1.爱情是一场赌博,赌徒们把未来的岁月作为筹码,下注于远方幸福的时光。
1. Love is a gamble, where赌徒s stake their future years as chips on the happiness of the distant future.

2.爱情就像咖啡,苦涩而又香醇;爱情就像鸣曲,曲折而又动人;爱情就像酸梅,青色而又甘甜。
2. Love is like coffee, bitter yet aromatic; love is like a serenade, full of twists and turns yet touching; love is like a green plum, sour yet sweet.

3.她没有拒绝你,但也没有对你心动,说明她现在很寂寞,需要男人,需要爱,但是你还有很多缺点,并不能一下子令她十分接受与满意。
3. She didn’t reject you, but she didn’t fall for you either. It means she is lonely now, needing a man and love, but you still have many flaws that prevent her from fully accepting and being satisfied with you.

4.给我一个支点,让我重新撬动你的心好吗?可令我难过的是,直到你离去,也始终不肯给我这个支点。
4. Give me a fulcrum, let me pry open your heart again, okay? But what makes me sad is that you never gave me this fulcrum until you left.

5.如果你的婚姻不幸福,那就回来找我吧,哪怕我已经老得走不动了,我也会带你一起私奔的。
5. If your marriage is unhappy, come back to me, even if I’m too old to walk, I’ll elope with you.

6.当我们都老的时候,我希望还能吻着你的牙床,直到永远。
6. When we’re old, I hope I can still kiss your gums until forever.

7.漂亮是女人的通行证——一句老话而已,也算颠扑不破的真理。明明是糖衣炮弹,最后也不见得赢得美人归,但就是死心塌地讨好她。而那些缺乏视觉效果的女子尽管有的明明是良药,因为苦口,男人常常下不了决心娶她。
7. Beauty is a woman’s passport – just an old saying, but also an unshakable truth. It may be a sugar-coated shell, and you may not win the beauty in the end, but you still wholeheartedly try to please her. As for those visually unappealing women, even if some are the real cure, because they taste bitter, men often can’t make up their minds to marry them.

8.大龄未婚男女像是坐巴士坐过了站。有时是因为巴士上的座位太舒适了,简直不愿下车;有时是因为不认识自己该下的站台。终身不结婚的男女呢?他们是巴士司机。
8. Older unmarried men and women are like passengers who have missed their stop on the bus. Sometimes it’s because the seats on the bus are too comfortable, making them unwilling to get off; sometimes it’s because they don’t know which stop they should get off at. Men and women who never marry are the bus drivers.

9.感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱,或者不爱,只能自行了断。
9. Sometimes feelings are just a personal matter, unrelated to anyone else. To love or not to love, one can only make that decision on their own.

10.男人最大的秘密往往告诉红颜知己,不是同性家人或妻子。当红颜知己成了妻子,她的这部分权力马上被取消了。
10. Men often reveal their biggest secrets to their confidantes, not to their male family members or wives. When the confidante becomes the wife, her power in this aspect is immediately revoked.

11.好女人是男人的学校。好女人却希望这个好学生永远不要毕业。
11. A good woman is a man’s school. However, a good woman wishes that this good student would never graduate.

12.婚姻是键盘,太多秩序和规则;爱情是鼠标,一点就通。男人自比主机,内存最重要;女人好似显示器,一切都看得出来。
12. Marriage is like a keyboard, full of order and rules; love is like a mouse, easy to connect. Men compare themselves to the mainframe, where memory is the most important; women are like monitors, where everything can be seen.

13.那些美丽的小鱼,它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情,亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。
13. Those beautiful little fish, they sleep with their eyes open. They don’t need love and never cry. They are my role models.

14.感情经不起比,一比比出寒碜;感情经不起推敲,一敲碎成片段。
14. Feelings can’t stand comparison; once compared, they reveal their shabbiness; feelings can’t stand scrutiny; once examined, they shatter into fragments.

15.示爱者是动物,被爱者是植物。如果爱被拒绝,离开的当然是动物,因为植物是不会生出脚来跑路的。
15. The suitor is the animal, and the one being loved is the plant. If love is rejected, the one who leaves is the animal, because plants don’t have feet to run away.

16.对弈的人已走,谁还在意推敲红尘之外的一盘残棋?
16. The players have left, who still cares about pondering over the unfinished game outside the world of mortals?

17.我一直在寻找那种感觉,那种在寒冷的日子里,牵起一双温暖的手,踏实地向前走的感觉。
17. I have been looking for that feeling, the feeling of holding a pair of warm hands on a cold day, and walking forward steadily.

18.因为平淡,我们的爱情有时会游离原本温馨的港湾;因为好奇,我们的行程会在某个十字路口不经意的拐弯,就在你意欲转身的刹那,你会听见身后有爱情在低声地哭泣。
18. Because of the monotony, our love sometimes drifts away from the originally warm harbor; because of curiosity, our journey may take an unintentional turn at a crossroads. At the moment when you want to turn around, you will hear love crying softly behind you.

19.夜晚来了我还依然睁着眼睛,是因为我看见了你留在月光下的痕迹。
19. I still keep my eyes open when night falls, because I see the traces you left in the moonlight.

20.生日是一个舞台,一次考验,一个机会。恋爱时,男人更会利用这一点;结婚后,女人更会利用这一点。
20. A birthday is a stage, a test, and an opportunity. When in love, men are more likely to take advantage of this; after marriage, women are more likely to take advantage of this.

21.我颠倒了整个世界,只为摆正你的倒影。
21. I’ve turned the whole world upside down just to straighten your reflection.

22.失恋的人虽各不相同,但仰望星空却是唯一的不约而同。
22. Although people who have lost love are different, gazing at the starry sky is the only thing they all have in common.

23.情,亲情……我们之间无所不有,却唯独没有爱情。
23. We have everything between us, including affection and family bonds, but the only thing we don’t have is love.

24.如果有来生,我愿做你的妹妹,即使我们无法步入婚姻的殿堂,我也可以做你永远无法割舍的亲人!
24. If there is an afterlife, I would like to be your sister. Even if we can’t enter the殿堂 of marriage, I can still be the family member you can never let go.

25.知道吗,男孩站在女孩的左边是因为那样可以离她的心更近一些。
25. You know, a boy stands on a girl’s left side because that way he can be closer to her heart.

26.女人要学会扮靓自己。不要拿朴素来当挡箭牌,不要拿家务做借口,不懂时尚,你就不是一个的好女人。
26. Women should learn to dress up. Don’t use simplicity as an excuse, and don’t use housework as an excuse either. If you don’t understand fashion, you are not a good woman.

27.爱情就是上辈子欠下的情债这辈子来还——我上辈子一定俗不可耐,搞得我今生无债可还!!
27. Love is like a debt from the past life that needs to be repaid in this one – I must have been so vulgar in my previous life that I have no debts to repay in this life!

28.人一辈子也无法心心相印,他们孤独的只剩下肉体和金钱的交换了。所以,请等待那个对你生命有特殊意义的人。
28. People can’t truly understand each other in a lifetime; they end up lonely with only the exchange of physical desires and money. So, please wait for that special person in your life.

29.在我的世界里,你依旧纯洁,脏了的只是这个世界。
29. In my world, you remain pure; it’s just the world that has become dirty.

30.以后你会不经意地想起我,请别忘记我曾那样深深地爱过你。
30. You may unintentionally think of me from time to time; please don’t forget how deeply I once loved you.

31.两个人热恋时,感情已经热烈得就要把彼此都燃烧了,还需要什么经营,但是时间一长了,冷却的爱情需要彼此都真诚地去维系与经营,爱情才不会变质。
31. When two people are in love, their emotions are so intense that they seem to burn each other. There’s no need for management, but as time goes by, a cooling love requires sincere maintenance and management from both parties to prevent it from deteriorating.

32.爱情永远都处在时差中,不是你早,就是我晚,反正永远不同步。
32. Love is always out of sync; either you’re early, or I’m late – we never seem to be on the same page.

33.傻是我的特长,痴是我的理想,当傻和痴交织在一起的时候,便是我梦境里最美的天堂!别笑我,我就这么痴心,我会傻傻地爱你痴痴地恋你,一直到老!
33. Being silly is my specialty, and being infatuated is my ideal. When silliness and infatuation intertwine, it becomes the most beautiful paradise in my dreams! Don’t laugh at me; I am that devoted. I will love you foolishly and be infatuated with you until we are old!

34.时间是最公正的裁判;历史是最优秀的见证人。你终究会知道我如何爱你,但是,要给我一定的时间!
34. Time is the fairest judge, and history is the best witness. You will eventually know how much I love you, but give me some time!

35.我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖,什么都可以接受。相反,我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程,知道自己最重要的是什么,知道不重要的东西是什么。
35. I don’t think that maturity means becoming more and more tolerant, accepting everything. On the contrary, I believe it’s a process of elimination, knowing what’s important and what’s not.

36.总有一天我会从你身边默默地走开,不带任何声响。我错过了狠多,我总是一个人难过。
36. One day, I will quietly leave your side without any sound. I’ve missed so much, and I’m always sad by myself.

37.有了自己的房子,未婚女子就像是凭空小了几岁,又有耐心慢慢地挑选爱人了。一男向一女征询意见:我们先租房子住,结了婚攒了钱再买房子吧?女答:那我还不如先租丈夫呢。
37. When an unmarried woman has her own house, she seems to become several years younger and can take her time in choosing a partner. A man asks a woman for her opinion: “Shall we rent a house first and buy one after we get married and save money?” The woman replies, “Then I might as well rent a husband first.”

38.守一颗心,别像守一只猫。它冷了,来偎依你;它饿了,来叫你;它痒了,来摩你;它厌了,便偷偷地走掉。守一颗心,多么希望像守一只狗,不是你守它,而是它守你!
38. Guarding a heart is not like guarding a cat. When it’s cold, it comes to snuggle with you; when it’s hungry, it comes to call you; when it’s itchy, it comes to rub against you; when it’s bored, it sneaks away. Guarding a heart – how I wish it were like guarding a dog, not you guarding it, but it guarding you!

39.诺言的“诺”字和誓言的“誓”字都是有口无心的。
39. The character “诺” in promise and the character “誓” in oath both have mouths but no hearts.

40.你在做什么?我在仰望天空。度的仰望是什么?是我想念她的角度。为什么要把头抬到度?为了不让我的眼泪掉下来。
40. What are you doing? I’m gazing at the sky. What’s the angle of 45 degrees? It’s the angle at which I miss her. Why do I have to raise my head to 45 degrees? To prevent my tears from falling down.

41.能让男人轻松的女人是好女人,能让女人满足的男人是好男人。
41. A good woman is one who can make a man feel at ease, and a good man is one who can satisfy a woman.

42.恋爱中,男人的个性是多余的,女人的头脑是多余的。
42. In love, a man’s personality is unnecessary, and a woman’s mind is unnecessary.

43.我生命里的温暖就那么多,我全部给了你,但是你离开了我,你叫我以后怎么再对别人笑。
43. I have only so much warmth in my life, and I gave it all to you. But you left me, how can I smile at others again?

44.有些人会一直刻在记忆里的,即使忘记了他的声音,忘记了他的笑容,忘记了他的脸,但是每当想起他时的那种感受,是永远都不会改变的。
44. Some people will always be engraved in memory. Even if you forget their voice, their smile, and their face, the feeling when you think of them will never change.

45.男人要是爱上一个女人,不管她如何待他,他都爱。温顺也是好,泼辣也是好,不爱了,一切都是错。
45. If a man falls in love with a woman, he will love her no matter how she treats him. Meekness is good, and spiciness is good too. If he doesn’t love anymore, everything is wrong.

46.如果一个人的感情得到了解脱,那么另一个人将走向可怕的地狱。
46. If one person’s emotions are liberated, the other person will head towards a terrible hell.

47.一群人在讨论现代做什么事最冒险?登山滑翔极限运动。。。说什么的都有。其实,感情才是最大的冒险,而且在任何时代都如此。因为种种冒险行为大不了一死,但感情的折磨却让人生不如死。
47. A group of people were discussing what is the most adventurous thing to do in modern times? Mountain climbing, paragliding, extreme sports… There were various opinions. In fact, emotions are the biggest adventure, and it has always been so throughout any era. Because all kinds of adventurous actions are at most a death, but the torment of emotions makes life worse than death.

48.单身是春天的种子,充满希望;单身是夏天的烈日,热情辉煌;单身是秋天的落叶,自由自在;单身是冬天的雪花,浪漫无限。
48. Being single is like a seed in spring, full of hope; being single is like the scorching sun in summer, passionate and brilliant; being single is like the falling leaves in autumn, free and easy; being single is like snowflakes in winter, romantic and infinite.

49.只有爱情没有婚姻会像泡沫一样容易破灭;只有婚姻没有爱情也会像白开水一样容易让人厌倦。
49. Only love without marriage is like a bubble, easily shattered; only marriage without love is like plain boiled water, easily boring.

50.婚前女人把男人看成果,可是婚后却总是这不满那不满的,觉得婚前的日子像无花果一样白过了。
50. Before marriage, a woman sees a man as a fruit, but after marriage, she is always dissatisfied with this and that, feeling that the days before marriage were like a fig - white spent.

51.人啊,在不能够爱,没有权利爱的时候,在不经意间碰撞出的“爱”的火花,是最纯洁,最难忘的。尽管这种“爱”只能深藏在心底,从一开始就注定了没有结局,但却是人生极有魅力的一种温馨和苦涩,也正因为没有结局,这种宝贵的感情才能在你记忆中,永远保持着一份。你只听到托尔斯泰对于爱情一相情愿的纯真,还没有听说过钱钟书对于平凡爱情的无奈:它是一座城堡,城外的人想竭力冲进去,而城内的人又想竭力挤出来。
51. Ah, people, when they cannot love, have no right to love, the “love” sparks that collide inadvertently are the purest and most unforgettable. Although this kind of “love” can only be hidden deep in the heart, it is doomed to have no ending from the beginning, but it is a kind of charm and bitterness in life, and it is precisely because there is no ending that this precious emotion can always maintain a share in your memory. You have only heard Tolstoy’s one-sided pure love for love, but you have not heard Qian Zhongshu’s helplessness in ordinary love: It is a castle, people outside the city want to rush in, and people inside the city want to squeeze out.

52.他纵有千个优点,但他不爱你,这是一个你永远无法说服自己去接受的缺点。一个人最大的缺点不是自私多情野蛮任性,而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。暗恋是一种自毁,是一种伟大的牺牲。暗恋,甚至不需要对象,我们不过站在河边,看着自己的倒影自怜,却以为自己正爱着别人。
52. He may have a thousand advantages, but if he doesn’t love you, it’s a disadvantage you can never persuade yourself to accept. The biggest flaw in a person is not selfishness, fickle emotions, barbarism, or willfulness, but being stubbornly in love with someone who doesn’t love you. Unrequited love is a form of self-destruction, a great sacrifice. Unrequited love doesn’t even need an object; we just stand by the river, pitifully looking at our own reflection, thinking we are in love with someone else.

53.一个萝卜一个坑,说的是婚姻情况。事实上对于爱情来说,是不成立的。优秀的人,不管男女都会是一个萝卜好几个坑,所以这个世界天天上演悲欢离合的故事。
53. One radish for one坑 (hole), which describes the situation of marriage. In fact, it is not true for love. Excellent people, regardless of men or women, will be one radish and several holes, so the world stages stories of joys and sorrows every day.

54.吝啬是男人的大忌,就算穷也不要做出一副穷样,男人抱怨女人只爱男人的钱,其实也并不一定就是这样,有的女人喜欢男人为她花钱,有时候也是为了证实自己在男人心目中的位置。男人如果喜欢一个女人,一定愿意为她花钱。
54. Stinginess is a great taboo for men. Even if they are poor, they should not act poor. Men complain that women only love men’s money, but it’s not necessarily the case. Some women like men to spend money on them, sometimes to confirm their position in the man’s heart. If a man likes a woman, he will definitely be willing to spend money on her.

55.幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题,成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题。成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
55. There is no problem when immature people are together, and there is no problem when mature people are together. However, when mature people and immature people are together, there will be many issues.

56.如果你赞同以上说法,就请留言。这样可以让更多的人知道这些道理。如果你还要补充,更有留言,可以让人知道更多的道理。如果你不赞同的话,同样要留言,因为你更有道理。与其说你爱一个人,不如说爱其中的痛苦。
56. If you agree with the above statement, please leave a comment. This way, more people can learn about these truths. If you have more to add, please leave a comment as well, as it can help others learn even more. If you disagree, you should still leave a comment, because you might have a better point. Instead of saying you love someone, it’s better to say you love the pain involved in the relationship.

57.白天,有太阳的时候,我的那点阴暗的心思躲在绚烂的花盘后面,谁也看不见,他们以为我已经把你忘了,就像你忘了我一样。
57. During the day, when the sun is shining, my dark thoughts hide behind the bright flower petals, unseen by anyone. They think I have already forgotten you, just as you have forgotten me.

58.晚上,那点疼就出来了,先是失神片刻,然后五脏六腑的神经才一齐苏醒过来,万箭穿心。
58. At night, the pain emerges, first causing a moment of distraction, and then the nerves in my internal organs all wake up together, feeling like a thousand arrows piercing my heart.

59.时间没有等我,是你忘了带我走,我们就这样迷散在陌生的风雨里,从此天各一方,两两相忘。
59. Time didn’t wait for me; it’s you who forgot to take me with you. We got lost in the unfamiliar rain and wind, and now we are in different places, forgetting each other.

60.如果丈夫或妻子总想做对方的警察,那么左看右看对方都有点像小偷。
60. If a husband or wife always wants to act like a police officer, then no matter how you look at each other, you both seem like thieves.

61.有人说爱情就像在捡石头,总想捡到一个适合自己的,但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?她适合你那你又适合她吗?其实,爱情就像磨石子一样,或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么的满意,但是记住人是有弹性的,很多事情是可以改变的。只要你有心有勇气,与其到处去捡未知的石头,还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨光。你开始磨了吗?
61. Some people say that love is like picking up stones, always trying to find one that suits you. But how can you know when you’ll find it? Does she suit you, and do you suit her? In fact, love is like polishing stones. When you first find one, you may not be satisfied, but remember that people are adaptable, and many things can change. As long as you have the heart and courage, it’s better to polish the stone you already have instead of searching for an unknown one. Have you started polishing?

62.你以为不可失去的人,原来并非不可失去,你流干了眼泪,自有另一个人逗你欢笑,你伤心欲绝,然后发现不爱你的人,根本不值得你为之伤心,今天回首,何尝不是一个喜剧?情尽时,自有另一番新境界,所有的悲哀也不过是历史。
62. The person you thought you couldn’t lose may not be irreplaceable after all. After you’ve cried your tears, someone else will make you laugh. When you’re heartbroken, you’ll realize that the person who doesn’t love you is not worth your sadness. Looking back, it’s all just a comedy. When love ends, there is a new realm, and all the sorrows are just history.

63.爱情总是想象比现实美丽,相逢如是,告别亦如是。我们以为爱得很深很深,来日岁月,会让你知道,它不过很浅很浅。最深最重的爱,必须和时日一起。因为爱情的缘故,两个陌生人可以突然熟络到睡在同一张床上。然而,相同的两个人,在分手时却说,我觉得你越来越陌生。爱情将两个人由陌生变成熟悉,又由熟悉变成陌生。爱情正是一个将一对陌生人变成情侣,又将一对情侣变成陌生人的游戏。
63. Love is always more beautiful in our imagination than in reality, whether it’s meeting or parting. We think we love deeply, but as time goes by, you’ll find out that it’s only shallow. The deepest and heaviest love must grow with time. Because of love, two strangers can suddenly become close enough to sleep in the same bed. However, the same two people may say they feel increasingly unfamiliar when they part. Love turns strangers into lovers and then turns lovers back into strangers.

64.如果有一天我白发苍苍不再美丽,你是否还会轻抚我的脸颊,说陪我走到海角天涯?如果天真的老了,海真的枯了,我只愿能与你相守千千万万个轮回。
64. If one day my hair turns gray and I’m no longer beautiful, will you still gently touch my cheek and say you’ll accompany me to the ends of the earth? If the sky truly grows old and the sea truly dries up, I only wish to be with you through countless reincarnations.

65.如果在情敌出现的时候,一个劲地把情人往自己怀里拉,反而会把情人往对方怀里推。过分紧张不是一件好事。轻松一点,这样两方都不会累得慌。
65. If you constantly pull your lover towards you when a rival appears, it may actually push them towards the other person. Being overly anxious is not a good thing. Relax and neither side will feel exhausted.

66.喜欢一个人,就是两个人在一起很开心;而爱一个人,即使不开心也想和他在一起。
66. Liking someone means being happy together; whereas loving someone means wanting to be with them even when you’re not happy.

67.暗恋最伟大的行为,是成全。你不爱我,但是我成全你。真正的暗恋,是一生的事业,不因他远离你而放弃。没有这种情操,不要轻言暗恋。
67. The greatest act of unrequited love is to fulfill the other person’s wishes. If you don’t love me, I will fulfill your desires. True unrequited love is a lifelong commitment, not giving up even if they distance themselves from you. Without such dedication, don’t lightly speak of unrequited love.

68.有时候女孩子的心理非常微妙。你在她身边痴心了若干年,她都不会爱你,但一旦你喜欢上了别人,她就忍受不了了,发现自己原来是喜欢你的。
68. Sometimes a girl’s psychology is very subtle. She may not love you after you’ve been devoted to her for years, but once you start liking someone else, she can’t stand it and realizes she actually likes you.

69.沉溺于以前与回忆的人是一个很懦弱的人,因为她(他)不敢勇敢地正视现实。现实是什么?现实就是变化。没有不变的感情,没有不变的人。
69. Being immersed in the past and memories is a sign of cowardice, as it means you’re not brave enough to face reality. What is reality? Reality is change. There are no unchanging feelings or people.

70.以前只是一种经历与感觉,而不是证据,不需要为以前的喜欢付出现在或以后的责任。不要揪住以前的事情不放。现在的事实比以前的回忆更有实效性与说服力。
70. The past is just an experience and a feeling, not evidence. There’s no need to be responsible for past likes in the present or the future. Don’t dwell on past matters. Present facts are more effective and persuasive than memories.

71.有时候女孩子的心理非常微妙。你在她身边痴心了若干年,她都不会爱你,但一旦你喜欢上了别人,她就忍受不了了,发现自己原来是喜欢你的。
71. Sometimes a girl’s psychology is very subtle. She may not love you after you’ve been devoted to her for years, but once you start liking someone else, she can’t stand it and realizes she actually likes you.

72.在爱的世界里,没有谁对不起谁,只有谁不懂得珍惜谁。
72. In the world of love, there’s no one who对不起 (owes) anyone, only those who fail to cherish each other.

73.我很忙——听到这句话时,父母担心的是孩子的身体健康;朋友心想这哥们儿事业有成;妻子马上觉得自己家务的担子重了;女朋友流泪了,她开始意识到自己在他心目中的位置不一定有他的事业重要,甚至简直就是一个分手的信号或借口。
73. I’m busy - when hearing this, parents worry about their child’s health; friends think this guy must be successful in his career; the wife immediately feels the burden of household chores has increased; the girlfriend cries, realizing her position in his heart may not be as important as his career, or even a signal or excuse for breaking up.

74.每个女人都有两个版本:精装本和平装本,前者是在职场社交场合给别人看的,浓妆艳抹,光彩照人;后者是在家里给最爱的人看的,换上家常服睡衣,诉苦。婚姻中的丈夫往往只能看到妻子的平装本和别的女人的精装本。
74. Every woman has two versions: hardcover and paperback. The former is for others to see in professional and social settings, with heavy makeup and a radiant appearance; the latter is for her loved ones at home, wearing casual clothes and pajamas, complaining about life. A husband in marriage often only sees his wife’s paperback version and other women’s hardcover versions.

75.老夫老妻越长越像。有人说因为他们相爱。但医生说,起因是朝夕相处,饮食结构相同作息规律同步。同一棵树上的树叶也是越长越像的。
75. Old married couples grow more and more alike. Some say it’s because they’re in love, but doctors say it’s due to living together, having the same diet and routines. Leaves on the same tree also grow more similar over time.

76.爱情就像两个拉橡皮筋的人,受伤的总是不愿放手的那一个!
76. Love is like two people pulling on a rubber band; the one who gets hurt is always the one unwilling to let go!

77.爱,从来就是一件千回百转的事。不曾被离弃,不曾受伤害,怎懂得爱人?爱,原来是一种经历,但愿人长久。
77. Love has always been a complicated matter. Without experiencing abandonment and pain, how can one understand how to love? Love is an experience, and may it last a lifetime.

78.爱情本来应该是件快乐的事,爱人本来是个信任的伴侣,假如沦落成了一件勾心斗角的事一场保密与反保密犯错与抓错的战争,那么爱情有什么意思?
78. Love should be a happy thing, and a lover should be a trusted companion. If it becomes a scheming and secretive battle, a war of deception and catching each other’s mistakes, what’s the point of love?

79.爱情本是个不等式,没有谁可以预见感情天平的哪一端会重些,哪一端又会轻些。但是爱情就是这样,如果你没有勇气去尝试,那就注定只有陪伴自己孤寂的灵魂。
79. Love is an inequality, and no one can predict which side of the emotional scale will be heavier and which lighter. But love is like this; if you don’t have the courage to try, you’re destined to only keep your lonely soul company.

80.婚姻是不可捉摸在于:一个乐观的男人加上一个乐观的女人,有时等于两个悲观主义者。
80. Marriage is unpredictable because an optimistic man plus an optimistic woman sometimes equals two pessimists.

81.女人在一次次的恋爱中知道男人是什么东西,男人在一次次的恋爱中知道女人要什么东西。
81. In each relationship, women learn what men are like, while men learn what women want.

82.公交分钟一班,地铁分钟一班,我们的爱,一辈子只有这一班!
82. Buses come every minute, subways come every minute, our love is a once-in-a-lifetime ride!

83.为追求到我喜欢的人,我愿意放弃我所拥有的一切,可当我放弃这一切后,她还会接受我的爱吗?
83. To win the heart of the one I love, I am willing to give up everything I have. But would she still accept my love after I’ve given up everything?

84.生活,匀速的是爱,不匀速则变成一种伤害。
84. In life, love at a constant pace is beautiful, but uneven love becomes painful.

85.一段感情能给你带来多大痛苦,就曾给你带来过多大快乐。
85. The pain a relationship brings you is proportional to the joy it once brought.

86.你可以去爱一个女人,但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有女人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己,怎么能让别人爱你?
86. You can love a woman, but don’t risk everything for her. No woman is worth your life’s devotion. If you don’t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?

87.也许是错过了一次车,也许是在美景前多停留了一秒,最终我们真的相遇了。不得不承认,这是中注定的缘分。也许我们只是匆匆的过客,也许离别后永不相逢,但能够认识你,却使我欣喜万分。吧,最想忘却的将是最深的记忆。
87. Perhaps it was missing a bus, or lingering for an extra second in a beautiful scene; in the end, we truly met. We must admit, it was destined fate. Maybe we were just passing by, or never to meet again after parting, but knowing you has brought me immense joy.

88.你是一朵百合,散发出沁人心脾的芳香,我只想伫立在你的身旁,看着你呵护着你,用爱滋润着你,让你开得更娇艳,因为我只愿作你一生的园丁!
88. You are a lily, emitting a refreshing fragrance. I just want to stand by your side, watching over you and nurturing you with love, making you bloom even more beautifully, for I am content to be your gardener for life.

89.如果你们之间只是一种精神恋爱,你离开的时候可能还不会这么痛苦,但是如果你把身体也纠缠进去,那么你离开的时候,会是身心疲惫。
89. If your relationship is purely a spiritual one, the pain of parting might not be as great. However, if you become physically entangled, leaving will leave you emotionally and physically exhausted.

90.婚姻是一把伞。有了它,风雨烈日时自然舒适无比,但更多平平淡淡的天气里,多了一把伞难免是累赘。
90. Marriage is like an umbrella. It provides comfort during storms and scorching sun, but on ordinary days, an extra umbrella can be a burden.

91.在这城市里,我相信一定会有那麽一个人,想着同样的事情,怀着相似的频率,在某站寂寞的出口,安排好了与我相遇.
91. In this city, I believe there must be someone who thinks the same thoughts, feels the same emotions, and at some lonely exit, fate has arranged for us to meet.

92.用一转身离开,用一辈子去忘记。
92. Leaving with a single turn, forgetting takes a lifetime.

93.从美丽的邂逅到痴痴的相恋,从一见钟情的浪漫到生死相许的约定,匆匆而过的天,让一对男女仿佛经历了几年的爱情蜕变。
93. From a beautiful encounter to a loving obsession, from love at first sight to a promise of eternal commitment, fleeting days make a man and woman experience years of love’s transformation.

94.女人能够忍受不幸的婚姻,不能忍受不幸的爱情;男人能够忍受不幸的爱情,不能忍受不幸的婚姻。
94. Women can endure an unhappy marriage but not an unhappy love; men can endure an unhappy love but not an unhappy marriage.

95.风过花飞,斩不断的是对你无数的牵牵绊绊。没有人会知道,这种想念是如何的痛彻心肺,如何的将心彻底掏空,再无情的撕碎。你的身影总在心中飞,让我醉。
95. The wind blows and flowers fly, yet the countless attachments to you cannot be severed. No one knows the pain of this longing, how it empties the heart and mercilessly tears it apart. Your figure always flies in my heart, making me intoxicated.

96.痴情的人永远都抱着这样的想法:连我自己都被自己感动,她有什么理由不被我打动呢?但坚持不懈的追求只能证明你是一个坚持不懈的人,仅此而已。
96. Passionate people always think: If I can move myself, why can’t I move her? But persistent pursuit only proves that you are a persistent person, nothing more.

97.只能指望黑夜快点过去,等到白天,我那点没有希望的挂念就可以蜷缩在心底不为人知的角落,可以暂时不痛,我的那点爱情是怕光的。爱,不受时间的限制。真不忍心,提起苦涩的过去,尽管婆娑的夜晚一如从前美丽,但我的心却失去了平衡。到现在也想不通,我曾那样深深的恋着你,你却非要和我分离?记忆啊,你为什么不和时光一块流去?
97. I can only hope for the night to pass quickly, so that during the day, my hopeless longing can curl up in an unknown corner of my heart, temporarily painless. My love is afraid of light. Love is not bound by time. I am reluctant to mention the bitter past, even though the night is still as beautiful as before, my heart has lost its balance. I still can’t understand why you insisted on parting from me, when I loved you so deeply? Memory, why don’t you flow away with time?

98.最痛苦的就是分手以后。之所以痛苦,就是因为我曾深深地爱过你。多少年以后,仍深深地记起你,你的笑靥起伏难平。思念是一首不老的歌,不能忘记的是那只黄雀,还是那场冷雨?品味一下当年在高粱地里那些天真的游戏,不觉哈哈大笑,其实,分手又未尝不是一种的记忆?
98. The most painful thing is after a breakup. The reason for the pain is because I once loved you deeply. Even after many years, I still remember you deeply, the undulating smile on your face. Longing is an immortal song, can’t forget whether it’s that yellow sparrow or that cold rain? Savor the innocent games in the sorghum field back then, and you can’t help but laugh. In fact, a breakup is also a kind of memory, isn’t it?

99.那些美丽的小鱼,它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情,亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。
99. Those beautiful little fish, they sleep with their eyes open. They don’t need love, and they never cry. They are my role models.

100.爱情真的很短暂,象烟花是最美最真实的比喻,只是呼啸着冲上天空的一刹那,而后变成习惯,最后变成亲情,失恋后痛的感觉因为你不能改掉一个习惯,不能拒绝最原始的亲情。
100. Love is really short-lived, like fireworks, which is the most beautiful and truest metaphor. It’s just the moment when it whooshes up into the sky, and then turns into a habit, and finally into a kinship. The pain after a breakup is because you can’t change a habit, and you can’t refuse the most primitive kinship.

1.如果背叛是一种勇气,那么接受背叛则需要一种更大的勇气。前者只需要有足够的勇敢就可以,又或许只是一时冲动,而后者考验的却是宽容的程度,绝非冲动那么简单,需要的唯有时间。
1. If betrayal is a kind of courage, then accepting betrayal requires an even greater courage. The former only needs enough bravery, or perhaps just a moment of impulse, while the latter tests the degree of tolerance, which is by no means as simple as impulse, and what it takes is only time.

2.在我们已经拥有了一份属于自己的爱情以后,有时候会遇上一个让自己非常心动的人,甚至是彼此仰慕的人。这时候,其实你已经站在了悬崖边上,千万不要去碰触暧昧,否则,到时候受伤的,可能就不止某一个人。
2. After we have already possessed a love that belongs to us, sometimes we meet someone who makes us very excited, or even someone we admire each other. At this time, you have actually stood on the edge of a cliff, so don’t touch ambiguity, otherwise, when the time comes, the injured may not be just one person.

3.你可以去爱一个女人,但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有女人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己,怎么能让别人爱你?
3. You can love a woman, but don’t bet everything on her. No woman is worth pleasing with your life. If you don’t love yourself, how can others love you?

4.繁华落尽,乱世成殇。人生似列车,几经周转,穿行了多少过往。世人都是过客,到了青春驿站,转身何去何从?时光的剪影里,惆怅了多少往事?泪湿了谁的眼角?氤氲着谁的心碎?伸手似乎还能触摸到往日的温度,暮然回首你已不在灯火阑珊处。
4. When the prosperity fades, the chaotic world becomes a sorrow. Life is like a train, passing through several transfers, traveling through countless pasts. Everyone is a passerby, when they arrive at the youth station, where will they turn? In the silhouette of time, how many past events are melancholic? Whose eyes are wet with tears? Whose heart is filled with sorrow? It seems that you can still touch the temperature of the past, but when you look back suddenly, you are no longer in the dimly lit place.

5.爱情是世界上最美好的东西,即使它伤了你的心,也要笑着忘却,然后开始下一段旅程。
5. Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, even if it breaks your heart, you should forget it with a smile, and then start the next journey.

6.幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题,成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题。成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
6. There is no problem when immature people are together, and there is no problem when mature people are together. When mature people and immature people are together, there will be many problems.

7.如果只是相遇,而不能相守,人生最好不相见。
7. If it’s just a meeting and not a commitment, it’s better not to meet in life.

8.”我一直以为山是水的故事,云是风的故事,你是我的故事,可是却不知道,我是不是你的故事”。
8. “I always thought that the mountain is the story of the water, the cloud is the story of the wind, you are my story, but I don’t know if I am your story.”

9.长大后,这个社会教会了我,没心没肺,没感觉,不痒不疼,不在乎。
9. As I grew up, society taught me to be heartless, insensitive, not itchy or painful, and not to care.

10.谁的寂寞覆我华裳,谁的华裳覆我肩膀。
10. Whose loneliness covers my gorgeous gown, and whose gown covers my shoulders?

11.经不住似水流年,逃不过此间少年。
11. Unable to withstand the passing years, unable to escape the youth of this place.

12.幸福,就是找一个温暖的人过一辈子。
12. Happiness is finding a warm person to spend a lifetime with.

13.每个人身上都有一口泉眼,不断喷涌出生命活力爱情。如果不为它挖沟疏导,它就会把周围的土地变成沼泽。—马克.拉瑟福德
13. Everyone has a fountain on their body, constantly gushing out the vitality of life and love. If you don’t dig a canal to guide it, it will turn the surrounding land into a swamp. - Mark L. Rutherford

14.爱情是一片炽热狂迷的痴心,一团无法扑灭的烈火,一种永不满足的欲望,一分如糖似蜜的喜悦,一阵如痴如醉的疯狂,一种没有安宁的劳苦和没有劳苦的安宁。
14. Love is a burning obsession, an uncontrollable fire, an insatiable desire, a joy as sweet as sugar and honey, a madness of intoxication, a restless toil and a peace without toil.

15.爱情需要合理的内容,正像熊熊烈火要油来维持一样;爱情是两个相似的天性在无限感觉中的和谐的交融。—别林斯基
15. Love requires a rational basis, just as a raging fire needs oil to sustain it; love is the harmonious blending of two similar natures in an infinite range of feelings. - Belinsky

16.爱情本来应该是件快乐的事,爱人本来是个信任的伴侣,假如沦落成了一件勾心斗角的事一场保密与反保密犯错与抓错的战争,那么爱情有什么意思?
16. Love should originally be a happy thing, and a lover should be a trusted partner. If it degenerates into a scheming, secretive battle of deception and fault-finding, what’s the point of love?

17.爱情扎根于平凡小事之中。那种不经意的天然流露,揭示的正是爱的真谛。短暂的会很浪漫,漫长了就会带来不满,青春即将失去,得到的会不会有一份无奈?爱情不停站,想开往地老天荒,真的、真的需要很大的勇气。
17. Love is rooted in ordinary little things. Those unintentional natural expressions reveal the true meaning of love. While short-term love can be romantic, long-term love may bring dissatisfaction. As youth fades away, will what we gain be accompanied by a sense of helplessness? Love never stops, and to embark on a journey to the end of time truly requires great courage.

18.离开和结束或者继续,是人生不断上演的戏,身边的人来了又走了,有些事情注定要离开,有些事情注定留不住,有些人注定不属于自己,当我们习惯了这一切的悲欢离合或许就不会再悲伤,不习惯的时候可以蹲下自己抱抱自己,那是自己给自己一个不孤单的拥抱。
18. Departures, endings, or continuations are the constant plays in life. People come and go around us. Some things are destined to leave, some things cannot be held onto, and some people are not meant for us. When we get used to all the joys and sorrows of these separations and reunions, perhaps we will no longer feel sad. When we are not used to it, we can squat down and hug ourselves, giving ourselves a hug that is not lonely.

19.为什么我们总是不懂得珍惜眼前人?在未来预知的重逢里,我们以为总会重逢,总有缘再会,总以为有机会说一声对不起,却从没有想过每一次挥手道别都可能是诀别,每一声叹息,都可能是人间最后的一声叹息。
19. Why don’t we always cherish the people in front of us? In the foreseeable future, we think there will always be reunions, chances to meet again, and opportunities to say sorry. However, we never consider that each wave of farewell could be a final goodbye, and each sigh could be the last one in the world.

20.每个人这辈子,心中都有过这么一个特别的朋友,很矛盾的行为。一开始你不甘心只做朋友的,时间久了,突然发现这样最好。你宁愿这样关心他(她),总好过你们在一起而有天会分手。你宁愿做他(她)的朋友,彼此不会吃醋,才可以真的无所不谈。这种友谊不低于爱情,这样的关系俗称:知已!
20. In everyone’s life, there is a special friend who behaves in a contradictory manner. At first, you are not willing to just be friends, but as time goes by, you suddenly realize that this is the best way. You would rather care for him (her) like this, which is better than being together and eventually breaking up. You would rather be his (her) friend, without jealousy, and truly have a heart-to-heart conversation. This kind of friendship is not inferior to love, and such a relationship is commonly known as: a confidant!

21.男生对女生说:我是最棒的,我保证让你幸福,跟我好吧。——这是推销。男生对女生说:我老爹有3处房子,跟我好,以后都是你的。——这是促销。男生根本不对女生表白,但女生被男生的气质和风度所迷倒。——这是营销。女生不认识男生,但她的所有朋友都对那个男生夸赞不已。——这是品牌!
21. When a guy says to a girl: “I’m the best, I promise to make you happy, be with me.” - This is selling. When a guy says to a girl: “My father has three houses, be with me, and they will all be yours in the future.” - This is promoting. When a guy doesn’t confess to a girl, but she is captivated by his temperament and demeanor. - This is marketing. When a girl doesn’t know a guy, but all her friends praise him. - This is branding!

22.世界上有两件事最难:一是把自己的思想装进别人的脑袋里;二是把别人的钱装进自己的口袋里。前者成功了叫老师,后者成功了叫老板,两者都成功了叫老婆。跟老师斗是不想学了,跟老板斗是不想混了,跟老婆斗是不想活了。所以男人就应该听老妈话,跟老婆走,别再拉别人“温暖的手”,以防将来成祸首。
22. There are two hardest things in the world: one is to put your thoughts into someone else’s mind; the other is to put someone else’s money into your pocket. If the former succeeds, you are called a teacher; if the latter succeeds, you are called a boss; if both succeed, you are called a wife. Arguing with a teacher means you don’t want to learn anymore, arguing with a boss means you don’t want to work anymore, and arguing with a wife means you don’t want to live anymore. So men should listen to their mothers, follow their wives, and stop holding other people’s “warm hands” to prevent future troubles.

23.不管这一生你怎样的荒唐,下一世我一定会变成你想要的模样。让你履行这一世你曾对我说过的誓言。站在寒冷街头等你来牵我的手。决不再放你走。此生我给你自由,来世记得给我幸福。
23. No matter how absurd your life is in this world, in the next life, I will definitely become the person you want me to be. I will fulfill the promises you made to me in this life. I will stand on the cold street waiting for you to hold my hand and never let you go again. In this life, I give you freedom; in the next life, remember to give me happiness.

24.一个单纯的人有两种表现:太容易相信一个人;太容易怀疑一个人。
24. A simple person has two manifestations: either too easy to believe in someone or too easy to doubt someone.

25.如果你懂:我微笑时,只要握紧我的手,对我微笑就够了;我哭泣时,只要借我一个肩膀,静静陪我就够了;我委屈时,只要给我怀抱,让我只在你面前脆弱就够了;我任性时,要包容,因为是你,所以我才对你任性。全世界都可以不懂,如果你也不懂,我还有什么话可说。
25. If you understand: when I smile, just hold my hand tightly and smile back at me; when I cry, just lend me a shoulder and quietly accompany me; when I feel wronged, just give me a hug and let me be vulnerable only in front of you; when I’m willful, be tolerant, because it’s you, and that’s why I’m willful with you. The whole world can not understand, but if you don’t understand either, what else is there for me to say?

26.我不相信天长地久的爱情,因为我不知道天长地久是多久?我不相信永远,因为我无法计算永远的时间有多长。但是我真的相信世间有真爱,当两颗相爱的心连在了一起,他们的爱会与天地共存,与生命同老,他们会牵手到白头,不离不弃,幸福终老。原来,这样的爱才是一辈子。
26. I don’t believe in everlasting love, because I don’t know how long “forever” is. I don’t believe in “always,” because I can’t calculate how long “always” lasts. But I truly believe there is true love in this world. When two loving hearts are connected, their love will exist with the heavens and earth, grow old with life, hold hands until white hair, and never leave each other, living happily ever after. It turns out that this kind of love is a lifetime.

27.回望,情思尽藏,此生勿思量,痴心已惘,莫回首,别尽情愁,巧弄凄凉,情泪轻藏.勿生情,道完哀伤,相思千千结,恰做两离别.揽不尽,卿之柔情如雨,前尘不解缘续,别是风情种种.却是奈何,流水偏无意,伤自难独合,深情难述,望断天涯路,看不及失落,咫尺着寂寞…
27. Looking back, emotions hidden, don’t ponder in this life, foolish heart already lost, don’t look back, don’t indulge in sorrow, skillfully play with desolation, hide tears lightly. Don’t give birth to emotions, finish expressing grief, countless knots of longing, just as two separate. Can’t embrace, your tenderness like rain, past lives not understanding the continuation of fate, various romantic situations. But alas, the flowing water has no intention, injury is hard to bear alone, deep feelings are hard to express, looking into the endless road, unable to see the loss, inches away from loneliness…

28.一个人走,一个人睡,一个人思索,一个人沉醉。一个人忙,一个人累,一个人烦躁,一个人体会。从希望到绝望,盼望到失望。从梦想到狂想,妄想到别想。我需要的其实并不多。难过时一句安慰,得意时一句赞扬,累了有一个肩膀靠,伤心了有一个温柔的怀抱。其实,我的幸福就这么简单。
28. Walking alone, sleeping alone, thinking alone, getting intoxicated alone. Busy alone, tired alone, agitated alone, experiencing alone. From hope to despair, longing to disappointment. From dreams to delusions, fantasies to separation. What I need is not much. A word of comfort when I’m sad, a word of praise when I’m proud, a shoulder to lean on when I’m tired, a gentle embrace when I’m heartbroken. In fact, my happiness is just that simple.

29.欲相守,难相望,人各天涯愁断肠;爱易逝,恨亦长,灯火阑珊人彷徨;行千山,涉万水,相思路上泪两行;春花开,秋叶落,繁华过后留残香;酒意浓,心亦醉,罗衫轻袖舞飞扬;思秋水,念伊人,咫尺天涯媲鸳鸯;前世情,今生债,红尘轮回梦一场。
29. Desire to be together, difficult to gaze upon, people each in their own world, heartbroken; love is fleeting, hate is long, wandering in the dimly lit lanterns; crossing thousands of mountains, traversing ten thousand rivers, tears on the road of longing; spring flowers bloom, autumn leaves fall, leaving a fragrance after the prosperity; wine is strong, heart is intoxicated, dancing with light sleeves; thinking of autumn waters, missing you, as close as a mandarin duck in a world apart; past life’s love, this life’s debt, a dream of reincarnation in the red dust.

30.心事惆怅,无处回想…空断肠,淡看繁花碎碎落,一秋思量,半世忧伤,谁可解,我恋你痴狂!相思飘摇,何处寄思量?寞哀伤,静看春花夏夜谢,三生知己,今世相离,谁懂我,忆你容颜如玉…黯然忧伤,自痴想,半世癫狂,期待渐苍凉,伊人不恋,终成失望…若是往昔,愿不见,愿不往,或是不殇…
30. Melancholic heart, nowhere to reminisce… Broken heart, lightly watching the scattered flowers, a lifetime of pondering, half a lifetime of sadness, who can understand, my infatuation with you! Drifting longing, where to send my thoughts? Lonely and sad, quietly watching the spring flowers and summer nights fade, three lifetimes of confidants, separated in this life, who understands me, remembering your face like jade… Gloomy sadness, lost in thoughts, half a lifetime of madness, waiting gradually turns cold, she doesn’t love, and eventually becomes disappointment… If in the past, I wish not to see, not to go, or not to be hurt…

31.蝶恋天涯,迁移一季,守望一季,对影两相弃,爱不为情生,璨璨泪雨下,只缘感君一回顾,使我思君朝与暮.终是谁使弦断,花落肩头,恍惚迷离,重叙旧缘,物是人非曲空传,独自忆当年。再相逢,记忆远,悲喜尤在心已换,何日旧梦圆,转身,一缕冷香远,逝雪深,笑意浅。来世你渡我,可愿?
31. Butterfly in love with the horizon, migrating for a season, watching for a season, abandoned by each other’s shadows, love not born for emotions, bright tears falling, just because of your glance back, making me think of you from morning to night. In the end, who made the strings break, flowers falling on the shoulder, dazed and confused, resuming the old love, things are the same but people have changed, the song is empty and passed on, alone remembering the past. When we meet again, memories are far away, joys and sorrows still in my heart, when will the old dream come true, turn around, a wisp of cold fragrance, deep snow, shallow smile. In the afterlife, will you help me across, are you willing?

32.多少人在说我会等你:等你回心转意的那一天;我会等你,等你愿意和我在一起的那一天;我会等你,等你离开那个人来到我身边的那一天;我会等你……然而人们可曾知道,世上的爱情,没有几份真的经的起等待!
32. How many people say I will wait for you: the day you change your mind; I will wait for you, the day you are willing to be with me; I will wait for you, the day you leave that person and come to me; I will wait for you… However, do people know that in this world, few love stories can truly withstand the test of time!

33.清风舞明月,幽梦落花间。一梦醒来,两眉间,相思尽染。只身天涯,独醉贪欢。揪心思绪无边无沿。独依窗前,任风吹,看花落,黄花树下,你是否又在轻拂玉笛,醉拔情弦?遥望千年,繁华散尽,我却痴心未改。可惜几度徘徊,走不出的,仍是那梦里花间的蜜语甜言。
33. The gentle breeze dances with the bright moon, and the deep dreams fall among the flowers. Upon waking from a dream, the longing has stained the brows. Alone in the world, indulging in pleasure. The endless, heart-wrenching thoughts. Leaning against the window, letting the wind blow, watching the flowers fall, under the yellow flower tree, are you playing the jade flute and touching the strings of love? Gazing into the thousand years, the prosperity fades, but my infatuation remains unchanged. Unfortunately, after wandering back and forth, I still cannot escape the sweet whispers in the dream among the flowers.

34.世界上有许多出色的男人和美丽的女人,然而属于你的感情只有一个,千万不要因为别人的眼光而改变自己的挚爱,千万别活在别人的眼里而失去自己,也永远不要太贪心。
34. There are many outstanding men and beautiful women in the world, but there is only one love that belongs to you. Never change your true love because of others’ opinions, never live in others’ eyes and lose yourself, and never be too greedy.

35.男人最大的秘密往往告诉红颜知己,不是同性家人或妻子。当红颜知己成了妻子,她的这部分权力马上被取消了。
35. Men often tell their biggest secrets to their confidantes, not to their family members or wives of the same sex. When a confidante becomes a wife, her right to know these secrets is immediately revoked.

36.我很忙!听到这句话时,朋友心想这哥们儿事业有成;妻子马上觉得自己家务的担子重了;女朋友则开始担心自己在他心目中的位置,甚至可以理解成一个分手的信号或借口。
36. I’m busy! Upon hearing this, friends think this guy is successful in his career; the wife immediately feels the burden of housework has increased; the girlfriend starts to worry about her position in his heart, and can even interpret it as a signal or excuse for breaking up.

37.很多时候,我们说放下了,其实并没有真的放下,我们只是假装很幸福,然后在寂静的角落里孤独地抚摸伤痕。
37. Many times, when we say we have let go, we haven’t really let go. We just pretend to be happy and then touch our wounds alone in the quiet corners.

38.人生就像弈棋,一步失误,全盘皆输,这是令人悲哀之事;而且人生还不如弈棋,不可能再来一局,也不能悔棋。
38. Life is like a game of chess; one mistake, and the whole game is lost. This is a sad thing; and life is not even like chess, as it cannot be replayed, nor can we take back our moves.

39.爱情是自由自在的,而自由自在的爱情是最真切的。
39. Love is free and unfettered, and the most genuine love is the one that is free and unfettered.

40.看着别人的故事,流着自己的眼泪。
40. Watching other people’s stories, shedding our own tears.

41.一个人只要不再想要,就什么都可以放下。
41. If a person no longer desires something, they can let go of anything.

42.不要说不在乎,那不过是掩饰。真正的不在乎,是什么也不说,就这样让一切过去;就是张着眼睛,注视着它,慢慢流过,你也无动于衷;就是它再刺激你,你也不为所动。就是痛苦,就是伤悲,就是留恋,从此你都不会再想起。所以,在不在乎,和有没有说出来无关,在心上在脸上在时间上!
42. Don’t say you don’t care; that’s just a cover-up. True indifference is not saying anything and letting everything pass by; it’s watching it with open eyes, slowly flowing by, and remaining indifferent; it’s not being moved even when it stimulates you again. It’s pain, sadness, and longing, and from then on, you will never think of it again. So, whether you care or not is unrelated to whether you have said it or not; it lies in the heart, on the face, and in time!

43.两个人吵架,先说对不起的人并不是认输了,并不是原谅了。他只是比对方,更珍惜这份感情。爱,不是寻找一个完美的人,而是学会用完美的眼光,欣赏一个不完美的人。专一不是一辈子只喜欢一个人,是喜欢一个人的时候一心一意。
43. When a couple argues, the one who says sorry first is not admitting defeat or forgiveness. They just cherish the relationship more than the other person. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect perspective. Being devoted does not mean liking only one person in a lifetime, but being wholehearted when you like someone.

44.爱情,从我们心里流出来,一路陪着,如同年年岁岁的花儿,开了谢,谢了开,直到生命的尽头。无爱时,好想爱;爱久时,好想逃。在爱的剧情里,我似乎永远只是个杯具。因为主动久了会很累,在乎久了会崩溃,沉默久了会受罪,想念久了会流泪。
44. Love flows from our hearts, accompanying us all the way, like the flowers that bloom and wither year after year, until the end of our lives. When there is no love, we long for it; when love lasts long, we want to escape. In the drama of love, I always seem to be just a tragedy. Because taking the ini

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