标题：每日成长必知：关于人性的10个真相
Title: Daily Growth Must-Know: 10 Truths About Human Nature

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人活着不但要看清自己，也要了解别人，都说人性经不起考验，真的是这样么？下面这些送你⬇️
In life, we need to understand not only ourselves but also others. It is said that human nature cannot withstand tests, is this really the case? Here are the following 10 truths for you:

真相一：人可以防御他人的攻击，但对他人的赞美毫无抵抗力。
Truth 1: People can defend against attacks from others, but they have no resistance to praise from others.

每个人的内心深处都渴望被赞美、被认可，期待被肯定、被尊重，而这恰恰也是人性的软肋和弱点。有些赞美是出于客套、有些赞美是出于恭维。过度沉溺于别人的赞美，只能让自己生活在良言编织的虚幻世界里，渐渐迷失自我。感谢赞美、更要感恩批评，客观地对待赞美，清楚地认知自己，才是正确的心态。
Deep down in everyone’s heart, there is a desire to be praised, recognized, affirmed, and respected. This is precisely the soft spot and weakness of human nature. Some praise is out of politeness, and some is out of flattery. Becoming overly immersed in others’ praise can only cause one to live in an illusory world woven of kind words, gradually losing oneself. Appreciate praise, but be more grateful for criticism. Treat praise objectively, have a clear understanding of oneself, and that is the correct attitude.

真相二：理解自身的阴暗，是对付他人阴暗一面的最好方法。
Truth 2: Understanding one’s own darkness is the best way to deal with the dark side of others.

人生布满了虚伪和丑陋。然而，我们都没有权利去指责他人的不堪，因为我们本身就是如此。当我们开始理解黑暗，也就不再恐惧深夜来袭。当我们能够调和自身的黑暗面，尝试理解他人的黑暗面，也才能更好地保护自己。
Life is filled with hypocrisy and ugliness. However, we have no right to accuse others of their不堪, because we ourselves are like that. When we begin to understand the darkness, we no longer fear the night. When we can reconcile our own dark side and try to understand the dark side of others, we can better protect ourselves.

真相三：一个能够真正喜爱他人的人，自然会毫不怀疑地相信，他人也会喜爱自己。
Truth 3: A person who can truly love others will naturally believe without doubt that others will love them in return.

亲密和热情，逃避和冷漠，终究过的是两种不一样的人生。当我们给自己披上一层保护壳，自然隔绝了冰冷的世界和冷漠的人，但也拒绝了精彩的世界和温情的人。那些能够发自内心去喜爱他人的人，自然也能够得到别人的喜爱。人生，是一场伟大的冒险。那些敢于冒险的人，是勇敢的人，也会得到更大的奖赏。
Intimacy and enthusiasm lead to a different life than escape and indifference. When we put on a protective shell, we naturally isolate ourselves from the cold world and indifferent people, but we also reject the wonderful world and warm people. Those who can genuinely love others will naturally receive love from others. Life is

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