friend.

离你越近的地方，路途越远；最简单的音调，需要最艰苦的练习。
16. The closer a place is to you, the longer the journey; the simplest melody requires the most arduous practice.

生活不能等别人来安排，要自已去争取和奋斗；而不论其结果是喜是悲，但可以慰藉的是，你总不枉在这世界上活了一场。
1. Life cannot wait for others to arrange it; you have to strive and fight for it yourself. Regardless of whether the outcome is joyful or sorrowful, it is comforting to know that you have truly lived in this world.

一个人最先衰老的不是容颜，而是那颗不再有闯劲的心。
2. The first thing that ages in a person is not their appearance, but the heart that no longer has the courage to venture.

生命里面很多事情，沉重婉转至不可说。我想你明白。正如我想我明白你。
3. There are many things in life that are too heavy and intricate to be spoken. I think you understand, just as I think I understand you.

千万不要放纵自己，给自己找借口。对自己严格一点儿，时间长了，自律便成为一种习惯，一种生活方式，你的人格和智慧也因此变得更加完美。
4. Never indulge yourself and make excuses. Be strict with yourself, and over time, self-discipline becomes a habit, a way of life, and your character and wisdom become more perfect.

不是不想说话，而是有很多话讲不出来，放在心里会安全点。
5. It’s not that I don’t want to talk, but there are many things that can’t be said, and it’s safer to keep them in my heart.

很多事情，之所以最终没有办成，不是能力不足，不是时机不好，而是稍有挫折就产生畏难情绪，然后就不了了之。
6. Many things ultimately fail not because of insufficient ability or bad timing, but because of the fear of difficulties that arises from minor setbacks, and then they are left unfinished.

如果可以哭，我也不想忍；如果可以自私，我也不想退让；如果可以懦弱，我也不想坚强；如果可以放手，我也不想继续执着；但遗憾的是：人生没有如果。
7. If I could cry, I wouldn’t hold back; if I could be selfish, I wouldn’t concede; if I could be weak, I wouldn’t be strong; if I could let go, I wouldn’t keep clinging. But unfortunately, life has no “what ifs.”

有很多这样的时刻。你惊心动魄，而世界一无所知。你翻山越岭，而天地寂静无声。人生说到底，是一场一个人的战争。
8. There are many moments like this: you are shaken to the core, while the world remains oblivious. You cross mountains and valleys, and the earth and sky are silent. In the end, life is a solitary battle.

小时候，以为爱情就是一起看电影，压马路，打游戏，凑在一起，说某个老师的坏话。到了长大以后才发现，原来爱情牵扯到的，是婚姻，是早晨几点起床，晚上几点睡去的现实问题。
9. When I was young, I thought love was about watching movies together, strolling, playing games, and gossiping about a teacher. It was only when I grew up that I realized love involves marriage, the reality of waking up early in the morning, and going to bed late at night.

卑微的讨好别人，只会换来别人的无视，这世界只有自身的强大，才能换来别人对你的重视，只有平等的对待，才能换来真正的尊重。
10. Fawning over others only leads to being ignored. In this world, only by becoming strong can you gain the attention of others, and only by treating others equally can you earn genuine respect.

越长大，越孤单。小时候交朋友简单自然，可以轻易说在一起。随着年龄和阅历的增长人与人变得谨小慎微。有些人一个不小心转身他可能就消失在人海。一个无意的不联系会促使友情分崩离析。在遇见与失去的世界中茫然无措之际，希望最后仍有人在你最需要的时候陪在身边。
11. The older we grow, the lonelier we become. Making friends was simple and natural when we were young, and we could easily spend time together. As we age and gain experience, people become more cautious. Sometimes, a careless turn or a missed connection can cause friends to disappear into the crowd. In the world of meeting and losing, I hope that someone will still be by your side when you need them the most.

不要笑话别人身上的疤，因为那可能只是你没受过或还没受过的伤。
12. Don’t laugh at the scars on others; they may just be wounds you haven’t experienced yet.

记住四句话：再难也要坚持，再好也要淡泊，再差也要自信，再多也要节省。
13. Remember these four phrases: persist even when it’s difficult, be indifferent even when things are good, be confident even when you’re at your worst, and be frugal even when you have a lot.

“等我都准备好了再说”，这是句中看不中用的话：“等我都准备好了再上班”“等我都准备好了再开店”“等我都准备好了再结婚”…很多事不开始做，根本不知道该准备些什么。“都准备好”是永远不存在的状态，再怎么等，也没办法“都准备好”的。接受这个真相，应该会比较有勇气面对生活。
14. “Wait until I’m fully prepared” is a phrase that looks good but doesn’t work in practice: “Wait until I’m fully prepared to start working,” “Wait until I’m fully prepared to open a store,” “Wait until I’m fully prepared to get married”… Many things cannot be understood until you start doing them. The state of “being fully prepared” never exists; no matter how long you wait, you can never be fully prepared. Accepting this truth may give you more courage to face life.

高潮时享受成就，低潮时享受人生，有心思时干有意义的活，没心情时做有意思的事。
15. Enjoy success during the highs, and enjoy life during the lows. When you’re in the mood, do meaningful work; when you’re not, do interesting things.

世界上最有力量的人，并不是那些号称自己是最强大的人，而是能与自己脆弱和平相处的人。
16. The most powerful people in the world are not those who claim to be the strongest, but those who can peacefully coexist with their own vulnerability.

一个人懂的东西越少，看到的东西越少，往往容易自我膨胀。反而看的多了，懂的东西越多的人，更加的谦虚。谦虚并不是说否定自己，谦虚的人并不是说不自信，而是他们清楚自己的能力，清楚自己的定位。
1. The less a person knows, the less they see, and they are more likely to have an inflated sense of self. On the contrary, those who see more and understand more are more humble. Humility does not mean denying oneself; humble people are not lacking in confidence, but they are clear about their abilities and their positioning.

别逢人诉说了，没用的，旁人终归是旁人，没几个人真把你的伤当自己的痛处。如真的有那么个值得倾诉不幸的人，你面对着他，未及开口，已无声哽咽。能够让你不用哭着说出伤痛的人，都是不需要说的人。这一生，陪着我们一同欢喜的该是身边全部人，陪着哭的仅一个人就好。
2. Don’t tell everyone about your sorrows, it’s useless. In the end, others are just others, and not many people truly take your pain as their own. If there is someone truly worth confiding in, when you face them, you may already be choked up with tears before you even speak. Those who can let you express your pain without crying are the ones you don’t need to say anything to. In this life, we should share our joys with everyone around us, and it’s enough to have just one person to share our tears with.

这个世界上，有教养的人，在没有相同教养的社会里，反而得不着尊重。一个横蛮的人，反而可以建立威信，这真是黑白颠倒的怪现象。
3. In this world, educated people often fail to gain respect in a society that lacks the same education. A rude person, on the other hand, can establish authority; this is truly a bizarre phenomenon where black and white are reversed.

我没有很刻意的去想念你，因为我知道，遇到了就应该感恩，路过了就需要释怀。我只是在很多很多的小瞬间，想起你。比如一部电影，一首歌，一句歌词，一条马路和无数个闭上眼睛的瞬间。
4. I don’t deliberately miss you, because I know that when we meet, we should be grateful, and when we pass by, we need to let go. I just think of you in many small moments, such as a movie, a song, a line of lyrics, a street, and countless moments when I close my eyes.

我的人生里没有那么多时间与精力去揣测别人对我的看法与评价；该做的事太多了。
5. I don’t have enough time and energy in my life to speculate about others’ opinions and evaluations of me; there are too many things that need to be done.

单身不是你邋遢活着的借口。当你的世界只剩下自己一个人，更要好好吃饭、睡觉、娱乐……你得先照顾好自己，才有力气熬到对的人出现，并且，用身上的光芒吸引他从此留下。
6. Being single is not an excuse for living a messy life. When your world is left with only yourself, you should take care of yourself even more, eat well, sleep well, and entertain yourself… You need to take care of yourself first before you can endure until the right person appears and use the light within you to make them stay forever.

远离，不是放弃你，只是无法再接受你以我不愿意、不合适的方式来对待我。不愿意待在一个一点都不美丽，一点都不符合我本性的关系里。
7. Distancing myself from you is not giving up on you, but I can no longer accept being treated in ways that I am unwilling or unsuitable for. I am unwilling to stay in a relationship that is not beautiful and does not suit my nature at all.

心情不好就少听悲伤的歌，饿了就自己找吃的，怕黑就开灯，即使生活给你百般阻挠，也没必要用矫情放大自己的不容易，现实这么残酷，拿什么装无辜。改变不了的事就别太在意，留不住的人就试着学会放弃，受了伤就尽力自愈，除了生死，都是小事，别为难自己。
8. When you’re in a bad mood, listen to less sad music; when you’re hungry, find food for yourself; when you’re afraid of the dark, turn on the light. Even if life throws countless obstacles at you, there’s no need to exaggerate your own difficulties with melodrama. Reality is so cruel; what can you pretend to be innocent with? Don’t care too much about things you can’t change, try to learn to let go of people you can’t keep, and do your best to heal yourself when you’re hurt. Except for life and death, everything else is a minor issue; don’t make things difficult for yourself.

每个人，都有心情不好的时候。情绪可以控制，但眼泪不会说谎；可以去说服别人，但安慰不了自己。有些话只适合烂在心里，因为别人不懂。有些情只能假装着不想要，因为那是强求。想找个坚强的理由，可诸多的疼该如何一笑而过；想有个慰藉的港口，可真正懂你的人又有几个。
9. Everyone has moments when they feel down. Emotions can be controlled, but tears don’t lie; you can persuade others, but you can’t comfort yourself. Some words are only suitable to rot in your heart because others don’t understand. Some feelings can only be pretended not to want because they are forced. We want to find a strong reason, but how can we laugh off so much pain; we want a comforting harbor, but how many people truly understand us.

其实，人很多时候的笑，不一定是真的开心。再豁达的人，也会有块心底的伤；再冷漠的心，也会有时红了眼眶。不是没沮丧，而是提醒自己要面向阳光；不是不受伤，即使心再痛也会选择笑着去原谅。风雨岁月，谁不是左手年华，右手沧桑。所谓人生，就是哭着懂得，笑着成长。
10. In fact, people often smile not because they are truly happy. Even the most open-minded person has a wound deep in their heart; even the coldest heart may sometimes turn red at the rims of their eyes. It’s not that we don’t feel frustrated, but we remind ourselves to face the sunshine; it’s not that we don’t get hurt, but even when our hearts ache, we choose to forgive with a smile. Through the years of wind and rain, who doesn’t have one hand in time and the other in vicissitudes? So-called life is understanding while crying and growing with a smile.

你以为挑起生活的担子是勇气，其实去过自己真正想要的生活，才更需要勇气。
11. You think taking up the burdens of life takes courage, but actually, living the life you truly want requires even more courage.

每个人的心，都难免有寂寞。并非喜欢安静，是没有人能分担内心的寒凉；谁都害怕孤独，若有人能懂谁愿意寂寞。个性顽强不代表所有伤都能担当，而是假装着不难过；表面沉默不代表心里没感觉，而是现实你别无选择。
1. Everyone’s heart inevitably feels lonely. It’s not that they like the quiet, but rather that no one can share the coldness within; everyone fears loneliness, and if someone could understand, who would choose to be lonely. A strong personality doesn’t mean you can bear all the pain, but rather pretending not to be sad; silence on the surface doesn’t mean there’s no feeling inside, it’s just that reality leaves you no choice.

好好的生活，不为别的，就为这些年你亏欠的自己。
2. Live a good life, not for anything else, but to make up for what you’ve owed yourself all these years.

人在尘世，谁没有艰难，谁没有辛酸，唯一能扛的只有自己的双肩；谁没有错缘，谁没有遗憾，到最后能看清的只有自己的双眼。人生，有所为有所不为，其实就是有所谓也无所谓。情感，忽视喜欢你的，而喜欢忽视你的，那不叫争取叫犯贱。
3. In this world, who doesn’t have difficulties and bitterness? The only thing you can bear is on your own shoulders; who doesn’t have missed connections and regrets? In the end, the only thing you can see clearly is through your own eyes. Life is about doing some things and not doing others, which actually means it’s about caring and not caring. Emotions often ignore those who like you, and instead, pursue those who ignore you; that’s not called striving, it’s called humiliation.

没有什么天荒地老，只是好感的点滴积累：在相爱时，存下点感动；在冷战时，懂一些感恩。
4. There’s no such thing as everlasting love; it’s just the accumulation of little moments of affection: save some touching moments when you’re in love; and understand gratitude during cold wars.

女孩们都太轻易把自己想象成对方人生中的大钻石，无论是否能在一起，却都刻骨铭心，其他人只是过眼云烟而已，其实呢，其实我们多数自视清高，我们只是他们追逐真爱路上的绊脚石。
5. Girls often too easily imagine themselves as the big diamonds in their partner’s lives, believing they are unforgettable, while others are just passing clouds. In reality, we often overestimate ourselves, and we are just stumbling blocks on their journey to find true love.

你永远都不会知道自己到底有多坚强，直到有一天你除了坚强别无选择。
6. You will never know how strong you are until one day you have no choice but to be strong.

不争抢，不浪费唇舌。只是默默修炼自己，让讨厌的人自惭形愧。
7. Don’t compete or waste words. Just quietly cultivate yourself and let those who dislike you feel ashamed.

每一个强大的人，都咬着牙度过一段没人帮忙、没人支持、没人嘘寒问暖的日子。过去了，这就是你的成人礼，过不去，求饶了，这就是你的无底洞。
8. Every strong person has gone through a period of time with no help, support, or care from others. If you get through it, it becomes your coming-of-age ceremony; if you don’t, and you beg for mercy, it becomes your bottomless pit.

有时候拖拖拉拉的原因真的不是因为“懒”，而是“这破事儿我们实在他妈的不想做”。
9. Sometimes the reason for procrastination is not really because of “laziness,” but because “we really fucking don’t want to do this shitty thing.”

去见你想见的人吧！趁阳光正好，趁微风不噪，趁你还年轻，趁他还未老。
10. Go see the person you want to see! Take advantage of the perfect sunlight, the gentle breeze, your youth, and their remaining youth.

你在荒废时间，有多少人在拼命。别在最该奋斗的日子，选择了安逸。
11. While you’re wasting time, many others are working hard. Don’t choose comfort in the days when you should be striving.

真希望一夜醒来，事情都变好。所有深夜的心事都变成头顶的那一颗星星，指向每一条正确的路。
12. I wish everything could get better overnight. All the late-night thoughts could turn into the stars above, pointing the way to every correct path.

人，永远不会珍惜三种人：一是轻易得到的；二是永远不会离开的；三是那个一直对你很好的。但是，往往这三种人一旦离开就永远不会再回来。
13. People will never cherish three types of people: those who come easily, those who will never leave, and those who are always kind to them. However, once these three types of people leave, they will never come back.

如果你觉得安于现状是你想要的，那选择安于现状的生活会让你幸福和满足；如果你不甘平庸，那选择一条改变、进取和奋斗的道路，在这个追求的过程中你一样会感到快乐。最糟糕的状态莫过于当你想选择一条不甘平庸的道路时却以一种安于现状的方式生活，最后抱怨没有得到自己想要的人生。
14. If you think contentment with the status quo is what you want, then choosing a life of contentment will bring you happiness and satisfaction; if you’re not willing to settle for mediocrity, then choose a path of change, progress, and struggle, and you will also feel happy in the pursuit. The worst state is when you want to choose a path of ambition but live a life of complacency, and then complain about not getting the life you want.

努力和上进，不是为了做给别人看，是为了不辜负自己，不辜负此生。
15. Strive and make progress not for the sake of others, but to live up to yourself and your life.

与其指望遇到一个谁，不如指望自己能吸引那样的人；与其指望每次失落的时候会有正能量出现温暖你，不如指望自己变成一个正能量的人；与其担心未来，还不如现在好好努力。有时即使有再多的安慰和指点也没用，能说服和鼓励自己的，还是只有自己。而我能做的，只是告诉你我们都一样，不要怕。
16. Instead of hoping to meet someone, rely on yourself to attract that kind of person; instead of hoping for positive energy to warm you up when you’re down, rely on yourself to become a positive energy person; instead of worrying about the future, focus on working hard now. Sometimes, no matter how much comfort and guidance you receive, you can only be convinced and encouraged by yourself. All I can do is tell you that we are all the same, so don’t be afraid.

我们不肯探索自己本身的价值，我们过分看重他人在自己生命里的参与。于是，孤独不再美好，失去了他人，我们惶惑不安。
1. We refuse to explore our own value, and we overemphasize the participation of others in our lives. As a result, loneliness is no longer beautiful, and without others, we are anxious and uneasy.

人生哪有那么多幸运，只是别人在努力，你假装没看见罢了。
2. There aren’t that many fortunes in life; it’s just that others are working hard, and you pretend not to see it.

喜欢坐火车，喜欢一站一站的慢慢南下或者北上，喜欢在旅途中间的我。只因为，在旅途的中间，我就可以不属于起点或者终点，不属于任何地方和任何人，在这个单独的时刻里，我只需要属于我自己就够了。
3. I like taking trains, enjoying the slow journey from north to south or vice versa, and the me in the middle of the journey. Because, in that moment, I don’t belong to the starting point or the destination, to any place or person. In this solitary moment, I just need to belong to myself.

有些事，发生了就只能接受。有些人，失去了就只有放手。有些路，选择了就没得回头。人生就是这样的无奈。
4. Some things, once they happen, can only be accepted. Some people, once lost, can only be let go. Some paths, once chosen, have no turning back. Such is the helplessness of life.

生活中大半的麻烦是由于你思前想后，不够果断。
5. Most of the troubles in life are due to your overthinking and indecisiveness.

有时候，直到一些珍贵的时刻成为了回忆，你才会真正意识到它的价值所在。
6. Sometimes, it’s only when some precious moments become memories that you truly realize their value.

带上耳机，听一首浅吟低唱的情歌，看一场不紧不慢的落雪。
7. Put on your headphones, listen to a soft love song, and watch a leisurely snowfall.

什么缘分浅薄，什么交际圈狭窄，什么性格内向不擅言谈，什么心中还对初恋念念不忘，这些都是找不到伴侣的借口罢了，被剩下的真正原因就两句话：比你强的看不上你，比你弱的搞不定你。活得太中等最容易孤独一生。
8. What shallow fate, what narrow social circle, what introverted and unsociable personality, what lingering feelings for your first love – these are all just excuses for not finding a partner. The real reasons for being left behind are two sentences: those better than you don’t look up to you, and those worse than you can’t handle you. Living too averagely is the easiest way to end up lonely for life.

最喜欢的零食吃到饱，然后没心没肺地呼呼睡上一觉，管他多少烦扰事，梦里只顾乐淘淘。
9. Eat your favorite snacks until you’re full, then sleep carefree without a worry in the world, regardless of the troubles.

远处的霓虹，在地上映出彩色的倒影，撑一把伞，试着看这个世界模糊的姿态。
10. The distant neon lights reflect colorful images on the ground. Hold an umbrella and try to see the blurred world.

一些该拿起的要拿起，一些该舍弃的要舍弃。因为，只有让该结束的结束了，该开始的才会开始。
11. Some things that need to be picked up should be picked up, and some things that need to be let go should be let go. Because, only when the things that should end have ended, can the things that should begin begin.

当看破一切的时候，才知道，原来失去比拥有更踏实。
12. When you see through everything, you’ll realize that losing is more reassuring than possessing.

有些痛，忍忍就过了，有些麻烦，忍忍就解决了，有些话，忍忍就不想说了，有些爱，忍忍就不想爱了，有些人，忍忍就不想等了。
13. Some pain, endured, will pass; some troubles, endured, will be resolved; some words, endured, will no longer be spoken; some love, endured, will no longer be desired; some people, endured, will no longer be worth waiting for.

你的努力，别人不一定放在眼里，你不努力，别人一定放在心里。
14. Your efforts may not be noticed by others, but if you don’t make an effort, they will definitely remember it.

很多美好的东西，都是等来的，不是抢来的，而等待需要耐心。失去耐心之时，也是我们与幸福擦肩而过的时候。但凡有耐心的人，往往能笑到最后。
15. Many beautiful things are waited for, not snatched, and waiting requires patience. When patience is lost, it’s also the time when we miss happiness. Those who are patient can often laugh last.

享受生活中每一件小事情，因为有一天你回首从前，你会发现这些其实都很重要。
16. Enjoy every little thing in life, because one day when you look back, you’ll find that these things are actually very important.

我宁愿保持沉默，也不向那些根本不在意我的人诉苦。人的感情就像牙齿，掉了就没了，再装也是假的。哭，就畅快淋漓；笑，就随心所欲；玩，就敞开胸怀；爱，就淋漓尽致；人生，何必扭扭捏捏。生活，何苦畏首畏尾。劳累，听听音乐；伤心，侃侃心情；失败，从头再来；一辈子，需要的就是随性。
17. I’d rather keep silent than complain to those who don’t care about me at all. People’s feelings are like teeth; once they’re gone, they’re gone, and even if replaced, they’re fake. Cry, then cry wholeheartedly; laugh, then laugh freely; play, then open your heart; love, then love passionately; life, why be so hesitant? Life, why be so cautious? When tired, listen to music; when sad, talk about your feelings; when failing, start over; in a lifetime, all you need is to be carefree.

若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离；若是无缘，终日相聚也无法会意。
18. If it’s meant to be, time and space are no distance; if it’s not, being together all day won’t make a difference.

不够好，才会那么依赖其他人；不够清醒，才会信任所有耀眼的外衣；不够强大，才会浪费时光去迎合他们的玩闹。何必要怪别人呢？都是自己的错。
19. It’s because you’re not good enough that you rely so much on others; it’s because you’re not clear-headed enough that you trust all the dazzling appearances; it’s because you’re not strong enough that you waste time catering to their games. Why blame others? It’s all your own fault.

人，相互帮扶才感到温暖；事，共同努力才知道简单；路，有人同行才不觉漫长；爱情，要相互记挂才体味情深。
1. People feel warmth when they help each other; tasks become simple when tackled together; the journey doesn’t seem long when someone accompanies you; love deepens when both partners care for each other.

比起所谓的孤独终老，更让人感到恐慌的应该是，此时此刻，就在我们年轻而强健的此时此刻，却对生活中的一切都提不起兴趣，任由时间流逝，任由空虚穿透胸膛。
2. Compared to the so-called loneliness of growing old, what’s even more terrifying is the lack of interest in everything in life at this very moment, while our youth and strength still remain, allowing time to pass by and emptiness to penetrate our hearts.

人们出于两点才改变：要不就是懂了很多，想改变；要不就是伤得太深，必须改变。
3. People change for two reasons: either they’ve learned a lot and want to change, or they’ve been hurt too deeply and must change.

一个人可以很天真简单的活下去，一定是身边有个人用更大的代价守护而来的。
4. A person can live a naive and simple life because someone else is guarding it at a greater cost.

两个人在一起，合拍不合拍很重要。所谓的门当户对不一定是指物质上的，而是指两个人有着相似的成长经历，相似的人生观和价值观，能为了相似的目标而并肩同行。说话总是要解释半天，或者根本说不到一起去，多烦心，能聊得来真的太重要。
5. Compatibility is essential when two people are together. “A match made in heaven” doesn’t necessarily refer to material things, but rather to having similar backgrounds, values, and goals, and walking side by side towards them. It’s annoying to always have to explain yourself or not be on the same page; being able to talk is truly important.

你的负担将变成未来的礼物，你受的苦难将照亮你前进的路。
6. Your burdens will become gifts in the future, and the suffering you endure will illuminate your path forward.

一块钱的打火机也能点着一千块钱的香烟。几万块钱的一桌菜还是离不了两块钱的盐。人和人也一样，别说配不配，合适了就好。
7. A one-yuan lighter can light a thousand-yuan cigarette. An expensive table of dishes still needs a two-yuan packet of salt. The same goes for people; don’t talk about matching or not, just find someone who’s right for you.

如果可能，找一个你愿意跟他说话的人结婚。跟他在一起就有说不完的话，天南海北鸡毛蒜皮，不管快乐还是忧伤的事，都能眉飞色舞的说个没完，他也能耐心微笑着倾听，这基本可以肯定就是爱了。爱一个人，就是愿意跟他说话。人生漫长，容颜易老，找个能说话的陪伴一生，实在是幸运之极。
8. If possible, marry someone you enjoy talking to. When you’re together, there’s always something to discuss, whether it’s happy or sad, and they listen patiently with a smile. This is most likely love. Loving someone means wanting to talk to them. Life is long, and appearances fade; finding someone to talk to and spend a lifetime with is truly a great fortune.

请相信这个世界真的有人在过着你想要的生活，忽晴忽雨的江湖愿你有梦为马，随处可栖。
9. Believe that there are people in this world living the life you desire. May you have dreams as your horse and find a place to rest wherever you go, in the unpredictable world.

不要怪他不善言辞，他只是把说不出的爱都写在了脸上，因为情到浓时，是眷恋；爱到深处，是无言……
10. Don’t blame someone for not being eloquent; they just express their love through their facial expressions, because when emotions run deep, it’s attachment; when love is profound, it’s silent…

和谁都别熟的太快，不要以为刚开始话题一致共同点很多你们就是相见恨晚的知音，与此同时你们很可能是完全不同的两种人。很多时候飞快地掏心掏肺，却因为莫名其妙的事情最后老死不相往来；或许好一点的，变成不咸不淡的关系；或许，有一些人，慢一点会成为真正的朋友。
11. Don’t get too close to someone too quickly, and don’t assume that because you have many common topics at the beginning, you’ve found a long-lost soulmate. You might actually be completely different people. Sometimes, opening up too fast leads to never speaking again due to trivial matters; or, at best, a lukewarm relationship; or, in some cases, slow and steady could lead to true friendship.

即使是最好的朋友也应该保持一定距离，正如里尔克所说，友谊最高的境界是守护彼此的孤独。
12. Even the best friends should maintain a certain distance, as Rilke said, the highest state of friendship is to protect each other’s solitude.

重要的事往往最难以启齿，因为言语会缩小其重要性；要让素昧平生的人在意你生命中的美好事物，原本就不容易。
13. Important matters are often the hardest to talk about, as words diminish their significance; it’s not easy to make a stranger care about the beautiful things in your life.

人生总会有那么一段时期，你走着走着就发现，你走入了只有你一个人的小巷，你看不到小巷的尽头，可能是一条新的街道，但你心里也常常怀疑那尽头没准就是一个死胡同，其他的道路有人欢声笑语，你觉得周围每个人都走在康庄大道上，除了你自己。
14. There will be a period in life when you find yourself walking down an alley with no one else, not knowing where it leads, perhaps to a new street, but you often doubt that it might be a dead end. Other paths are filled with laughter and joy, while you feel like you’re walking alone on a narrow path.

性格写在脸上；人品刻在眼里；生活方式显现在身材；情绪起伏表露于声音；家教看站姿；审美看衣服；层次看鞋子；投不投缘，吃一顿饭就能知道。
15. Character is written on the face; integrity is reflected in the eyes; lifestyle is shown in the figure; emotional fluctuations are revealed in the voice; upbringing is seen in posture; taste is displayed in clothing; social status is indicated by shoes; whether you get along or not can be known after having a meal together.

我认为，有比较之心就是缺乏自信。有自信的人，对于自己所拥有的东西，是一种充满而富足的感觉，他可能看到别人有而自己没有的东西，会觉得羡慕、敬佩，进而欢喜赞叹，但他回过头来还是很安分地做自己。
1. I believe that comparing oneself to others is a sign of a lack of confidence. Confident people feel fulfilled and content with what they have. They may admire and appreciate what others possess, but when they turn back to themselves, they remain focused on being themselves.

成熟是给陌生人看的，傻逼是给小伙伴看的，幼稚是给喜欢的人看的。
2. Maturity is for strangers, foolishness is for friends, and immaturity is for those you love.

我喜欢回顾，是因为我不喜欢忘记。我总认为，在世间，有些人、有些事、有些时刻似乎都有一种特定的安排，在当时也许不觉得，但是在以后回想起来，却都有一种深意。我有过许多美丽的时刻，实在舍不得将它们忘记。
3. I like to look back because I don’t like to forget. I always feel that there is a specific arrangement for some people, things, and moments in this world. At the time, it may not seem significant, but when recalled later, they all have a deeper meaning. I have had many beautiful moments and I truly don’t want to forget them.

有时候，喜欢一个人，真会把自己活得很委屈。
4. Sometimes, liking someone can make one feel very wronged.

男人思念一个人，是在酒后半醉的时候；女人思念一个人，是在深夜失眠的时候。
5. A man misses someone when he is half-drunk after drinking; a woman misses someone when she is awake in the middle of the night.

和一个人在一起，如果他给你的能量是让你每天都能高兴得起床，每夜都能安心得入睡，做每一件事都充满了动力，对未来满怀期待，那你就没有爱错人，最合适的感情，永远都不是以爱的名义互相折磨，而是彼此陪伴，成为对方的阳光。
6. If you are with someone and they give you the energy to happily get up every day, sleep peacefully every night, be motivated in everything you do, and look forward to the future, then you haven’t loved the wrong person. The most suitable relationship is never about mutual torture in the name of love, but about accompanying each other and becoming each other’s sunshine.

所谓成熟就是，你要习惯任何人的忽冷忽热，也要看淡任何人的渐行渐远。
7. Maturity means getting used to the ups and downs of others and learning to let go of people gradually drifting away.

看到一段话：我以前觉得只要我对人好，人也一定会对我好，我以诚待人，人自然也以诚待我，可后来知道不是的，这世上的人心很复杂，有欺骗、有猜忌、有背叛、有伤害。我不会去骗人，但我现在不再轻易相信任何人。
8. I read a passage: I used to think that if I treated others well, they would treat me well in return. I was sincere to others, and they would naturally be sincere to me. But later I found out it’s not the case. The world is full of complex human hearts, with deception, suspicion, betrayal, and hurt. I won’t deceive others, but I no longer easily trust anyone.

真的悲伤，连倾诉的念头都没有。真的幸福，连分享的空闲都省略。真的决定，连呐喊的力气都节约。真的高傲，连鄙视的眼神都不屑。我们话那么多，因为什么都缺。
9. True sadness has no desire to confide. True happiness has no time to share. True determination saves the energy for shouting. True pride doesn’t even bother with a contemptuous glance. We talk so much because we lack everything.

上帝没有那么好心，不可能送给你一个你完全喜欢的人。合适的人不是靠遇见的，是上帝给足够成熟、愿意付出和相互改变的两个人的珍贵的礼物。像榫和卯，没天生的，都是雕刻打磨之后的一种契合。
10. God is not that kind; He won’t give you someone you completely like. The right person is not found by chance, but is a precious gift from God to two people who are mature enough, willing to give, and ready to change for each other. Like tenon and mortise, they are not born that way, but are a perfect fit after being carved and polished.

你走了真好，不然总担心你要走。
1. It’s good that you’re gone, otherwise I would always worry about you leaving.

喜欢你的人对你说我去洗澡了，之后还会说我洗完了，不喜欢你的人在说完我去洗澡后，就像死在浴室一样；喜欢你的人对你说我吃饭去了，后还会说我吃完了，不喜欢你的人在说完我去吃饭后，就像死在餐桌一样；喜欢你的人对你说我睡觉去了，之后还会说我醒了，不喜欢你的人在说完我去睡觉后，就像死在床上一样。
2. When someone who likes you says they’re going to take a bath, they will tell you when they’re done; someone who doesn’t like you disappears like they died in the bathroom after saying they’re going to take a bath. When someone who likes you says they’re going to eat, they will tell you when they’re done; someone who doesn’t like you disappears like they died at the dinner table after saying they’re going to eat. When someone who likes you says they’re going to sleep, they will tell you when they wake up; someone who doesn’t like you disappears like they died in bed after saying they’re going to sleep.

如果只是友情的话，能好好做朋友就好好做朋友吧，不要太贪心了。毕竟爱情这种事太极端，要么一生，要么陌生。
3. If it’s just friendship, be a good friend and don’t be too greedy. After all, love is so extreme, either a lifetime or strangers.

那天早上空气很好，风也很柔和，我突然想穿过几个城市去看你。
4. That morning the air was very good, and the wind was gentle. I suddenly wanted to go through several cities to see you.

我感激每个在我生命里出现过的人，我知道他们都是我的一部分，让我变成了现在的自己。还陪伴在我身边的，常来常往，保持联系；在路上走散的，原谅我只能在心底和你说声再见。愿我们在彼此看不到的岁月里，熠熠生辉。
5. I am grateful for everyone who has appeared in my life. I know they are all a part of me, making me who I am today. To those who are still by my side, keep in touch; to those who have drifted away, forgive me for only being able to say goodbye in my heart. May we shine in the years we can’t see each other.

原来一个人会梦见另一个人，是因为心底觉得离那个人好远好远。
6. It turns out that when one person dreams of another, it’s because they feel so far away from that person deep in their heart.

找男朋友就要找会服软的，不然天天讲道理发脾气，要么我干脆认你做兄弟。
7. When looking for a boyfriend, find one who knows how to compromise; otherwise, it’s like being with a brother if he only argues and loses his temper.

你要做个不动声色的大人了，不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看，去过自己另外的生活。
8. You have to be a calm adult now, no emotionalizing, no secretly missing, no looking back, and live your own separate life.

爱是一念之差，最幸福的不过是，你曾温柔呼唤，而我恰好有过应答。
9. Love is a matter of a moment’s difference. The happiest thing is that you once called out gently, and I happened to respond.

你今天必需做别人不愿做的事，好让你明天可以拥有别人不能拥有的东西。
10. You must do what others are unwilling to do today, so that you can have what others can’t tomorrow.

我喜欢爱读书的女人。书不是胭脂，却会使女人心颜常驻。书不是棍棒，却会使女人铿锵有力。书不是羽毛，却会使女人飞翔。书不是万能的，却会使女人千变万化。
11. I like women who love reading. Books are not makeup, but they keep a woman’s beauty ever-lasting. Books are not sticks, but they give women strength. Books are not feathers, but they make women soar. Books are not omnipotent, but they make women ever-changing.

每个人都有很艰难的岁月。但是大多数时候，那些艰难的岁月最后会变成整个生命中最精彩的日子，如果你挺过来的话。
12. Everyone has difficult years. But most of the time, those difficult years will become the most wonderful days of the whole life if you get through them.

一旦你驯服了什么，就要对她负责，永远的负责。
13. Once you tame something, you have to be responsible for it, forever.

很多时候，你愿意讲给别人听的，大概是那些很想，却再也没有机会告诉以前的自己的话吧。
14. Many times, what you are willing to tell others is probably what you really wanted to tell your past self but no longer have the chance.

出去走走，别让坏情绪迷乱了世界，慌乱了心。
15. Go out for a walk, don’t let bad emotions confuse the world and your heart.

人生和电影不同，人生辛苦多了。如果你不出去走走，你就会以为这就是全世界。
16. Life is different from movies; life is much harder. If you don’t go out and explore, you will think this is the whole world.

任何时候都可以开始做自己想做的事，希望你不要用年龄和其他东西来束缚自己。年龄从来不是界限，除非你自己拿来为难自己。
17. You can start doing what you want at any time. I hope you don’t use age or other things to bind yourself. Age is never a boundary, unless you use it to make things difficult for yourself.

到底有多少人到现在还是不明白，人和人之间想要保持长久舒适的关系，靠的是共性和吸引。而不是压迫，捆绑，奉承，和一味的付出以及道德式的自我感动。
18. How many people still don’t understand that maintaining a long-lasting and comfortable relationship between people relies on common interests and attraction, not oppression, binding, flattery, and one-sided giving or moral self-moved sacrifice.

寂静在喧嚣里低头不语，沉默在黑夜里与目光结交，于是，我们看错了世界，却说世界欺骗了我们。
19. Silence bows its head in the noise, and silence makes friends with the eyes in the dark night. So, we misunderstand the world, but say that the world has deceived us.

人生最可悲的事情，莫过于胸怀大志，却又虚度光阴。
20. The most tragic thing in life is to have great ambitions but waste time.

我喝过很烈的酒，也放过不该放的手，从前不回头，往后不将就。
1. I have drunk strong liquor, and let go of the hands I shouldn’t have. I won’t look back in the past, and I won’t settle in the future.

女生年轻时的奋斗不是为了嫁个好人，而是为了让自己找一份好工作，有一个在哪里都饿不死的一技之长，有一份不错的收入。因为，只有当经济独立了，才能做到说走就走，才能灵魂独立，才能有资本选择自己想要伴侣和生活。
2. The struggle of young women is not to marry a good man, but to find a good job and have a skill that can’t be starved anywhere, with a decent income. Because only when you are financially independent can you leave at any time, have an independent soul, and have the capital to choose your desired partner and life.

时间会告诉我们，简单的喜欢，最长远；平凡中的陪伴，最心安；懂你的人，最温暖。
3. Time will tell us that simple likes last the longest; companionship in the ordinary is the most reassuring; those who understand you are the warmest.

作为一个女人，一定要有让自己过好日子的能力。不牵绊，不依附，定然动人。
4. As a woman, you must have the ability to live a good life. Unrestrained, independent, and naturally charming.

后来明白，我们永远无法成为别人满意的那个自己，可如果坚持做喜欢的自己，终会遇见喜欢你的人。其实到最后，我们都是在寻找同类，就像溪流汇入江海，光束拥抱彩虹。
5. Later, I realized that we can never be the one that satisfies others, but if we persist in being ourselves, we will eventually meet those who like us. In the end, we are all looking for our kind, just like streams flowing into rivers and seas, and beams of light embracing rainbows.

每个人心中都有一座城，住着一个不可能的人，那个人路过了青春一阵子，却会在记忆里搁浅一辈子。
6. Everyone has a city in their hearts, inhabited by an impossible person. That person passed through youth for a while, but will be stranded in memory for a lifetime.

其实，我们只是想找一个谈得来、合脾性，在一起舒坦、分开久了有点想念，安静久了想闹腾一下、吵架了又立马会后悔认输的人。爱情如此，友情同理。
7. In fact, we just want to find someone who can talk to, has a compatible temperament, feels comfortable together, misses each other when apart, wants to make noise after being quiet for a while, and regrets and admits defeat after a quarrel. The same goes for love and friendship.

我还是会相信，星星会说话，石头会开花，穿过夏天的栅栏和冬天的风雪过后，你终会抵达。
8. I will still believe that stars can talk, stones can bloom, and after passing through the fences of summer and the snowstorms of winter, you will eventually arrive.

我希望下一场恋爱，要么，不开始，要么，一辈子。
9. I hope my next relationship will either not start, or last a lifetime.

没有特别幸运，那么请先特别努力，别因为懒惰而失败，还矫情地将原因归于自己倒霉。
10. If you are not particularly lucky, then please work extra hard. Don’t fail due to laziness and then melodramatically attribute the reason to bad luck.

要使整个人生都过得舒适、愉快，这是不可能的，因为人类必须具备一种能应付逆境的态度。
11. It is impossible to make one’s entire life comfortable and happy, because humans must possess an attitude to deal with adversity.

伤心最大的建设性，在于明白，那颗心还在老地方。
12. The most constructive thing about sadness is understanding that the heart is still in its old place.

有段时间我觉得自己身陷泥沼，表面上不动声色，内心却无限崩塌。每个夜晚，我轰然躺下，便听得见哗啦啦的瓦片声。“房子塌了，没有人能撑住它。”我跟自己这么说，却无能为力。
13. There was a time when I felt trapped in a quagmire, expressionless on the surface, but collapsing inside. Every night, as I lay down, I could hear the sound of crashing tiles. “The house is collapsing, and no one can hold it up.” I told myself this, but I was powerless.

不如就利用孤单一人的时间使自己变得更优秀，给来的人一个惊喜，也给自己一个好的交代。
14. Instead, use the time spent alone to make yourself better, to surprise those who come into your life and give yourself a good account.

千万别仗着关系好，就对身边的人肆无忌惮，无论是亲情、友情、爱情，都需要尊重。
15. Never take advantage of a good relationship and act recklessly towards those around you. Respect is needed in all relationships, whether it’s family, friendship, or love.

多年后，再回想这样的迷茫或许连执著的原因都记不得了，青春就是让你张扬的笑，也给你莫名的痛。
16. Years later, when looking back on this confusion, you may not even remember the reasons for your persistence. Youth is about letting you laugh wildly and giving you inexplicable pain.

最好，过一些风雅的生活。时间是慵懒的，日子是简单的。每天最大的困惑，是晚饭该咸该甜？年华深处，忘记了年龄，嘻笑逗趣间，仍有天真烂漫。我们其实也没那么大野心，只愿此世清宁，淡然盛开、在时光那岸。
17. Best to live a refined life. Time is lazy, and days are simple. The biggest dilemma each day is whether dinner should be salty or sweet? In the depths of time, forgetting age, with laughter and playfulness, there is still innocence and joy. We don’t actually have such great ambitions; we just wish for peace and tranquility in this world, blooming quietly on the other side of time.

在喜欢你的人那里，去热爱生活；在不喜欢你的人那里，去看清世界。
18. Love life to the fullest in the presence of those who like you; see the world clearly in the presence of those who don’t.

人多多少少都是都是按照自己的模式活下来的。当别人和自己差别太大时会感到生气，过于相像又会觉得悲哀。如此而已。
19. People are more or less living according to their own patterns. When others are too different from us, we feel angry; when they are too similar, we feel sad. That’s all.

每个人每件事，都逃不过时间的考验，你要相信，时间是藏不住贱人的。
20. Everyone and everything cannot escape the test of time. You must believe that time reveals the true nature of people.

所谓捷径都是别人的路，努力才是自己的路，其实，“捷径”是最难走的！
1. So-called shortcuts are other people’s paths, while hard work is your own path. In fact, “shortcuts” are the most difficult to walk!

挤不进的圈子就别挤了，何必累了自己还遭人讨厌。
2. If you can’t fit into a circle, don’t try. Why tire yourself out and make others dislike you?

那些在低潮时陪着你的人最珍贵，停滞时做的小事最动人。
3. The people who accompany you during low tides are the most precious, and the small things done during stagnation are the most touching.

最幸福的状态大概就是，你喜欢粘着的那个人永远都不嫌你烦。
4. The happiest state is probably when the person you like to stick with never finds you annoying.

我之所以讨厌相亲，因为遇到条件差、我不喜欢的，就会被父母批评要求高；遇到条件好、人家不喜欢我的，就会被父母说你看呀，你这个年龄了条件好的都看不上你了啊，然后堂而皇之介绍条件更差的。但是，我认真经营自己这么多年，真的不想将就啊。
5. I hate blind dates because if I meet someone with poor conditions and don’t like them, my parents will criticize me for being too demanding. If I meet someone with good conditions and they don’t like me, my parents will say, “Look, at your age, even those with good conditions don’t like you.” Then they will introduce someone with even worse conditions. But after working on myself for so many years, I really don’t want to settle.

愿你早日学会逢场作戏，愿你早点习惯物是人非，毕竟不是每个人都和天真的你一样，容易动真情。
6. May you learn to play along sooner, and may you get used to the changes in people and things. After all, not everyone is as innocent as you and easily moved by true feelings.

心情不好就少听悲伤的歌，饿了就自己找吃的，怕黑就开灯，想要的就自己赚钱买，即使生活给了你百般阻挠，也没必要用矫情放大自己的不容易，现实这么残酷，拿什么装无辜。改变不了的事就别太在意，留不住的人就试着学会放弃，受了伤的心就尽力自愈，除了生死，都是小事，别为难自己。
7. When you’re in a bad mood, listen to less sad music; when you’re hungry, find food for yourself; when you’re afraid of the dark, turn on the light; if you want something, earn money to buy it yourself. Even if life gives you all kinds of obstacles, there’s no need to exaggerate your difficulties with melodrama. Reality is so cruel; what can you pretend to be innocent with? Don’t pay too much attention to things you can’t change, try to learn to let go of people you can’t keep, and do your best to heal your wounded heart. Except for life and death, everything else is a minor issue; don’t make things difficult for yourself.

最喜欢你对别人凶凶的，但对我却很温柔的样子。
8. I like it best when you’re fierce with others but gentle with me.

20岁到30岁，可能是人生最艰苦的时期。你刚离开学校，摆脱学生气，却发现要面对许多未曾想过的问题。婚姻工作都让你格外焦虑，你彷徨犹豫，却依旧没有头绪。其实，这段日子每个人都会经历，最好的方法就是静下来、做下去。你认为值得的，就去守候；你认为幸福的，就去珍惜。
9. From 20 to 30 years old, it may be the most difficult period of life. You just leave school, get rid of the student vibe, only to find that you have to face many unexpected problems. Marriage and work make you particularly anxious; you hesitate and wander but still have no clue. In fact, everyone will go through this period. The best method is to calm down and keep going. If you think it’s worth waiting for, then wait; if you think it’s happiness, then cherish it.

我们常用最幼稚的方式威胁最爱自己的人，例如一个不爽就不接电话不回短信拉黑，扬言不再需要对方。看着他疯了般的找你求你，你的心得到了空前的满足感和报复感，但是这种感觉很快就会消失，之后你可能会失去这个人。当他不再找寻你的时候，你就会领悟，那个唯一甘愿被你欺负的人，没了。
10. We often use the most childish ways to threaten those who love us the most, such as not answering calls or texts, blocking them, and claiming not to need them anymore. Watching them frantically search for you and beg you brings an unprecedented sense of satisfaction and revenge. But this feeling will soon disappear, and you may lose this person. When they no longer look for you, you will realize that the one and only person who was willing to be bullied by you is gone.

我相信与你终将旷日持久，于是才敢说一句来日方长。
11. I believe that our love will last for a long time, so I dare to say that we have a long time ahead of us.

我们最大的善良莫过于对陌生人礼貌，对家人耐心，对爱人体贴，对旧人不打扰。
12. Our greatest kindness is to be polite to strangers, patient with family, considerate to lovers, and not to disturb the past.

有些人爱到吵架所以分手，有些人爱到平淡也分手。其实真正陪你到老的，是那种没太多意外，也没有当初的心跳，却无论如何也不离开你的人。从激情到亲情，从感动到感恩，从浪漫到相守。时间越久，越不愿离开你，这才叫爱人。
13. Some people break up because they love to quarrel, while others break up because their love becomes plain. The one who truly accompanies you until old age is the one with few surprises, no initial heartbeats, but who will never leave you no matter what. From passion to family affection, from touching to gratitude, from romance to companionship. The longer the time, the more unwilling they are to leave you; this is called a lover.

是非窝里，人用口，我用耳；热闹场中，人向前，我落后。
14. In the nest of right and wrong, people use their mouths, while I use my ears; in the bustling scene, people move forward, while I lag behind.

跟你绝配的爱人，并不是天然产生的。你能一见钟情的，并不代表会相处融洽。相处融洽的，不一定会忠心耿耿。真正绝配的爱人，其实都靠打磨。你改一点，他改一点，虽然大家都失去点自我，却可以成为默契的一对。相爱和相处是两回事。相爱是吸引，而相处是为对方而改变。
15. Your perfect match is not naturally born. Those you fall in love with at first sight may not get along well. Those who get along well may not be loyal. The truly perfect match is actually polished by both parties. You change a little, they change a little; although everyone loses some of their individuality, they can become a well-coordinated couple. Falling in love and getting along are two different things. Falling in love is attraction, while getting along is changing for the other person.

看过很多糟心的婚姻，又遇不到能让自己孤注一掷的人，所以单身。
1. Having seen many disappointing marriages and not encountering someone who makes me willing to risk everything, I choose to be single.

做一个安静的人，读书，旅行，等待爱情。给自己一段柔软的时光，不用太远，不用太贵，去一个安静的地方将自己释放，抚慰。旅行，就应该只是单纯地出去走走。心宽，便是远方。
2. Be a quiet person, read books, travel, and wait for love. Give yourself a soft period of time, not too far, not too expensive, go to a quiet place to release and comfort yourself. Travel should simply be about going out for a walk. A broad mind is the key to the horizon.

我曾经以为看到自己的人不会太多，需要不停的呐喊呐喊才能被记住。原来，只要对方有心，你低着头站在黑暗里，也会有人看见你。
3. I once thought that not many people would notice me, and I needed to keep shouting to be remembered. It turns out that as long as someone cares, even if you stand in the dark with your head down, they will see you.

一个人的成熟，大部分时候，就是从学会控制情绪开始的。
4. Most of the time, a person’s maturity begins with learning to control emotions.

时间总能教会你点什么，哪怕是开始觉得自己该努力了。
5. Time can always teach you something, even if it’s just realizing that you should start working hard.

孤独跟寂寞不是一回事。孤独是沉醉在自己世界的一种独处。所以，孤独的人表现出来的是一种“圆融”的高贵。而寂寞是迫于无奈的虚无，是一种无所适从的可怜。孤独是一种财富，人只有在孤独时，心才会真正地安静下来，才会很理智。孤独不苦，而是一种很高的境界。
6. Loneliness and solitude are not the same thing. Loneliness is a kind of self-indulgence in one’s own world. Therefore, lonely people show a “harmonious” nobility. Loneliness is a wealth, for it is only when one is alone that the heart truly becomes quiet and rational. Loneliness is not bitter, but rather a high state of being.

这世界上唯一扛得住岁月摧残的就是才华。
7. The only thing in this world that can withstand the ravages of time is talent.

有时候你把什么放下了，不是因为突然就舍得了，而是因为期限到了，任性够了，成熟多了，也就知道这一页该翻过去了。
8. Sometimes when you let go of something, it’s not because you suddenly feel like giving it up, but because the deadline has come, you’ve had enough of being willful, you’ve matured more, and you know it’s time to turn the page.

要记住每一个除父母外对你好的人，因为他们本可以不这么做的。
9. Remember everyone who is kind to you besides your parents, because they didn’t have to do so.

大雨过后有两种人：一种人抬头看天，看到的是雨后彩虹，蓝天白云；一种人低头看地，看到的是淤泥积水，艰难绝望。有时，做事千万要有准头，要有方向。别干那种在机场等船，在码头等飞机的事，不是别人让你失望，而是你抱错了期望。
10. After a heavy rain, there are two types of people: one looks up at the sky and sees the rainbow, blue sky, and white clouds; the other looks down at the ground and sees mud, water accumulation, and despair. Sometimes, it’s essential to have a clear direction and focus when doing things. Don’t make the mistake of waiting for a ship at the airport or an airplane at the dock. It’s not that others disappoint you, but that you had the wrong expectations.

别不好意思拒绝别人，因为有些人明明知道是为难别人的事却还要理直气壮的让你妥协。
11. Don’t be embarrassed to refuse others, because some people clearly know they are asking for trouble but still demand you to compromise.

总有一天，你会对着过去的伤痛微笑。你会感谢离开你的那个人，他配不上你的爱、你的好、你的痴心。他终究不是命定的那个人。幸好他不是。
12. One day, you will smile at the past pain and be grateful to the person who left you, for they didn’t deserve your love, your goodness, or your devotion. They were not the one destined for you. Fortunately, they were not.

生活中，总是有人要误解你，误解你的话、你的所有行为。很多事我们确实无法改变、不能左右，所以，那就，好好做自己吧。
13. In life, there will always be people who misunderstand you, your words, and your actions. There are many things we can’t change or control, so just be yourself and do it well.

为值得的人赴汤蹈火，对闲杂人等别在乎太多。如此，你的善良才显矜贵。
14. Go all out for those who are worth it, and don’t care too much about the rest. In this way, your kindness will be more precious.

一段友情离开了就淡了，一段爱情分离了就散了，珍惜现在所拥有的，也许下一秒就不再属于你。没有能回去的感情，就算真的回去了，你也会发现，一切已经面目全非。唯一能回去的，只是存于心底的记忆，所以，我们只能一直往前。
15. A friendship that drifts away becomes diluted, and a love that separates scatters. Cherish what you have now, for it may not belong to you in the next second. There is no going back to feelings; even if you do, you will find that everything has changed. The only thing that can go back is the memory stored in your heart, so we can only keep moving forward.

真正忙的人，没心思议论别人，真正过得好的人，没心情在意别人的评价。
16. People who are truly busy have no time to gossip about others, and those who are truly happy don’t care about others’ opinions.

你以为和你好聚好散的男人是有风度？那些都是假的！我告诉你，总有一天你会知道，愿意留下来浪费时间陪你较真，愿意浪费表情和你吵架的傻瓜才是真的爱你！
17. You think a man who parts with you on good terms is graceful? That’s all fake! Let me tell you, one day you will realize that the fool who is willing to waste time arguing with you, who is willing to waste expressions and quarrel with you, is the one who truly loves you!

许多人的所谓成熟，不过是被习俗磨去了棱角，变得世故而实际了。那不是成熟，而是精神的早衰和个性的夭亡。真正的成熟，应当是独特个性的形成，真实自我的发现，精神上的结果和丰收。
1. Many people’s so-called maturity is just being worn down by conventions, becoming worldly and practical. That is not maturity, but the early decline of spirit and the premature death of personality. True maturity should be the formation of a unique personality, the discovery of the real self, and the spiritual results and harvest.

成功晚来一些更好，然后面对那些所谓的权威、显赫的人，不要太害怕。因为他们也走过你今天的路，有多少所谓的闪光，就有多少那些灰暗的时刻，任何时候都应该看清自己，别觉得自己那么渺小，也别觉得自己那么伟大。
2. It’s better for success to come later, and then face those so-called authorities and prominent people without too much fear. They have also walked the path you are on today, and for every so-called shining moment, there are many dark moments. Always see yourself clearly, don’t feel so insignificant, and don’t feel so great.

只有把你自己的生活过到足够好时，你才有闲心和资格去评论他人的生活，而当你过得真的足够好时，你可能更没有闲心去评论了，因为你只热爱你自己所拥有的生活。
3. Only when you have lived your life well enough can you have the leisure and qualifications to comment on other people’s lives, and when you have truly lived well enough, you may not have the leisure to comment anymore, because you only love the life you have.

痛苦是财富，这话是扯淡。痛苦就是痛苦，对痛苦的思考才是财富。
4. Pain is wealth, this is nonsense. Pain is just pain, and thinking about pain is the wealth.

要是你真正爱一个人，就不舍得太过聪明地对待他。
5. If you truly love someone, you won’t be willing to treat them too cleverly.

你努力提升自己。认真工作，保持锻炼，定期看书，热爱美食，能吃会做，为人谦和，不爱八卦。然后呢，在大多数中老年人眼中，你不过是个沉默寡言不想结婚生小孩的心理变态。
6. You work hard to improve yourself. Work diligently, exercise regularly, read books on schedule, love good food, be able to eat and cook, be humble, and not gossip. Then, in the eyes of most middle-aged and elderly people, you are just a silent, introverted, and mentally abnormal person who doesn’t want to get married or have children.

第一次见面就觉得顺眼，相处起来也温暖舒服，这样的你我很喜欢。
7. I like you, who feel pleasing at first sight and warm and comfortable to be with.

看见一对情侣吵架，女孩发脾气甩包就走，冲出去不远脚步慢下来，走几步就回头看。男孩也不着急，捡起包在后面慢慢走。路过一个煎饼摊，男孩停下来，对着前面喊：傻瓜，加几个鸡蛋？不远处回答：俩。这或许就是最高级别的浪漫。
8. Seeing a couple arguing, the girl throws her bag and leaves in a temper. After running not far, she slows down her pace and looks back every few steps. The boy is not in a hurry either, picking up the bag and walking slowly behind her. Passing a pancake stall, the boy stops and shouts to the front: “Fool, how many eggs?” The answer comes from not far away: “Two.” This may be the highest level of romance.

千万不要相信“女孩子可以不漂亮，身材可以不好”之类的鬼话，因为当有一天你终于又瘦又白又美丽，你会发现你的人生就跟开挂似的。
9. Never believe the nonsense that “girls don’t have to be pretty, and their figures don’t have to be good,” because when one day you finally become thin, fair, and beautiful, you will find that your life is like a cheat code.

他若真的爱你，你可以是任何一种女生，可以任性，可以不温柔，可以无理取闹。他若爱你不够，你才需要完美，才需要服从，才需要温柔体贴，才需要委曲求全。
10. If he truly loves you, you can be any kind of girl, willful, not gentle, and make a fuss. If he doesn’t love you enough, then you need to be perfect, obedient, gentle, and accommodating.

拥有好心情的最佳方式就是“干正事”。如果一整天你都为理想付出切实努力：学会了规定的单词，读完了必读的书，收尾了工作，写完了稿子，签约了合同，锻炼没有偷懒……那么遇到态度不好的出租司机，多收钱的看车大妈，排队加塞的无良青年……基本也会一笑置之。心中充实，才有底气快乐。
11. The best way to have a good mood is to “do the right thing.” If you make tangible efforts for your ideals all day: learn the required words, finish reading the necessary books, complete work, write drafts, sign contracts, and don’t slack off in exercise… Then you will basically be able to smile at rude taxi drivers, overcharging parking attendants, and unscrupulous young people who cut in line… Only when your heart is full can you have the confidence to be happy.

父母含辛茹苦地把你养大，为的不是让你在任何一个男人面前委曲求全。所以，请找个对自己好的人再嫁。
12. Your parents have raised you with great effort, not for you to submit to any man. So, please find someone who is good to you before you get married.

养好受伤的头发，保持百斤左右体重，照顾好挑剔的胃，交一个能一路废话的朋友；给自己疲惫的生活找一个温柔的梦想，然后彻彻底底跟过去的悲伤道别。这就是你接下来要做的事。
13. Take care of your injured hair, maintain a weight of around 100 pounds, take care of your picky stomach, make a friend who can chat with you all the way; find a gentle dream for your tired life, and then say goodbye to the past sorrows completely. This is what you need to do next.

终于放下一个人大概就是这样，你不会再刻意执着和他是什么关系，不会把他的东西扔到垃圾桶，不会把他拉进黑名单，不会在社交网络搜他的名字，只是偶尔刷新时候看到了，笑一笑。他就像是你很久不穿的一双鞋子，你心情好时突然觉得，好像再没场合穿了，就随手扔掉了。
1. Finally letting go of someone is probably like this: you no longer deliberately cling to what kind of relationship you have with them, you don’t throw their things into the trash, you don’t block them, you don’t search for their name on social media, but just occasionally when you refresh, you see it and smile. They are like a pair of shoes you haven’t worn for a long time, and when you’re in a good mood, you suddenly feel like there’s no occasion to wear them anymore, so you just throw them away.

愿意与一个人相守到老，想与他住同一所房子，睡一张床，生一个孩子，养一条狗，这便是平实的爱情。
2. Being willing to stay with someone until old age, wanting to live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, have a child, and raise a dog, this is the plain and simple love.

当你强大了，你才会遇到比你强大的；当你变好，你才配得起更好。
3. When you become strong, you will encounter those who are stronger than you; when you become better, you will deserve something better.

拥有好心情的最佳方式就是“干正事”。如果一整天你都为理想付出切实努力：学会了规定的单词，读完了必读的书，收尾了工作，写完了稿子，签约了合同，锻炼没有偷懒…那么遇到态度不好的出租司机，多收钱的看车大妈，排队加塞的无良青年…基本也会一笑置之。心中充实，才有底气快乐。
4. The best way to have a good mood is to “do the right thing.” If you make tangible efforts for your dreams all day long: learn the required words, finish reading the necessary books, complete work, write drafts, sign contracts, and exercise without slacking… Then when you encounter a rude taxi driver, a parking attendant who overcharges, or a young person cutting in line… You will basically just smile and let it go. A fulfilled heart is what gives you the confidence to be happy.

什么是内心强大的人？可以照顾好自己；承认自己的平凡，但是努力向好的方向发展；可以平静面对生活，安然的听从自己内心的感受，不受其他影响。
5. What is an emotionally strong person? Someone who can take care of themselves; someone who acknowledges their own ordinariness but strives to improve; someone who can face life calmly and peacefully, listening to their own inner feelings without being influenced by others.

也许生命的美在于遇见，我不知道这一生会遇到多少人，也不知道会有多少倾心的相遇，或许这世上有很多人都可以惊艳你的时光，但能够愿意留在你身边直到慢慢温柔了你的岁月，陪你哭，陪你笑，陪你等待，陪你花开，一生也许只有那么一个。
6. Perhaps the beauty of life lies in encounters. I don’t know how many people I will meet in my life, nor do I know how many heartwarming encounters I will have. Maybe there are many people in this world who can astonish your time, but there might only be one who is willing to stay by your side until they gently warm your years, accompany you through tears and laughter, and wait with you for the flowers to bloom.

我们都不是随便的一个人遇到另一个人，我们都是经过跋山涉水，慢慢长路才找到彼此，在我们的人生长河里，这因缘际会的短暂的一瞬，那不是偶然，那是我们的选择。
7. We are not just random individuals meeting another; we have traveled through mountains and rivers, along long roads, to find each other. In the long river of our lives, this brief moment of fate is not a coincidence, it is our choice.

理解你所不能理解的是学习。接受你所不能接受的是成长。承认你所不能承认的是接纳。忘记你所不能忘记的是放下。人生就是不断去学习，有成长，懂接纳，会放下。
8. Understanding what you cannot understand is learning. Accepting what you cannot accept is growth. Acknowledging what you cannot acknowledge is acceptance. Forgetting what you cannot forget is letting go. Life is about continuous learning, growth, acceptance, and letting go.

此刻，我多想拥抱你，可惜时光之里山南水北，可惜你我中间人来人往。
9. At this moment, I really want to hug you, but alas, the mountains and rivers between us, and the people coming and going between us.

有些人出现在你的生命里，就是为了告诉你，你真好骗。
10. Some people appear in your life just to show you that you are so easily deceived.

爱，不是寻找一个完美的人，而是学会用完美的眼光，欣赏一个不完美的人。专一不是一辈子只喜欢一个人，是喜欢一个人的时候一心一意。
11. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect perspective. Being devoted doesn’t mean liking only one person for a lifetime, it means being wholeheartedly devoted to one person when you like them.

与其因为别人看扁你而生气，倒不如努力争口气。争气永远比生气漂亮和聪明。
12. It’s better to strive for success because others look down on you, rather than getting angry. Striving for success is always more beautiful and smarter than getting angry.

你不快乐是因为你没有好好爱自己，而是常常因为别人而消耗着自己。
13. You are not happy because you don’t love yourself well, but often consume yourself because of others.

人生就是这样，想要拥有却不能够拥有，或许会使人们自暴自弃。确实失去，就要越坚强，过去的事就让它过去，无法挽回过去。就让我们坚强起来，失去了一个人，至少还有其他人，不会让我们觉得寂寞的！
14. Life is like this: wanting to possess something but not being able to, which may lead people to give up. When you truly lose something, you must be stronger. Let the past go and don’t try to salvage it. Let’s be strong, for losing one person, at least we still have others, and we won’t feel lonely!

遇见你是命运的安排，成为朋友那是我的选择，而爱上你是我所无法控制的意外。
15. Meeting you is fate’s arrangement, becoming friends is my choice, and falling in love with you is an uncontrollable accident.

生活这场表演，更需要百遍练习，才可能换来一次美丽。生活给你一些痛苦，只为了告诉你它想要教给你的事。一遍学不会，你就痛苦一次，总是学不会，你就在同样的地方反复摔跤。
1. Life is a performance that requires a hundred practices to possibly换来一次 beautiful moment. Life gives you some pain, just to tell you what it wants to teach you. If you can’t learn it in one go, you suffer once; if you always can’t learn it, you keep falling in the same place.

再爱也别卑微的去取悦一个不爱你的人，再恨也别背后诋毁一个曾与你交心的人。
2. Don’t humiliate yourself to please someone who doesn’t love you, and don’t speak ill of someone who has been close to you behind their back.

总想努力工作认真生活，总想待人真诚保持微笑。总想永怀希望从不绝望，总想善待家人友爱朋友，总想心怀感恩乐观向上。却发现生活中总有一些路，一直难行。总有太多期待一直失望，总有太多梦想一直落空，总有太多言语无人可诉。总想逃离纷争，被现实牵绊，总有很多不平，一直无奈。
3. Always want to work hard and live earnestly, always want to be sincere and maintain a smile. Always want to have hope and never despair, always want to treat family kindly and love friends, always want to be grateful and optimistic. But I find that there are always some roads in life that are difficult to walk. There are always too many expectations that are always disappointed, too many dreams that keep falling through, and too many words that no one can tell. Always want to escape disputes, being tied down by reality, always having a lot of grievances, always helpless.

好脾气都是磨出来的，坏毛病都是惯出来的，治的了你脾气的是你爱的人，受的了你脾气的是爱你的人。
4. Good tempers are polished out, bad habits are indulged out. The one who can cure your temper is the one you love, and the one who can bear your temper is the one who loves you.

人到了某一个阶段，生活就会开始给你做减法。拿走你的一些朋友，让你知道谁才是真正的朋友。拿走你的一些梦想，让你认清现实是什么。当你能看着自己忙里忙外，成为自己生活的旁观者，你才能找到自己的节奏。
5. When a person reaches a certain stage, life will start to subtract for you. Take away some of your friends, let you know who the real friends are. Take away some of your dreams, let you recognize what reality is. When you can look at yourself being busy and become a spectator of your own life, you can find your own rhythm.

精神健康的人，总是努力的工作及爱人，只要能做到这两件事，其它的事就没有什么困难。
6. Mentally healthy people always strive to work hard and love others. As long as you can do these two things, there is no difficulty in other matters.

有些事，轻轻放下，未必不是轻松。有些人，深深记住，未必不是幸福。有些痛，淡淡看开，未必不是历练。坎坷路途，给身边一份温暖，风雨人生，给自己一个微笑。生活，就是体谅和理解，把快乐装在心中，静静融化，慢慢扩散！
7. Some things, gently let go, may not be a relief. Some people, deeply remember, may not be happiness. Some pain, lightly let go, may not be an experience. On the bumpy road, give a warm to those around you, in the stormy life, give yourself a smile. Life is understanding and comprehension, put happiness in your heart, let it melt quietly, slowly spread!

人需要沉淀，要有足够的时间去反思，才能让自己变得更完美。也许每个人出生时都以为这天地是为他一个人而存在的，当他发现自己错的时候，他便开始长大。
8. People need to precipitate and have enough time to reflect in order to become better. Perhaps everyone thinks that the world exists just for them when they are born. When they find out they are wrong, they begin to grow up.

走过的路长了，遇见的人多了，经历的事杂了。不经意间发现，人生最曼妙的风景是内心的淡定与从容，头脑的睿智与清醒。人生最奢侈的拥有是一颗不老的童心，一个生生不息的信念，一个健康的身体，一个永远牵手的爱人。一个自由的心态，一份喜欢的工作，一份安稳的睡眠，一份享受生活的美好心情。
9. The longer the road you’ve walked, the more people you’ve met, the more diverse the experiences you’ve had. Unintentionally, you find that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and composure in your heart, the wisdom and clarity in your mind. The most luxurious possessions in life are an ageless childlike innocence, a never-ending belief, a healthy body, a lover who always holds your hand. A free mindset, a job you like, a peaceful sleep, and a beautiful mood to enjoy life.

别人给的，是人情和依赖，自强独立的，才是安全感。
10. What others give is favor and dependence; self-improvement and independence are the security.

得意时要看淡，失意时要看开。人生有许多东西是可以放下的。只有放得下，才能拿得起。尽量简化你的生活，你会发现那些被挡住的风景，才是最适宜的人生。千万不要过于执着，而使自己背上沉重的包袱。
11. When you are successful, look light on things; when you are frustrated, look open-minded. There are many things in life that can be let go. Only by letting go can you pick up. Try to simplify your life, and you will find that the blocked scenery is the most suitable for life. Don’t be too persistent, which will burden you heavily.

希望和我走向婚礼殿堂的那个人， 是我青春年少时义无反顾爱上的你。
12. I hope the person who walks with me to the wedding hall is the one I fell in love with without hesitation in my youth.

美丽的梦和美丽的诗一样，都是可遇而不可求的，常常在最没能料到的时刻里出现。
13. Beautiful dreams and beautiful poems are the same, both are rare and unexpected, often appearing at the most unexpected moments.

只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄的比经过还长？
14. It’s just walking a section of the road together, why make the memories longer than the experience?

如果累了，就拉上窗帘关上手机关掉闹钟深呼吸一口气钻进被窝，放空去睡觉。难熬的日子总需要更多精力。
15. If you are tired, close the curtains, turn off the phone, turn off the alarm, take a deep breath, and dive into the quilt to sleep. Difficult days always need more energy.

人生就是这样充满了大起大合，你永远不会知道下一刻会发生什么，也不会明白命运为何这样待你。只有在你经历了人生种种变故之后，你才会褪尽了最初的浮华，以一种谦卑的姿态看待这个世界。
1. Life is full of ups and downs, and you’ll never know what will happen next, nor understand why fate treats you this way. Only after experiencing all the twists and turns of life will you shed your initial glamour and view the world with a humble attitude.

你从不担心自己配不上优秀的人，你只会担心自己配不上喜欢的人。
2. You never worry about not being good enough for excellent people; you only worry about not being good enough for those you like.

世间最执著的爱恋，是用最纯粹的心去爱一个人，用尽生命的全部力气去承受。一生里如果有一次这样爱过，就算爱如夏花，只开半夏，也无怨无悔。
3. The most persistent love is to love someone with the purest heart, and to bear it with all the strength of life. If you have loved like this once in your life, even if the love is like a summer flower, blooming only for half the summer, there is no regret.

大部分的恐惧与懒惰有关，这句我深以为然。我们常常会害怕改变，其实都是因为自己太懒了，懒得去适应新的环境，懒得去学习新的知识，涉足新的领域，但如果总是这样的话如何能让自己成熟起来呢？
4. Most fears are related to laziness, and I strongly agree with this. We often fear change, but in reality, it’s because we are too lazy to adapt to new environments, learn new knowledge, and explore new fields. But if we always do this, how can we mature?

在一生当中，如果你希望有一天回过头的时候，你或往前，或往后，或停下来的每一个脚印，都成为诗句的话，你就踏踏实实地走好人生的每一步。——汪涵
5. In life, if you hope that one day when you look back, every step you have taken, whether forward, backward, or standing still, becomes a verse, then walk every step of your life steadily.

“愿望”是希望某事发生。“信念”是相信它会发生。“勇气”是让它发生。
6. “Wishing” is hoping for something to happen. “Believing” is having faith that it will happen. “Courage” is making it happen.

我知道，在妈妈心中一定有一张世界地图。那地图上没有国家，没有城市，只有我走过的每一步路。我也知道，我的每一步都踏着她的担心。
7. I know that in my mother’s heart, there must be a map of the world. On that map, there are no countries, no cities, only every step I have taken. And I also know that every step I take is accompanied by her worries.

我想每个人的存在都有他的原因，你让我相信我所遭遇的一切，并不是阻挡我的前进，而是让我下定更大的决心。谢谢有你，让我明白，如果对于自己喜欢的事情没有办法轻易放弃，那就要更努力的让别人看到自己的存在。我一直照着别人的方向飞，这一次，我要用我的方向飞翔一次。
8. I think everyone has a reason for their existence, and you have made me believe that all the setbacks I have encountered are not to block my progress, but to make me more determined. Thank you for helping me understand that if I cannot easily give up on the things I like, I must work harder to let others see my existence. I have always flown in the direction of others, but this time, I want to fly in my own direction.

很多人的失落，是违背了自己少年时的立志。自认为成熟，自认为练达，自认为精明，从前多幼稚，总算看透了，想穿了。于是，我们就此变成自己年少时最憎恶的那种人。
9. Many people’s disappointment comes from betraying their youthful aspirations. They think they have become mature, sophisticated, and shrewd, and have finally seen through and figured out everything. As a result, we become the kind of people we despised in our youth.

不要成全了别人，恶心了自己，学会拒绝别人，也尊重别人的拒绝。
10. Don’t fulfill others at the expense of disgust to yourself. Learn to refuse others and respect their refusal.

当需要人陪，需要人安慰的时候，才发现能够陪你的就只有手机。
11. When you need company and comfort, you realize that the only thing that can accompany you is your mobile phone.

人生的路，靠自己一步步走去，真正能保护你的，是你自己的人格选择和文化选择。那么反过来，真正能伤害你的，也是一样，自己的选择。
12. The path of life depends on you walking step by step. What can truly protect you is your own choices in character and culture. Conversely, what can truly hurt you is also your own choices.

速热的人也速冻，慢热的人最长情。
13. Those who heat up quickly also cool down quickly, while those who take time to warm up are the most loyal.

既然选择了远方，便只顾风雨兼程。
14. Since you have chosen the distance, just focus on going through wind and rain.

很多人觉得自己活得太累，实际上他们可能只是睡得太晚。
15. Many people feel tired in life, but in fact, they may just be going to bed too late.

只要认真计划一件事，并且一边坚持一边调整，往往会完成得十分出色。懈怠的情绪谁都会有，不要担心自己比别人走得慢，也不要因暂时的挫折心灰意冷，只要不断调整心态，不停下脚步，最终能抵达终点。
16. As long as you seriously plan something and persist while adjusting, you will often achieve great results. Laziness is something everyone experiences; don’t worry about walking slower than others or getting disheartened by temporary setbacks. As long as you keep adjusting your mindset and never stop moving forward, you will eventually reach your destination.

当你不够强大时，你发的一切飚，在别人看来都只是个笑话。
17. When you are not strong enough, all your outbursts will be seen as jokes by others.

所有幸运和巧合的事，要么是上天注定，要么是一个人偷偷的在努力。
18. All lucky and coincidental things are either destined by heaven or secretly hard work by someone.

世上没有永远不被毁谤的人，也没有永远被赞叹的人。当你话多的时候，别人批评你，当你话少的时候，别人批评你，当你沈默的时候，别人还是批评你，这个世界上，没有一个不被批评的人。不要因为别人的怀疑，而给自己烦恼；更不要因为别人的无知，而痛苦了你自己。
1. There is no one in the world who is never slandered, nor is there anyone who is always praised. When you talk too much, people criticize you; when you talk too little, people criticize you; when you are silent, people still criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized. Don’t let others’ doubts trouble you; and don’t let others’ ignorance hurt you.

宁愿花时间去修炼不完美的自己，也不要浪费时间去期待完美的别人。
2. It’s better to spend time refining your imperfect self than to waste time expecting perfect others.

单身也好恋爱也好，只是人生中的某个阶段。没必要羡慕旁人，也别对现状不满。无论身边是否有人陪伴，前方是否有承诺一起努力的目标，生活的喜怒哀乐都是需要自己去经历并沉淀。正确地活着，每个阶段都会带给你更好的自己。成长不是单纯地为了脱单，而是让自己有力量去体验任何可能。
3. Being single or in a relationship is just a phase in life. There’s no need to envy others or be dissatisfied with your current situation. Whether or not you have someone by your side, or if there’s a goal to strive for together, the joys and sorrows of life are all experiences you need to go through and settle. Living correctly, each stage will bring you a better self. Growth is not just about finding a partner, but about having the strength to experience any possibility.

说真的，我并不想在太年轻的时候遇见你。那时的我仗着你喜欢我就乱使性子，还很心高气傲，以为错过你，总还会有别人。
4. Honestly, I don’t want to meet you when I’m too young. Back then, I took advantage of your affection and acted willfully, thinking that if I missed you, there would always be someone else.

他们都在用力的爱，却不懂得爱，大家都只知道我想要，我想要，可成熟的爱不是索要，而是给予。
5. They all love with all their might, but they don’t understand love. Everyone only knows what they want, but mature love is not about demanding, it’s about giving.

我们都在最没能力给别人承诺的时候遇见最想承诺的人，也在为了理想不得不前进的时候遇见最想留住的人。
6. We all meet the people we want to promise to when we are least capable of making promises, and we also meet the people we want to keep when we have to move forward for our dreams.

也许你有很多朋友，但你还是要学会适应孤独，学会勇敢，因为再好的朋友也可能有分道扬镳的一天。
7. Maybe you have many friends, but you still need to learn to adapt to loneliness and be brave, because even the best of friends may part ways one day.

不是所有的人都能知道时光的含义，不是所有的人都懂得珍惜，这世间并没有分离与衰老的命运，只有肯爱与不肯爱的心。
8. Not everyone can understand the meaning of time, nor can everyone cherish it. There is no fate of separation and aging in this world, only the heart that is willing to love or not willing to love.

你赢，我陪你君临天下，你输，我陪你东山再起！人只有穷了，才知道哪个人最爱你。朋友只有落魄了，才知道谁对你最真，谁在乎你。陪伴，不是你有钱我才追随；珍惜，不是你漂亮我才关注。时间留下的，不是财富，不是美丽，是真诚。日久不一定生情，但一定见人心！
9. If you win, I will accompany you to reign over the world; if you lose, I will accompany you to rise again. Only when you are poor can you know who loves you the most. Only when friends are down and out can you know who is true to you and who cares about you. Companionship is not about following you because you have money; cherishing is not about paying attention to you because you are beautiful. What time leaves behind is not wealth or beauty, but sincerity. Time doesn’t necessarily create love, but it definitely reveals people’s true hearts!

一旦有人让你依赖，便会有所期待，所以有时一个人未必不好。
10. Once someone makes you dependent, there will be expectations, so sometimes being alone may not be so bad.

在你走后的曾经有人来过，现又变曾经。我还和从前一样，冷漠不减，温柔用不上，狠心过了头。
11. After you left, someone else came, and now they have become a memory. I am still the same as before, with no less indifference, no need for tenderness, and too much ruthlessness.

有很多事情，自己其实明明知道真相。却忍不住拼命找到漏洞和借口来推翻真相，成全自己心里想要的答案。
12. There are many things that we know the truth about, but we can’t help desperately looking for loopholes and excuses to overturn the truth and fulfill the answers we want in our hearts.

不知从什么时候起，厌倦了漂泊无定的日子，喜爱熟悉的事物，吃早餐，见老友，走熟悉的路，始终只爱一个人。
13. At some point, I grew tired of the drifting life and began to appreciate familiar things, having breakfast, meeting old friends, walking familiar roads, and always loving the same person.

世界上的任何东西，都能轻易的背叛你，哪怕是一片阿斯匹林也可以在你生龙活虎的日子里默默过期，在你头痛欲裂的时候失去作用，唯独记忆太过忠诚。
14. Anything in the world can easily betray you, even a piece of aspirin can silently expire when you are in good health and lose its effect when you have a splitting headache. Only memories are too loyal.

爱就是：三分喜欢，七分珍惜；三分说开，七分默契；三分宠爱，七分忍耐；三分等待，七分情怀……
15. Love is: three parts liking, seven parts cherishing; three parts talking, seven parts understanding; three parts pampering, seven parts patience; three parts waiting, seven parts sentiment…

我的日子里有你，人生是会不一样。可要是没有你，日子还是要过，也许要过得更勇敢和独立。谁也可以没有谁，这句话听起来有时多苦涩啊？却也使你知道，人不能因为没有了谁就没有了自己。
1. Having you in my life makes a difference. But even without you, life goes on, perhaps with more courage and independence. Who can live without whom, this sentence sounds bitter at times, right? But it also reminds you that one cannot lose oneself without someone else.

我们都要向猫学点“喵精神”：有人陪着玩，就热情地玩闹；没人陪着，自己high；有猫粮吃尽情享用，没吃的自己游走取食。能开心，善孤独；九条命，超坚韧。
2. We should learn some “meow spirit” from cats: when someone plays with you, play enthusiastically; when alone, entertain yourself; when there is cat food, enjoy it to the fullest; when there is none, go out and find food on your own. Be able to be happy and enjoy solitude; have nine lives and be extremely resilient.

心境简单了，也就有心思经营生活；生活简单了，就有时间去享受人生。
3. When your mindset is simple, you have the mind to manage your life; when life is simple, you have time to enjoy it.

很多人把心动、迷恋或倾慕误认为爱情，但心动跟真正的爱情根本无法相比。心动的光芒最多只是颗钻石的光芒，让你惊叹它的华丽，恨不得立刻拥有；但真爱的光芒就像阳光，久了也许会让人觉得稀松平常，但这种光芒能温暖你，照耀你，一旦失去你的整个世界都黑暗了。
4. Many people mistake infatuation, obsession, or admiration for love, but the brilliance of infatuation cannot compare to true love. The brilliance of infatuation is at most like the brilliance of a diamond, making you marvel at its splendor and wanting to possess it immediately; but the brilliance of true love is like sunlight, which may seem ordinary over time, but this brilliance warms and illuminates you, and without it, your whole world becomes dark.

就是这样，懂得越多，失去也越多，多少美好的事物也都经不住推敲。可是亲爱的，要知道，你可以看清、看透这个世界，却不要看破。
5. That’s it, the more you understand, the more you lose, and many beautiful things cannot withstand scrutiny. But dear, you should know that you can see through and understand the world, but don’t look through it.

抱怨是一件最没意义的事情。如果实在难以忍受周围的环境，那就暗自努力练好本领，然后跳出那个圈子。
6. Complaining is the most meaningless thing. If you really can’t stand your surroundings, then work hard in secret to improve your skills and then jump out of that circle.

有人总说：已经晚了。实际上，“现在”就是最恰当的时候。对一个真正有追求的人来说，生命的每个时期都是年轻的、及时的。
7. Some people always say it’s too late. In fact, “now” is the most appropriate time. For someone who truly has pursuits, every stage of life is young and timely.

当你不在意别人如何看自己的时候，你才能更专注于你想做的事，而这个时候你会发现你比原来收获得更多。
8. When you don’t care about how others see you, you can focus more on what you want to do, and at this time, you will find that you gain more than before.

人与人之间情断义绝，并不需要什么具体的理由。就算表面上有，也很可能只是心离开的结果，事后才编造出的借口而已。因为倘若心没有离开，当将会导致关系破裂的事态发生时，理应有人努力去挽救。如果没有，说明其实关系早已破裂。
9. There is no need for any specific reason for people to break off relationships. Even if there is one on the surface, it is likely just an excuse for the result of the heart leaving. Because if the heart hasn’t left, when things happen that could lead to the breakdown of the relationship, someone should make an effort to save it. If not, it means the relationship has already broken.

如果这世界上真有奇迹，那只是努力的另一个名字。生命中最难的阶段不是没有人懂你，而是你不懂你自己。
10. If there are miracles in this world, it’s just another name for hard work. The most difficult stage in life is not when no one understands you, but when you don’t understand yourself

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