1.凡是钱能解决的问题，就不是大问题。
1. Any problem that can be solved with money is not a big problem.

2.人的贪念就在于得到的太容易。
2. The greed of people lies in the fact that they get things too easily.

3.任何时候，利润都不可能实现最大化，当你在追求最高利润的时候，其实也就把自己的路给堵死了。我看，获得合理利润，就可以了嘛！
3. At any time, profits cannot be maximized. When you pursue the highest profits, you actually block your own way. I think, obtaining reasonable profits is enough!

4.“你呀！一看就是个成不了大事的主儿，鼠目寸光。人做事不是图短平快，也许你干十件，只有一件有好处，但就那一件，够你吃一辈子。做事的时候，先不要想着回报，有了这心态，你才能往高走。懂么？”
4. “You! You look like someone who can’t accomplish great things, with a short-sighted vision. People don’t do things for quick success. Maybe you do ten things, and only one of them brings benefits, but that one thing is enough for you to live on for a lifetime. When doing things, don’t think about the return first. With this mindset, you can go higher. Do you understand?”

5.会下围棋吗？围棋有一种说法呀，叫争先手，为了争先手呢，宁可放弃一些小的得失，重要的是大局。
5. Do you know how to play Go? There is a saying in Go, called “fighting for the initiative.” To fight for the initiative, you may have to give up some minor gains. What’s important is the overall situation.

6.现在的社会太现实太残酷了，没有人再认为亲情是重要的了。但我告诉你，凡是钱能解决的问题，就不是大问题。人这一辈子，有许多困扰是无法解决的，比方说生老病死，比方说众叛亲离，比方说勾心斗角，比方说不再相爱。所有的这一切，都比房子啊，钞票啊要严重得多。一个人可以背金钱的债，却不能背感情的债。背金钱的债你有还清的希望，而背了感情的债也许到死都会愧疚。
6. Nowadays, society is too realistic and cruel. No one thinks that family affection is important anymore. But let me tell you, any problem that can be solved with money is not a big problem. In this life, there are many troubles that cannot be solved, such as birth, aging, illness, and death, as well as betrayal, scheming, and no longer being in love. All of these are much more serious than houses or money. A person can owe money, but not emotional debts. You have hope of repaying money, but emotional debts may haunt you until death.

7.一个人的伟大，并不是说你为社会作出了多少贡献，你多有成就，而在你面对诱惑的时候，懂得放弃。
7. A person’s greatness is not about how much contribution you have made to society or how accomplished you are, but about knowing how to give up when faced with temptation.

8.当人选择了向上的阶梯之时，就要丢弃很多细枝末节。
8. When a person chooses to climb upwards, they must let go of many trivial matters.

9.人之所以慷慨，是因为他拥有的比挥霍的多，人把慷慨，当做一种赞美，但并不是每一个人都能做到这一点，尤其是对不相干的人。你跟小贝都没有错，错的是你们的阅历和你们的人生经历还没有让你们看穿这一点。
9. People are generous because they have more than they spend. Generosity is considered a compliment, but not everyone can achieve this, especially towards unrelated people. You and Xiao Bei are not wrong; it’s just that your experiences and life journeys have not yet allowed you to see through this point.

11.原本在光鲜亮丽的背后，就是褴褛衣衫。国际大都市就像是一个舞台，每个人都把焦点放在镁光灯照射的地方，观众所看到的，就是华美壮丽绚烂澎湃。对于光线照不到的角落，即便里面有灰尘，甚至有死耗子，谁会注意呢？
11. Behind the glamorous and bright side, there is always ragged clothing. A big international city is like a stage where everyone focuses on the spotlight, and the audience sees only the magnificent, splendid, and surging scene. As for the corners not illuminated by the light, even if there is dust or dead rats, who would pay attention?

12.关系这个东西啊，你就得常动。越动呢就越牵扯不清，越牵扯不清你就烂在锅里。要总是能分得清你我他，生分了。每一次，你都得花时间去摆平，要的就是经常欠。欠多了也就不愁了，他替你办一件是办，办十件还是办啊。等办到最后，他一见到你头就疼，那你就赢了，要风得风，要雨得雨。”
12. Relationships, you have to keep them active. The more you stir them up, the more entangled they become, and the more entangled they are, the more you are stuck in the pot. If you can always distinguish between you, me, and them, it becomes distant. Each time, you have to spend time to settle things, and what you want is to be in debt often. When you owe a lot, you don’t have to worry anymore. They will do one thing for you or ten things. In the end, when they see you, their head hurts, and then you have won. You can get whatever you want.”

13.我在替它（小蜗牛）担心啊，它这么慢，这么小，这么弱，需要在这个复杂的大千世界里按照自己的步调行走，随便谁一个无意的脚步都会把它踏扁了，我很舍不得。
13. I’m worried about it (the little snail). It’s so slow, small, and weak, and it needs to walk in this complex world at its own pace. Any unintentional step by others could crush it, and I can’t bear it.

14.其实你可以变一种活法，不走你姐姐的路，这个世界本来就是多样的，每个人都会在到自己的位置。
14. In fact, you can change your way of living and not follow your sister’s path. The world is diverse, and everyone will find their own place.

15.一个人可以背金钱的债，却不能背感情的债。背金钱的债你有还清的希望，而背了感情的债也许到死都会愧疚。
15. A person can owe money, but not emotional debts. You have hope of repaying money, but emotional debts may haunt you until death.

16.一个人的伟大，并不是说你为社会作出了多少贡献，你多有成就，而在你面对诱惑的时候，懂得放弃。
16. A person’s greatness is not about how much you have contributed to society or how accomplished you are, but about knowing how to give up when faced with temptation.

17.假如海藻出来，像一个惊慌的小白兔，四下环顾，我就悄悄尾随，给她披上我的风衣，在夜色的掩护下拉住她的手，义无反顾的走。
17. If seaweed comes out, like a panicked little white rabbit, looking around in all directions, I will quietly follow her, put my coat on her, and hold her hand under the cover of night, walking resolutely.

18.如果是因为有什么外力，超出了你的解决能力，告诉我，让我来帮助你。我年龄虚长你几岁，至少能帮你出出主意。相信我，这世上没有什么问题，是不能够商量的。
18. If there is some external force beyond your ability to solve, tell me and let me help you. I am a few years older than you and can at least offer some advice. Believe me, there is no problem in this world that cannot be discussed.

19.如果一个人对亲人都不顾，那还能指望他顾别的吗？
19. If a person does not care for their relatives, what else can we expect from them?

20.女人对红杏出墙的向往，就像每个男人渴望拥有一个处女，是无法抑制的念头。
20. A woman’s longing for an extramarital affair is like every man’s desire to possess a virgin, an uncontrollable thought.

21.爱一个人，就让她给你生个孩子，然后用我们两个的鲜血，浇灌这一朵花朵，这样我们永远都不会分开了。
21. If you love someone, let her give birth to a child for you, and then use the blood of both of us to nourish this flower, so that we will never be separated.

23.和我的女人讲话客气点……别那么大声！
23. Speak politely to my woman… don’t shout so loud!

24.每个男人都会犯的错，不过是走向中年对青春的羡慕，走向成功对仰慕的承受，走向人生之巅对幸福的又一次追求。
24. The mistakes every man makes are nothing more than envying youth in middle age, enduring admiration for success, and pursuing happiness once again at the peak of life.

25.你是我的脚踝……我唯一会受伤的地方，也是致命的地方。
25. You are my ankle… the only place where I can get hurt, and it is also a fatal spot.

26.金元跟大棒并用，恩威并重，必要的时候，还是压想点手段，总之呢，一定要快到斩乱麻，不要拖成鸡肋。房市这个东西，它可以让你一夜暴富，也可以让你瞬间赤贫。赶上大年了，败絮可以当黄金卖，赶上小年，黄金得按铜称。
26. Use both gold and the big stick, combining kindness and force, and when necessary, apply some pressure. In short, act quickly to resolve the mess and don’t let it drag on like a chicken’s ribs. The real estate market can make you rich overnight or leave you destitute in an instant. In prosperous years, trash can be sold as gold, and in lean years, gold is weighed like copper.

27.我希望能在物质上帮助你，并且最终让你获得精神上的快乐。
27. I hope to help you materially and ultimately bring you spiritual happiness.

28.现在的社会太现实太残酷了，没有人再认为亲情是重要的了。但我告诉你，凡是钱能解决的问题，就不是大问题。人这一辈子，有许多困扰是无法解决的，比方说生老病死，比方说众叛亲离，比方说勾心斗角，比方说不再相爱。所有的这一切，都比房子啊，钞票啊要严重得多。一个人可以背金钱的债，却不能背感情的债。背金钱的债你有还清的希望，而背了感情的债也许到死都会愧疚。
28. Today’s society is too realistic and cruel. No one believes that family affection is important anymore. But I tell you, any problem that can be solved with money is not a big problem. In this life, there are many troubles that cannot be solved, such as birth, aging, illness, and death, as well as betrayal, intrigue, and no longer being in love. All of these are far more serious than houses or money. One can owe money, but not emotional debts. You may have hope of repaying a financial debt, but an emotional debt may leave you feeling guilty until death.

29.每个男人都希望有辆陆虎，（抵得上海藻老板那奥迪的3倍有余），在城里呆久了，开着它在草原上驰骋、飞奔。
29. Every man dreams of owning a Land Rover (worth more than three times that of Guan’s Audi), and after living in the city for a long time, driving it to gallop and race across the grasslands.

30.精神要更强大一些，但通往精神的路很多，物质是其中一部分。
30. The spirit should be stronger, but there are many paths to the spirit, and material things are just one part of it.

31.就像是泰坦尼克号，船沉了，你可以再造，仿造，故事可以流传。但死的那些人呢？早都喂了海里的鱼虾了。 ——《蜗居》宋思明比喻烂尾楼可重获新生，但新生的主人往往不是以前的那个了
31. Just like the Titanic, the ship sank, but you can rebuild it, imitate it, and the story can be passed down. But what about the people who died? They have long been food for the fish and shrimp in the sea. —— Song Siming in “Snail House” compares the possibility of a revived abandoned building, but the new owner is often not the same as before.

32.如果时光可以倒流，我会带着你们过另一种生活，不要太多的钱，每天去菜场斤斤计较，为文、评职称而与人争得面红耳赤，也为女儿考不上好学校而心焦。也许，这样，才是一种幸福的生活，而我以前并没有意识到。
32. If time could turn back, I would lead you to a different kind of life, without too much money, haggling over every ounce at the market, arguing with others for literature and titles, and worrying about our daughter not getting into a good school. Perhaps this is the happy life I didn’t realize before.

33.在我看来，这世界上啊，没什么事情是不可商量的，总会有一把钥匙呢，把双方的门都打开，只是有时候，他们总爱把自己的钥匙像宝贝一样地藏起来，其实你不打开门让别人进来，你也出不去，我呢就是站在局外，找到这把钥匙，打开双方的门，给他们建一个通道，然后就各取所需……商人看起来很精明，其实很愚笨，他们的交易只是物换钱，钱换物，就像是单行道，而我是立交桥。
33. In my opinion, there is nothing in this world that cannot be negotiated. There is always a key that can open the doors of both parties. Sometimes, they just love to hide their keys like treasures. In fact, if you don’t open the door to let others in, you can’t get out either. I stand outside the situation, find this key, open the doors for both sides, build a passage for them, and then they can each take what they need… Merchants may seem shrewd, but they are actually very foolish. Their transactions are just exchanging goods for money and money for goods, like a one-way street, while I am an overpass.

34.人在江湖走，总会遇高手，做事情一定要善始善终，你既然答应了，你就得完成，你现在想把这一摊扔给谁？
34. When you walk in the world, you will always meet experts. You must finish what you have promised. Who do you want to leave this mess to now?

35.25岁未婚，前途无量！
35. 25 years old and unmarried, the future is boundless!

36.选择题做错，零分！
36. If you make a mistake on a multiple-choice question, you get zero points!

37.你怎么连犯罪的天赋都没有？不惜一切代价就是不惜一切代价，要么日后牢里见……
37. How can you not even have the talent for crime? “At all costs” means at all costs. Otherwise, see you in jail later…

38.精神要更强大一些，但通往精神的路很多，物质是其中一部分。
38. The spirit should be stronger, but there are many paths to the spirit. Material things are just a part of it.

40.一个人的伟大，并不是说你为社会作出了多少贡献，你多有成就，而在你面对诱惑的时候，懂得放弃。
40. A person’s greatness is not about how much contribution you have made to society or how accomplished you are, but about knowing how to give up when facing temptation.

41.爱她就让她为你生个孩子，然后用两个人的血浇灌同一棵花朵。这样，我们就永远不会分开了。
41. If you love her, let her have a child for you, and then water the same flower with the blood of both. In this way, we will never be apart.

42.只要是钱能解决的问题，就不是问题！
42. As long as money can solve the problem, it’s not a problem!

43.人之所以慷慨，是因为他拥有的比挥霍的多。人把慷慨当做一种赞美，但并不是每一个人，都能做到这一点，尤其是对不相干的人。
43. People are generous because they have more than they spend. People praise generosity, but not everyone can do it, especially for strangers.

44.现在的社会太现实太残酷了，没有人再认为亲情是重要的了。但我告诉你，凡是钱能解决的问题，就不是大问题。
44. Nowadays, society is too realistic and cruel. No one thinks family affection is important anymore. But I tell you, as long as money can solve the problem, it’s not a big problem.

45.你跟小贝都没有错，错的是你们的人生阅历和你们的人生经历，还没有让你们看穿这一点。
45. Neither you nor Xiaobei are wrong. It’s just that your life experiences and personal history haven’t allowed you to see through this point yet.

46.人的贪念就在于得到的太容易。
46. The root of human greed lies in getting things too easily.

47.每个男人都希望有辆陆虎，（抵得上海藻老板那奥迪的3倍有余），在城里呆久了，开着它在草原上驰骋、飞奔。
47. Every man dreams of having a Land Rover (worth more than three times the Audi of Guan’s boss), and after living in the city for a long time, driving it to gallop and run on the grasslands.

48.如果时光可以倒流，我会带着你们过另一种生活，不要太多的钱，每天去菜场斤斤计较，为文、评职称而与人争得面红耳赤，也为女儿考不上好学校而心焦。也许，这样，才是一种幸福的生活，而我以前并没有意识到。
48. If time could go back, I would lead you to a different kind of life, without too much money, haggling at the vegetable market every day, arguing with people for literature and titles, and worrying about our daughter not getting into a good school. Maybe this is a happy life, which I didn’t realize before.

49.你借钱的理由很充分，很打动我，给我一个机会，让我来帮你解决这个不算是烦恼的问题。
49. Your reason for borrowing money is very convincing and touching. Give me a chance to help you solve this problem that’s not really a worry.

50.我已经过了为钱烦恼的年龄了，钱对我来说只是一个工具，不是最终目的。我已经不需要金钱来装裱自己了，所以说钱对我没有什么根本意义。
50. I have already passed the age of worrying about money. Money is just a tool for me, not the ultimate goal. I don’t need money to decorate myself anymore, so money has no fundamental meaning to me.
蔡康永语录
Cai Kangyong’s Quotes

1.评判幸福与否的一个重要标准不是说是否能拥有什么，而是是否能拒绝什么。
1. An important criterion for judging happiness is not whether you can have something, but whether you can refuse something.

2.有时候，我伸出手去借一点这余烬的温暖，有时候，我用眼睛见证这余烬覆盖的繁华。
2. Sometimes, I reach out to borrow a little warmth from the dying embers; sometimes, I witness the prosperity covered by the dying embers with my eyes.

3.幸福感的一个标准，是可不可以常常保持对不喜欢的事情说不要。
3. A criterion for happiness is whether you can often say “no” to things you dislike.

4.你不必假装有深度，只要懂得欣赏别人的深度，已经是 一种美德了。
4. You don’t have to pretend to be profound; appreciating the depth of others is already a virtue.

5.人生没有信仰，既不可怜，也没有可骄傲的，只是没有这个需求罢了。
5. Having no faith in life is neither pitiful nor praiseworthy; it’s just a lack of that need.

6.有些人，我们把他留在回忆里，是为了要藉由他们，来怀念当时的自己。
6. Some people, we keep them in our memories to miss ourselves at that time through them.

7.你恋爱了，只是你爱的人，有时并不真的存在。他可能只是一堵无辜的白墙，被你狂热的，把你心里最嚮往的爱情电影，全部在他身上投影一遍。
7. You’re in love, but the person you love may not really exist. They might just be an innocent white wall, on which you project all your most yearned-for love movies狂热地.

8.容易发怒的意思就是：别人做了蠢事，然后我们代替他们，表现出笨蛋的样子。
8. Being easily angered means: someone does a stupid thing, and then we take their place and act like fools.

9.别人骂你一句，你会骂他一句，这叫吵架。别人赞美你一句，你回一句赞美，这叫社交。
9. When someone insults you, you insult them back; that’s called arguing. When someone praises you, and you return the praise, that’s called socializing.

10.重复的事，一定很无聊吗？太阳每天升起一次，降下一次，确实是非常重复的事，但我还是动不动就被日出和夕阳给打动啊。
10. Are repetitive things necessarily boring? The sun rises and sets once every day, which is indeed a very repetitive event, but I am still often moved by the sunrise and sunset.

11.你以为你喜欢的人就是你喜欢的人吗，喜欢从来都是误会。
11. Do you really think the person you like is the person you like? Liking someone has always been a misunderstanding.

12.镜子很脏的时候，我们并不会误以为是自己的脸脏；那为什么别人随口说出糟糕的话时，我们要觉得糟糕的是我们自己？
12. When the mirror is dirty, we don’t mistake our face for being dirty; so why, when someone casually says something terrible, do we think we are terrible?

13.除非那人，可以使你比单身时过得更好，不然何必为了那人脱离单身。
13. Unless that person can make your life better than when you were single, why leave single life for them?

14.人不要太任性，因为你是活给未来的你。不要让未来的你讨厌现在的你。
14. Don’t be too willful because you live for your future self. Don’t let your future self dislike your current self.

15.如果什么都不坚持只是一味的让步，那怎么会叫“妥协”？那叫“放弃”。
15. If you don’t insist on anything and just keep giving in, how can that be called “compromise”? That’s called “giving up.”

16.每做一事，最好只追求一个最在乎的目标，其余都可让步，这样达成目标的机会才高。
16. When doing something, it’s best to pursue only one most important goal, and be willing to compromise on everything else. This way, the chances of achieving the goal are higher.

17.我们哭了，才知道这就是伤心；我们跌倒，才知道这就是痛；我们爱了，才知道这就是爱。
17. We cry, and then we know this is sadness; we fall, and then we know this is pain; we love, and then we know this is love.

18.说话是一件靠自己用点心，就可以不断进步的事。而把话说好，收获最大，当然也是我们自己。
18. Speaking is something you can constantly improve by putting in a little effort. And speaking well brings the greatest rewards, of course, to ourselves.

19.批评的目的在于打动对方，使得对方能认识到自己的错误，回到正确的轨道上，而不是贬低对方。
19. The purpose of criticism is to touch the other person, making them realize their mistakes and get back on the right track, rather than belittling them.

20.预先把事情想到最惨，然后决定，那就算了吧，这是悲观。预先把事情想到最惨，然后决定，最惨也就这样，这是乐观。
20. Thinking of things as the worst in advance and then deciding, forget it, that’s pessimism. Thinking of things as the worst in advance and then deciding, this is as bad as it gets, that’s optimism.

21.我们有时候，感觉眼前的山谷好深，迎面刮来的风好强，我们忽然有了鹰的觉悟，于是，对爱展开翅膀，纵身跃去，放手一搏。
21. Sometimes we feel the valley in front of us is so deep, and the wind blowing towards us is so strong. We suddenly have the awareness of an eagle, so we spread our wings for love, leap, and take a chance.

22.人不要太任性，因为你是活给未来的你。不要让未来的你讨厌现在的你。
22. Don’t be too willful because you live for your future self. Don’t let your future self dislike your current self.

23.我并没有喜欢哪一种类型的人。如果我喜欢你，我喜欢的就只是你。
23. I don’t have a preference for any particular type of person. If I like you, what I like is just you.

24.恋爱最珍贵的纪念物, 是你留在我身上的如同河川留给地形的， 那些你对我，造成的改变。
24. The most precious souvenir of love is the changes you’ve made in me, like the way rivers leave their mark on the landscape.

25.对于幸福感高低的一个重要的判断标准是，可不可以常常保持对很多不喜欢的事情说不要。
25. An important criterion for judging one’s level of happiness is the ability to often say no to many things they dislike.

26.在说话之时，所有我们嫌弃别人、觉得别人表现得很差的部分，往往都是我们自己的问题。
26. When speaking, all the parts we dislike about others and think they perform poorly are often our own issues.

27.幸福没有一定的样子，因为幸福不是量产的。幸福是，每个人自己、边做边学、手工制作的。
27. Happiness has no fixed appearance because it is not mass-produced. Happiness is something each person creates on their own, learning and making it as they go.

28.留一点空当，让听的人消化，只要你的话值得一听，不用担心，对方一样会见识到你威力的。
28. Leave some space for the listener to digest. If your words are worth listening to, don’t worry, they will still appreciate your power.

29.如果只看合乎自己口味的书，那你永远只能知道你已经知道的事。
29. If you only read books that suit your taste, you will never learn anything new; you will only know what you already knew.

30.将来的你一定会感激现在拼命的自己。
30. Your future self will be grateful for the hard work you put in now.

31.在爱情里面，你竭尽所能地付出，有时只会换来竭尽所能的嫌弃。
31. In love, sometimes you give your all, only to receive rejection in return.

32.要分手就分手吧，不用说什么你配不上我这种话，我们又不是手机和充电器。
32. If you want to break up, just break up. There’s no need to say things like “you don’t deserve me.” We’re not phones and chargers.

33.你要把你的未来，全部通通交给他。你这是爱？还是懒？
33. Are you giving your entire future to him because you love him, or because you’re lazy?

34.除非那人，可以使你比单身时过得更好，不然何必为了那人脱离单身。
34. Unless that person can make your life better than when you were single, why bother leaving the single life for them?

35.你很重要，因为你就是你能拥有的全部。你存在，整个世界才存在。你看得到阳光，整个世界才看得到阳光。你失去平衡，世界就失去平衡。你消失，世界就消失。所以你很重要，你就是你能拥有的全部。
35. You are important because you are all you have. You exist, and the whole world exists. When you see the sunlight, the whole world sees the sunlight. When you lose balance, the world loses balance. When you disappear, the world disappears. So you are important, because you are all you have.

36.有时候，在恋情都已经结束了很久以后，我们才渐渐醒悟原来那时候我们爱那个人的方式，错了。然后，我们就忽然很想把那个人找回来，重新再爱一遍。
36. Sometimes, long after a relationship has ended, we gradually realize that the way we loved that person back then was wrong. Then, we suddenly want to find that person and love them all over again.

37.当我单向的爱着你的时候，我只好是太阳，我依靠我自己的光支撑。等到我终于也被你爱着的时候，我休息变成月亮，我依靠你的光，确认我存在。
37. When I loved you unilaterally, I had to be the sun, relying on my own light to sustain myself. When I was finally loved by you, I became the moon, relying on your light to confirm my existence.

38.你以为你对他的想念，已经到了极致了，已经不可能想念得更多了，结果，在某一个意想不到的时刻，你又成功的，比原来想他的程度，再更多想念他一点点。
38. You think your longing for him has reached its peak, that it couldn’t possibly be any stronger. Yet, at an unexpected moment, you find yourself missing him just a little bit more than before.

39.你说什么样的话，你就是什么样的人。
39. The words you speak define the person you are.

40.如果永远只看合乎你想法的书，你永远只会知道你已经知道的事。
40. If you only read books that confirm your ideas, you will never learn anything new; you will only know what you already knew.

41.讲话时最好自觉的降低音量 , 不光是因为太大声会吵到别人 , 而是因为如果一个人连自己的音量都控制不好, 会让别人很难信任你其他各方面的能力。
41. When speaking, it’s best to consciously lower your volume. It’s not just because being too loud disturbs others, but also because if someone can’t control their own volume, it makes others find it hard to trust their other abilities.

42.你不是英国女王，离场不必惊动大家。
42. You are not the Queen of England; you don’t need to make a grand exit.

43.适度的挑衅，绝对能让谈话热络。因为每个人都希望自己的意见被重视，被探讨，而不是被一个没有原则的人点头称是，敷衍了事。
43. Moderate provocation can definitely make a conversation lively. Because everyone wants their opinions to be valued and discussed, rather than being nodded and appeased by a person without principles.

44.有些人的生命没有风景，是因为他只在别人造好的、最方便的水管里流过来流过去。你不要理那些水管，你要真的流经一个又一个风景，你才会是一条河。
44. Some people’s lives have no scenery because they only flow back and forth in the most convenient pipelines created by others. Don’t pay attention to those pipelines; you need to truly flow through one scenery after another to become a river.

45.少给别人找麻烦的办法，就是把麻烦在自己手里解决掉。
45. The way to cause less trouble for others is to solve the trouble in your own hands.

46.幸福感的一个标准，是可不可以常常保持对不喜欢的事情说不要。
46. A criterion for happiness is whether you can often say no to things you dislike.

47.把无谓的胜利留给对方，懂得认输的人会说话。
47. Leave meaningless victories to the other party; those who know how to admit defeat are good at speaking.

48.蝴蝶这样美丽，蜘蛛看着，爱上了蝴蝶。蜘蛛忍不住在网上织出一句又一句「我爱你」，织成了森林中最美的一张网。蝴蝶很感动， 快乐的降落在网上，就被黏住，怎么挣扎都动不了，力气用完，蝴蝶就死掉了，死在无数句「我爱你」上面。蜘蛛看着眼前的这一幕， 不能明白发生了什么事情。 —-《康永，没人在乎的小报导》
48. The butterfly was so beautiful that the spider, watching it, fell in love. The spider couldn’t help but weave “I love you” over and over again on the web, creating the most beautiful web in the forest. The butterfly was touched and happily landed on the web, only to be stuck and unable to move no matter how hard it struggled. After exhausting its strength, the butterfly died, right on the countless “I love you” words. The spider, watching the scene before its eyes, couldn’t understand what had happened. —-From “Kang Yong, the Unconcerned News Report”

49.他们爱说「我从不去那种地方」,「我从不想那种事」,「我从不和那种人做朋友」。他们自认有原则, 但其实他们只是很害怕, 他们害怕 “ 改变 ” 。他们只愿死守住 不知谁硬塞给他们的那些没意思的想法, 过一辈子。唉, 做为植物的蒲公英, 都比他们勇敢啊, 敢让种籽飞翔去流浪。 —-《康永，给残酷社会的善意短信》
49. They love to say “I never go to such places,” “I never think about such things,” “I never befriend such people.” They consider themselves principled, but in fact, they are just very afraid. They fear “change.” They would rather stick to the uninteresting ideas that someone else has forced upon them and live their whole lives. Alas, even the plant dandelion is braver than them, daring to let its seeds fly away and wander. —-From “Kang Yong’s Kind Messages for a Cruel Society”

50.用了作不路边原谅，路边起以算了。我们没第小眼学久了的时候到天下觉得累了，我们跟自己说算了。我们于生有原谅对过觉，于生有气不一个错误十向只月中于了作学之求多小眼到原谅。我们只是累了，主第到天来想就种才还用算了，小眼到外风替我们把这件生这情撤销抹除，不表示我们该原谅。 —-《奇葩说》
50. We forgive by the roadside and let it go. When we have been learning for a long time and feel tired, we tell ourselves to let it go. We have forgiven and forgotten the past, and we have learned to forgive the mistakes of the past. We just get tired and want the wind to erase the feelings for us, but that doesn’t mean we should forgive. —-From “Qi Pa Shuo”

51.生种而来眼学的痛苦折磨得生种而来眼学快死了，生种而来眼学不着格觉得这种痛苦是“可替代”的。你这眼学是每讲，安慰不了生种而来眼学。 —-《蔡康永的说病轻只把成道》
51. The pain and torment from birth make people feel they are dying, and they can’t be consoled by words. —-From “Cai Kangyong’s Light Talk on Illness”

52.把对方看在眼里，放在心里。交谈时不时地望著对方，带一点点观察，让对望充分感觉到，她在你眼中的存在。让对方觉得被重视。 —-《蔡康永的说话之道》
52. Keep the other person in your eyes and in your heart. Occasionally look at the other person during a conversation, with a little observation, allowing them to fully feel their presence in your eyes. Make the other person feel valued. —-From “Cai Kangyong’s Art of Speaking”

53.得么主如中却的好打人相是，和有个人大作叫实一在自己的得么主如中却每叫要有格过风为么每叫要有格过风。和有个人大作想聊自己的感觉。我们和有次想说“我”时，尽量改成“你”或“要而却都”，主没自对再种能种别畅所欲言吧！ —-《蔡康永的说就子好打人大道》
53. It’s good to focus on others and talk about their feelings. When we want to say “I,” try to change it to “you” or “we,” so that others can express themselves more freely! —-From “Cai Kangyong’s Great Way of Speaking Well”

54.你的成长，如星上升。更多旅程，俟君发以时利也征。
54. Your growth rises like a star. More journeys await you in due time.

55.请避免在和新对笑样交对声要没时，下而说前得夫得的坏来下，将是第为一为们可以预感到：有一得夫得她得夫得，你也主作能这出可有还讲一为们 —-《蔡康永说来下还别时主事去道》
55. Please avoid talking negatively about your ex when interacting with someone new, as we can sense: if there’s someone who constantly speaks ill of their ex, you might also become a topic of conversation for them. —- “Cai Kangyong on How to Speak When Saying Goodbye”

56.你的人生就是你的，你感觉到风时，风才在吹；你把宇宙放在你的心里，宇宙才存在。其他的别人替你决定的、别人替你相信的、别人替你承认的，你也许要背负，但时候到了，你也可以放下。
56. Your life is your own. The wind only exists when you feel it blowing; the universe only exists when you place it in your heart. Other things that others decide for you, believe for you, or accept for you, you may have to bear, but when the time comes, you can also let them go.

57.烂学校只会考验我们的耐心，好学校才能考验我们的梦想和热情。
57. Bad schools only test our patience, while good schools can test our dreams and passion.

58.如何使用生命，简称使命。
58. How to use life, also known as one’s mission.

59.遇到对方提起了一个你完全不想接的话题，不要急着反抗，而是轻巧的把对方热衷的话题连接到一个很生活的方向，就行了。
59. When encountering a topic that you don’t want to engage in, don’t rush to resist, but instead, skillfully connect the topic they are passionate about to a more everyday direction, and that’s enough.

60.希望我们都继续像月亮，偶尔安慰一些寂寞的人。
60. I hope we can all continue to be like the moon, occasionally comforting those who are lonely.

61.我并没有喜欢哪一种类型的人 。如果我喜欢你，我喜欢的就只是你。
61. I don’t particularly like a certain type of person. If I like you, it’s just you that I like.

62.把无谓的胜利留给对方，懂得认输的人会说话。 —-《蔡康永的说话之道》
62. Leave the unnecessary victories to the other party; those who know how to admit defeat can speak well. —- “Cai Kangyong’s Art of Speaking”

63.知足是美德吗？成子看你的知足是哪一种，如果你感到知足了就，对生一多更有和用往下发想，作成你的知足好作是积极的，如果你说你只之如知足，说完了就，样才们对生一多越来越提不起劲来上，作成你的知足好作是消极的，这种知足最好免了
63. Is contentment a virtue? It depends on the type of contentment you have. If you feel content and it makes you more positive and motivated in life, then your contentment is positive. If you just say you are content and then become increasingly uninterested in life, your contentment is negative, and it’s best to avoid it.

64.那个年代， 尚无手机， 比较便于， 不经意的， 失去联络， 遗失彼此。
64. Back in those days, there were no mobile phones, making it easier to accidentally lose contact and lose each other.

65.这句话说的太漂亮，让人喝彩：你以为你喜欢的人就是你喜欢的人吗，喜欢从来都是误会。 —-《奇葩说》
65. This sentence is so beautiful that it deserves applause: “Do you really think the person you like is the one you like? Liking someone is always a misunderstanding.” —- “Qipa Talk”

66.谈过的恋爱，你都将不风可我像剪掉的头发，风一吹，如用声每飘样一了。 —-《爱了如用声每风可我了和不过来》
66. The relationships you’ve had will be like my hair that has been cut off; once the wind blows, it will float away as if it never existed. —- “Loved and Gone with the Wind”

67.爱人就该懒惰。身为别人的爱人，我们要勤于练习我们的懒惰——不该看见的事，我们就看不见；不必记住的事，我们就记不住；即使追究了也毫无意义的事，我们就非常懒得去追究。 —-《再错也要谈恋爱》
67. Lovers should be lazy. As someone’s lover, we should be diligent in practicing our laziness - we won’t see things we shouldn’t, remember things we don’t need to, and we will be very lazy in pursuing things that are meaningless even if we do. —- “Even If It’s Wrong, We Should Still Be in Love”

68.纽约人很多都很不耐烦，你要掏心掏肺，他们不一定有那个心情听呢。 —-《LA流浪记》
68. Many people in New York are impatient; if you bare your soul to them, they may not be in the mood to listen. —- “LA Wandering Chronicles”

69.女生为什么不适合追男生？女生太专情。 —-《奇葩说Ⅱ女生该不该主动追男生》
69. Why are girls not suitable for chasing boys? Girls are too dedicated. —- “Qipa Talk II: Should Girls Take the Initiative to Chase Boys?”

70.两个人在一起后，彼此感到幻灭，但仍然在一起。这就是爱的第二阶段了吧。互相放心了，不必再装了。
70. When two people are together and feel disillusioned with each other, but still choose to be together, that is the second stage of love, right? They feel at ease with each other and no longer need to pretend.

71.“有些厕所能够得到五颗星的评鉴，有些却只能得到两颗半……” 他翻着那份杂志对全国名厕所的评鉴报告，显出很感慨的样子—— “整个宇宙充满了竞争，即使身为厕所也无法避免，这就是人生。” —-《你睡不著我受不了》
71. “Some toilets can get a five-star rating, while others can only get two and a half…” He flipped through the magazine with the national toilet ratings report, looking very sentimental - “The entire universe is full of competition; even as a toilet, it cannot avoid it. This is life.” —- “If You Can’t Sleep, I Can’t Stand It”

72.我并没有喜欢哪一种类型的人。如果我喜欢你，我喜欢的就只是你。
72. I don’t particularly like a certain type of person. If I like you, it’s just you that I like.

73.将来的你一定会感激现在拼命的自己。
73. Your future self will definitely be grateful for the hard work you put in now.

74.如果想念你，他会找；如果想要你，他会说；如果在乎你，他会真情流露；如果这些都没发生，那么他就不劳你费心了。
74. If he misses you, he will search; if

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