1.每个人的性格中，都有某些无法让人接受的部分再美好的人也一样。所以不要苛求别人，不要埋怨自己。玫瑰有刺，才会是玫瑰。
1. In everyone’s personality, there are certain parts that are hard to accept, even for the most wonderful people. So don’t be demanding of others, and don’t blame yourself. A rose has thorns, and that’s what makes it a rose.

2.我们总是喜欢拿“顺其自然”来敷衍人生道路上的荆棘坎坷，很少承认，真正的顺其自然，其实是竭尽所能之后的不强求，而非两手一摊的不作为。
2. We always like to use “going with the flow” to gloss over the thorns and bumps on the road of life, rarely admitting that true going with the flow is actually not forcing things after doing our best, rather than simply giving up with a shrug.

3.生活的累，一半源于生存，一半来自攀比。很多时候我们不是为自己活着，而是为“面子”而活。人的烦恼，多数并非缺少什么而不满足，而是因为“别人比自己好”的不平衡。所以，我们要学会用知足的心态面对生活，明白每个人的幸福各不相同。
3. The tiredness of life comes half from survival and half from comparison. Many times, we don’t live for ourselves, but for “face”. Most of our troubles are not due to a lack of something, but because of the imbalance caused by “others being better than ourselves”. Therefore, we should learn to face life with a contented attitude, understanding that everyone’s happiness is different.

4.昨天越来越多，明天越来越少。走过的路长了，遇见的人多了，不经意间发现，人生最曼妙的风景是内心的淡定与从容，头脑的睿智与清醒。
4. The more yesterdays we have, the fewer tomorrows we have left. As the road we’ve walked becomes longer and the people we’ve met become more numerous, we inadvertently discover that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and composure within our hearts, and the wisdom and clarity in our minds.

5.被人误解很正常，哪怕是你最亲的人。不要总盼着别人跟你想到一起，毕竟心不同，想法就不一样。出现矛盾时，不妨一笑而过，相信时间是最好的磨合剂。
5. It’s normal to be misunderstood, even by your closest ones. Don’t always expect others to think the same way as you do, after all, different hearts have different thoughts. When conflicts arise, it’s better to just smile and let it go, trusting that time is the best lubricant.

6.执着是一种负担，放弃是一种解脱。人没有完美，幸福没有一百分，不能拥有那么多，何必要求那么多。
6. Persistence is a burden, and giving up is a relief. No one is perfect, and happiness isn’t 100%; we can’t have it all, so why demand so much?

7.如果你没有尽力，你没有资格批评别人不小心。抱怨很容易，但是闭嘴和努力工作的人应该得到更多的尊重。
7. If you haven’t tried your best, you have no right to criticize others for being careless. Complaining is easy, but those who keep quiet and work hard deserve more respect.

8.人们天生就有坏习惯。他们总是喜欢与别人比较，看谁比自己好，谁比自己差。事实上，你的烦恼和悲伤的底部绝不是别人的痛苦和痛苦，而是你自己的态度。
8. People are born with bad habits. They always like to compare themselves with others, to see who is better or worse. In fact, the root of your troubles and sorrows is not the pain and suffering of others, but your own attitude.

9.不喜欢的就不要假装，不适合的就不要勉强，生活已经那么不容易了，何必再辛苦自己；不要因为寂寞，随便找一个人。为了这一时的陪伴，在以后的日子可能不只有寂寞，还有痛苦。
9. Don’t pretend to like things you don’t, and don’t force yourself into situations you’re not suited for. Life is already hard enough; why make it harder for yourself? Don’t just find someone to be with because of loneliness. For this momentary companionship, your future may hold not only loneliness, but also pain.

10.错爱，就像一双鞋。喜欢却不适合，穿了脚疼，扔了心疼，要是你，会继续穿，还是扔掉；遇见的人多了，你才会明白哪些人值得用生命去珍惜，而一些人只适合绕道而行。
10. Loving the wrong person is like a pair of shoes. You like them but they don’t fit; wearing them hurts your feet, but throwing them away hurts your heart. If you were in this situation, would you continue to wear them or just throw them away? As you meet more people, you’ll understand who is worth cherishing with your life, and who is better off avoided.

11.想你的时候，我强迫自我喝下一整瓶的酒，把自我放倒，让思维停止，让思念停止，可醒来后，想你的梦依旧在延续；如果一个人，就这样生活：可以孤单，但不许孤独。可以寂寞，但不许空虚。可以消沉，但不许堕落。可以失望，但不许放弃。记住，没有伞的孩子必须努力奔跑。
11. When I miss you, I force myself to drink an entire bottle of wine, to pass out, to stop thinking, to stop missing you, but when I wake up, the dream of missing you still continues. If you are alone, live like this: you can be lonely, but not alone. You can be bored, but not empty. You can be depressed, but not fall. You can be disappointed, but not give up. Remember, children without umbrellas must run hard.

12.要真正快乐，人要变得既不聪明也不愚蠢。人们把这种介于聪明和傻之间的状态叫做生活的智慧。
12. To be truly happy, one must be neither too smart nor too foolish. People call this state between intelligence and foolishness the wisdom of life.

13.谁都有底线，但要懂得把握，大事重原则，小事有分寸，不讲情面难得别人支持，过分虚伪亦让人避而远之。
13. Everyone has a bottom line, but it’s important to know how to grasp it. Focus on principles for major issues and be measured for minor ones. Not showing mercy is hard to gain others’ support, and being overly hypocritical will drive people away.

14.合适的人生位置，既不靠近钱，也不靠近权，而是靠近灵魂；真正的幸福，既不是富贵，也不是凡事都对，而是问心无愧。
14. The right position in life is neither close to money nor power, but close to the soul. True happiness is neither wealth nor always being right, but having a clear conscience.

15.一个人的自愈的能力越强，才越有可能接近幸福。做一个寡万，却心有一片海的人，不伤人害己，于淡泊中，平和自在。
15. The stronger a person’s ability to heal themselves, the more likely they are to approach happiness. Be a person of few desires, yet with a vast inner world, causing no harm to others or yourself, and find peace and contentment in simplicity.

16.生活总是这样，不能叫人处处都满意。但我们还要热情地活下去。人活一生，值得爱的东西很多，不要因为一个不满意，就灰心。
16. Life is always like this, not satisfying everywhere. But we must still live passionately. There are many things worth loving in life; don’t lose heart just because of one dissatisfaction.

17.长大后才发现，有时你说了真话，你还得和人家道歉，因为你戳穿了事实。所以想要活得顺畅，请时刻带上脑子。
17. Only when you grow up do you realize that sometimes, even when you tell the truth, you have to apologize because you’ve exposed the facts. To live smoothly, always keep your wits about you.

18.缘分就得：该走走，该留留，今后一律不强求！生活就得：该吃吃，该喝喝，破事别往心里搁！人生就得：该丢丢，该捡捡，没有舍哪来的得！活着就得：该玩玩，该乐乐，怎么开心怎么过！
18. In matters of fate: let go when it’s time to let go, stay when it’s time to stay, and never force anything in the future! In life: eat when you should eat, drink when you should drink, and don’t dwell on trivial matters! In life: discard when you should discard, pick up when you should pick up, for without giving up, there’s no gain! To live: play when you should play, be happy when you should be happy, and live as happily as possible!

19.其实，没有什么东西是不能放手的。时日渐远，当你回望，你会发现，你曾经以为不可以放手东西，只是生命里的一块跳板，令你成长。
19. In fact, there’s nothing that cannot be let go. As time passes, when you look back, you’ll find that the things you once thought you couldn’t let go of were just stepping stones in life, helping you grow.

20.幸福的秘诀，不在于拥有多少必需的东西，而在于能从不需要的物件中获得多少自由。寻求幸福的方法就在我们心中。需要一个，就只拿一个。拿了两个，连最初拥有的感动也会失去。
20. The secret to happiness lies not in having many essential things, but in the freedom gained from unnecessary possessions. The method to seek happiness is within our hearts. If you need one, take only one. If you take two, even the initial joy of possessing it will be lost.

21.有些人看起来整天面带笑容，并不是因为他们事事顺利，只是他们比你敢于面对问题、善于遗忘不幸、勇于拥抱未来。
21. Some people seem to be smiling all day, not because everything is going well for them, but because they are braver in facing problems, better at forgetting misfortune, and more courageous in embracing the future.

22.当你还没强大到一定程度，没必要到处抱怨你的处境，默默做好你该做的事情，等你变得足够好，自然会有配得上你的人，拉你进更好的圈子，到那时，你会站在新的高度，拥抱更美的风景。
22. When you are not strong enough, there’s no need to complain about your situation everywhere. Just do your best quietly, and when you become good enough, you’ll naturally find people who deserve you and pull you into a better circle. At that time, you’ll stand at a new height and embrace a more beautiful view.

23.别试图去给年轻人讲经验，讲一万句不如你自己摔一跤，眼泪教你做人，后悔帮你成长，疼痛才是最好的老师，人生该走的弯路，其实一米都少不了。
23. Don’t try to teach young people experience; a thousand words are not as good as one fall. Tears teach you how to be a person, regret helps you grow, and pain is the best teacher. The detours in life must be taken, and not a single meter can be skipped.

24.后来才知道，和不同的人说不同的话，表现出不一样的态度，是一种非常可贵的能力，而不是虚伪。
24. Later, you’ll realize that speaking differently to different people and showing different attitudes is a very valuable ability, not hypocrisy.

25.别人恭维你时，偷偷高兴一下就可以了，但不可当真，因为那十有八九是哄你的；别人批评你時，稍稍不开心一下就可以了，但不可生气，因为那十有八九是真的。
25. When others flatter you, be secretly happy for a moment, but don’t take it seriously, because most of the time, it’s just to please you; when others criticize you, be slightly unhappy for a moment, but don’t get angry, because most of the time, it’s true.

26.你生活在别人的眼神里，就迷失在自己的心路上。你永远无法满足所有人，不必为了取悦这个世界而扭曲自己。
26. If you live in the eyes of others, you’ll lose your way in your own heart. You can never satisfy everyone, so don’t twist yourself just to please the world.

27.别总因为迁就别人就委屈自己，这个世界没几个人值得你总弯腰。事情都有度，低调过度会被认为低能，好人过度会被认为贱人。
27. Don’t always compromise yourself just to accommodate others; there are few people in this world who deserve your constant bending. Everything has a limit; being too low-key can be seen as incompetence, and being too nice can be seen as worthlessness.

28.和聪明人交流，和靠谱的人恋爱，和积极的人共事，和幽默的人随行。人生若能如此，就是最大的幸福。
28. Communicate with smart people, fall in love with reliable people, work with positive people, and travel with humorous people. If life can be like this, it’s the greatest happiness.

29.多一点忍耐，就会少几次后悔。少几次翻脸，就多几个台阶。多几次听不见，就少几次庸人自扰。少撂几句狠话，就多一些余地。
29. A little more patience leads to fewer regrets. Fewer confrontations mean more opportunities. Listening less to others means fewer self-inflicted troubles. Not saying harsh words leaves more room for maneuver.

30.人越长大不一定越成熟，但一定会越固执。知人不评人，知理别争论。
30. Growing older doesn’t necessarily mean becoming more mature, but it does mean becoming more stubborn. Know people but don’t judge them; understand the truth but don’t argue.

31.前进的理由只要一个，后退的理由却有一百个。许多人整天找一百个理由证明他不是懦夫，却从不用一个理由去证明他是一勇士。
31. There’s only one reason to move forward, but a hundred reasons to back down. Many people spend their whole lives finding a hundred reasons to prove they are

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